Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) - What triggers your arousal/What works for you?

[Anonymous]

The guy I am fooling around with is into SPH (Small Penis Humiliation) and because I want to please himo badly... I want to learn more about this fetish/kink of his. I have always been open to BDSM and so this doesn’t come across as weird to me. On the contrary, I feel so empowered when I know that I am able to get him off by using trigger words or actions. I have done quite a bit of research on the subject (Small Penis Humiliation - SPH) but couldn’t find anything too exciting or explicitly informative... If you are into SPH (Small Penis Humiliation)... what are your go –to trigger that work every time your are with a partner? Also, isn’t repetitive to always tell him...”oh look at that small little dick of yours”, “look at that tiny little mushroom”... won’t he get bored and therefore no longer find those phrases arousing? Last but not least, would someone with a similar fetish be MORE willing to please his partner orally or by other means? PS: His dick is slightly below average size (4.5”) however fully erect his girth is about 6”... but he still is into SPH (Small Penis Humiliation).

[ShyBetaGuy]

Hey for me the key is surprise your right using the same lines over and over become repetative and most likely only arouse him cause it caught him off guard when he first heard it. Some guys like realistic SPH others like exagerated extreme insults others prefer more subtle. I personally prefer the cutsie flirty giggles and light mockery like awe its adorable. I think to make it exciting and less repetative think of head games.

e. g SPICE THINGS UP
Tell him I really want to please you baby and your dick is pretty small but I can still get a lot of pleasure from touching it licking and having it inside me Its kind of a turn off and distracting from my pleasure if I have to pretend to find your little dicky which is so adorable to me unsatisfying if I am constantly talking about how small your dick is I would you please let me try adoreing the pleasure I get from you and moaning it really helps me get off and Im sure you will enjoy it too you feel good enough for me to sound just like a woman with a real cock and well to be honest your almost as pleasurable as a proper cock Im sure if you let me get into it and pant and moan I will be able to have an orgasm using your baby dicklette um dont worry I didn't mean it I just call it that cause well giggles it turns you on.

Then for the next week or so have wild sex with him frequently moaning and faking orgasms and constantly complementing him on how satisfying he is then apoligise and say baby dont worry I will get better at SPH soon this just feels more natural.

[ShyBetaGuy]

Then find a way to let him accidentally find out you wanted to practice faking orgasms with him to see if your could do that convincingly and that the only reason you had trouble with SPH is you were scared to hurt his feelings but now you realised SPH will allow you to not have sex with him and accept any kind of relief you grant him like um babe not tonight but I will make fun of your little dick take care of your little problem for me hand him a rag and some lube. then oncce he thinks you will never fuck him again go back to having sex with him and say no babe of course I enjoy it I really only fake orgasms every once in a while you are pleasureable I only made you think your too small to please me cause it turns you on I bet you kinda almost enjoyed using your own hand while I mock you and giggle more than doggy style. I thought so well thanks for pleasing me to I love it when you give it to me doggy.

[ShyBetaGuy]

then let him over hear a fake phone call conversation and say No he thinks I am faking it but really I can do what he likes honestly I hold back a bit to not hurt his feelings at times. Why do I bother letting him do me and pretending to enjoy it? I dont know cause I love him and I want him to feel good. Well I still blow him or jerk him off when I make fun ot it and he does usually cum too fast for sex. Really? Guys will use their own hand if you ask them to its part of the humiliation? You been doing research? thanks He bought me lingerie today giggles I was like omg letting him pump away on top of at least 3 a day this week. You think so? so I just put on the lingerie then tell him to use his hand? Of course I will let you see it I will send selfies before I show him.

[ShyBetaGuy]

If I can make him use his hand without messing the outfit up I will wear it over to yours. OK awesome I will get changed now and ask him nicely to pull his little dick for me then come over and let you see it of course I can't wait no its kinda gross to do 2 guys in one day and I been practicing faking orgasms so to let him think I enjoy sex with him I kinda have to let him do it when ever he wants which is why I haven't been over but I am pretty sure asking him to use his hand will work if so I will be over tonight yay? MAKE SURE HE THINKS YOU didn't KNOW HE HEARD ANY OF IT. Then Sweetly approach him a few hrs later or the next day after he has thought about this heaps then say babe wanna see me in the lingerie you got me? try on a few and say you think its sexy? Like most guys would like it? So it makes you want to fuck me? Awesome. How do you wanna fuck me? oh really? hand him some lube and say would you still fantasize about me while masturbating really? t

[ShyBetaGuy]

No guys think about their girlfriends when they do that? can you show me how you do it? OMG thats so cute? Giggle and say sorry. Or does that turn you on? You thinking about fucking me? If you promise to cum in the next 2 mins I will fake an orgasm for you just like I been doing lately when I let you fuck me. No none of them were real. Giggles I probably lie less making fun of your little pecker except when I say oh its sooooooo cute or adorable or funny but I would prefer to do that than let you fuck me would that be ok if you use yoru hand from now on I will make fun of your little pecker just how you like it? um its not fair though if I bother to learn how to please you that I still have to let you fuck me the only reason I learnt about SPH is so I could ween you off pussy to my hand to your own hand soon I will be leaving you a note in bed telling you how to jerk it while I am out. OK hun make it burst 10 9 8 7 ok giggles 2 pump chump reliable at least I going out for the night

[ShyBetaGuy]

when you arrive home he asks where you been say If you dont make a big deal about where Ihave been or ask questions I will let you wank off to me tommorow I can fake an orgasm I guess ok one hand over panties and bra not under but only if you promise to cum fast yes Im still your girlfriend but I'm being nice enough to let you touch yourself and in exchange I get to limit how often you can touch me its only fair. I told you not to ask? Wait does cuckolding turn you on? Not sure? OK I think you will like it. But until you decide if you like the idea of me fucking a proper satisying cock while you wait for me to give you permission to use your own hand its best not to think about where I am going ok sweetie just think about how I will let you jerk it for me tommorow I probably won't let you touch me actually sorry I should save that for special occasions. You can still remember what they feel like ok if you promise to finish quickly I will let you do it hurry up put on the lube.

[ShyBetaGuy]

No Im being nice enough to let you jerk off for me now I am not putting on lingerie no I will let you touch me again but not till you get used to it anyway why you feel so urgent to use your hand thanks by the way for you know not making me feel mean by trying to fuck me or making me touch it I am letting you do it yourself cause you understand now its your job to take care of your little pecker you want me to tease your widdle dicky? its so cute? awe that turns you on doesn't it? I will fake an orgasm for you but you gotta promist to cum in the next 30 seconds ok Ohh uhh faster babe harder ooh uh quick hurry 15 seconds if you dont cum by then you gotta wait till tommorow hurry oooh aah your baby dicky is awesome giggles wooh there we go all done good boy.

[mysteriousgent]

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[Blazey]

I have a very specific preference when it comes to SPH. I just like her to tell me that it is definitely smaller than most guys’ cocks. I think it’s because I found that I enjoy the feeling that I have a small penis, but suspect that in reality it’s only a little below average.
I love being able to satisfy my woman with my cock and I’m not at all into the end of SPH where you are told that you’re worthless or unsatisfying.
I just want my woman to tell me something like this: “honestly, yes it’s true, most guys have bigger ones. Yours is a small one“
Even better if she tells me about specific men with bigger ones.
At the same time, being compared to a huge guy is kind of irrelevant. I crave being told that I’m smaller than most or smaller than average. If she also tells me that I’m small, but not tiny then it adds to the credibility of what she’s saying because it doesn’t sound like she’s exaggerating.
She is super-cool and un-judgemental about my fetish and very happy to indulge it. At the same time she makes sure I know that she finds sex with me very satisfying. Also I only play with the SPH fetish during foreplay. Once I start fucking then I do it hard and confidently. This way we can both enjoy my small dick fetish without letting it distort our relationship or ruin our sex life.

[NikkiBabyOo]

Have him take a cold shower so that his penis gets shriveled up and then, you be fully clothed, and make fun of how small his penis is while it’s as small as it gets. Maybe drop in on him when he’s not ready at times too, like rip his shower curtain open and tease him saying you saw how tiny his dick is and that you’re going to tell everyone

[SmallDStraightCuck]

perfect. Can we be friends?

[mistressnslave]

You pathetic litte dicklet look at that pussy looser. U think u coukd please me with that clit. my finger is bigger. My slave is maybe 2 2 inch soft 4 when hard so yea

[Ronan123456789]

Wow, I'm about 1.5 soft and 3.5 hard! What would you say to me about it

[dc1999]

😍 where can I find a woman like you?

[kiram]

Ma'am, I would like to meet you, if you permit me to do so

[wannabecuckold]

That's absolutely perfect!! My flirty is soo pathetic that it actually goes inside.. I can finger myself to orgasam!! Panties are the only thing I wear.. men's underwear are too bulky in the front to be comfortable.

[AustinMan]

Just take charge and think about what someone might say is you were very flat chested. Point and giggle. Shoot a photo to "show your friends" and "his enemies."

[MadeInAmerica]

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Honestly I have no clue. It's crazy the amount of fetishes that exist. Human beings we are so fucking weird haha.

[lildkman1090]

I love sph I like being teased at first

[Billlewis]

Lots of laughter and ridicule, telling all your girlfriends that you're dating a guy who has the smallest penis you've ever seen, etc.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

Sorry, I couldn't see your comment.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

it would have been unbelievable if you hadn't weighed in on your opinion about SPH.

[Billlewis]

@BlissfullyCurSed Yes, Sir.

[NJ_Casanova]

Never understood, this fetish... It's like need to get spit/shit on, golden showers, WTF? I guess I'll never being on the other end of the spectrum;-)

[Leavesbound]

Based on what most women have told me on the subject, girth is more important than length. 6" girth is above average. 5" girth is average.

As for humiliation, make a list of his trigger words and don't bother using words and phrases that don't trigger. Repeated use of trigger words will not bore him it will enhance the experience, even the same trigger words over and over. Common words and phrases are "pathetic" "tiny" "clit dick" etc. "you're not a real man with a tiny pathetic little clit like that!" "That thing is WAY too tiny to put in a woman, she wouldn't even feel it!" Things like that usually do the trick but there may be more specific ones that do it for him. Often SPH is accompanied with cuckolding and feminization. And yes I believe he will be very eager if you tell him that he'll have to make love to you like a lesbian does with his tongue. He should probably become very horny hearing you talk like that to him and be very eager to do his best to give you a decent orgasm. You may consider having him use a dildo on you while doing so. If you prefer a dildo that is larger than his penis then make sure you point out that the dildo in question is quite small but it will do. This will enhance the humiliation all the more. If you REALLY want to make his day, invite a bunch of female friends over for a gathering, have him wait on you like a servant and have the group of you make him the constant butt of penis size jokes. Ridicule his hand and foot size making lots of innuendo and perhaps even have some ask you when you are going to trade the little boy in for a real man. These things don't always work for someone who has a SPH fetish but they do work for most guys who do and at the very least engage in conversation for him to find out how to best enhance his humiliation experience for optimum affect. If you do this right you will have a very loyal boyfriend forever.

[Claire2002]

I don't know if it woukd be too much for him and if he would be fine being a cuck, but I have a fantasy that keeps me excited.

Me having a lower boyfriend with a tiny shrimp, going around to flirt with men. He has to help me hooking up with men because he cannot satisfy me, so it's his duty to compensate me by helping me sleeping with a real man.

We go around together clubbing, where he sees me flirting and evem having sex (in front of his eyes) with other guys. In the end he has to thank the guy for satisfying me, and pay out of his pocket for a can to send the guy back home.

[Billlewis]

That would be a dream come true, Goddess ❤️

[BlissfullyCurSed]

@billlewis how could you miss that question. That is right up your alley!

[BlissfullyCurSed]

add a question mark instead of the full stop.

[Billlewis]

I answered it nine months ago;)

[aceleon]

he will be a cuckold in the future so give me a call when you search for a bull with a bigger dick to humiliate him more.

[MRTICKLE]

Hi there, I am a guy aged 47 with a small penis and it doesn't bother me, after all I can not change what I have. When I am flaccid, it looks like I don't even have much of a penis.
I masturbate often and am able to get erect up to about 5 to 6 inches on a good day. 4 inches on a slightly lesser good day and sometimes when I am masturbating I do imagine myself being teased by a woman about my size. i. e. she is laughing at me and telling me I am small, useless and pathetic and that I would not be able to satisfy a woman with my cock, she continues to ridicule me and shows all her girl friends photos of my little penis and balls and they all laugh at me. Sometimes I take it a stage further and have in my imagination her threatening me that my cock an balls should be removed as they are no good to any woman and I should be punished simply for being small. This for some reason excites me a little and makes my masturbation sessions more fun. I wouldn't say I am into SPH as such but I do imagine a woman laughing and teasing me about my size so I guess it is kind of SPH. In real life it would not be nice to have a woman take the mickey or laugh at me for having small penis

Women can be cruel and I think that when you first undress in front of a woman she is going to see a flaccid penis and that is the first impression she gets of you, perhaps not realising that you may grow a few inches on arousal.

My small penis is partly due to glandular hypospadias, (you can google this) it means I also have to sit to pee otherwise it goes everywhere.

By the way your into BDSM, would you ever tie a guy up and tickle him. I am so looking for a woman to do this to me. I am also a very good tickler and would say i have a tickling fetish.

I sometimes imagine a woman with long nails tickling my little balls which would drive me crazy.

[luckynumberthirteen]

Cuckolding maybe?

[Billy552]

Ask if he's in yet? During sex

[kiram]

Gift him with cute and tight panties

[Liacc]

Former ridicule, and embarrasing episodes. And the harsh treatment from peers both boys and girls.

If i wasn't into sph and other fetishes, i would have absolutely No self esteem, and be insecure as fuck. (Im very unhung)

Maybe i developed the fetish to survive? Who knows 😅

[genericname85]

honestly i really don't get what people get out of humiliation in general at all xD

[tfan1]

One thing I’ve noticed about sph (when girls say penis it turns me on). Is that its sph small Penis humiliation - most vids say dick or cock, hardly ever penis. And from what I’ve heard and seen on pornos that is usually gets a girl going, saying cock or dick. But when you say penis - you targeted the actual correct name of the body part. Say penis instead of other things. Also try doing a teasing voice as well. Good luck 🙂

[Dr-Caustico]

Does wonders for me, when she compares my cock with her ex'es!!!
Also, I like when she actually measures my penis, as if it was the first time she sees it, and makes a deep dissapointment face.
Last week, she told me she was gossiping with her friends about penis size of their boyfriends, and how she felt so embarrased to have the boyfriend with the smallest cock.

[ivorlongan18]

My dick is tiny when flaccid but 7.5 inches when erect and love it when a girl first sees it soft then see the expression on their face watching it grow nearly all of them say its such a turn on

[cou82]

33m hi i am 1.5 soft and 4.9 errect and i enjoy some humiliation. general laughing is great along. sometimes her struggling to cum during sex is pretty arousing. telling me more... harder... calling it names works but is difficult if does not seem sincere. i also enjoy her stroking it to orgasm with her 2 fingers and cuming all over. love it shaved. and sometimes she strokes it with a sock. she will use the clear fleshlight at times to enjoy seeing how unfull it is with 4+ inches of depth left over. also she has shared pictures and told many of her friends about my size which is extremely embarrasing and humiliating when they are around. and i do think i would be more willing to give oral pleasure as it has become my number one favorite to be honest i love to lick her through 2 or 3 orgasms and hear her moan and twitch with pleasure

[SmolSlav]

To me it's the more casual mention of the size with some jokes about it sometimes just mentioning once or twice in a conversation then maybe smirking or giggling a little really goes a long way.