How do you react when things get dirty during anal sex?

[Nylena]

Okay, we all know it can happen. Yesterday I met a nice guy and we ended up having sex. I was about an hour before to the toilet and we knew from our earlier discussion that both of us like anal sex so we did that too. But after a couple of minutes when he pulled out there were some shit stains on his dick. Not much but of course you don't wanna have any of those on your skin so he went quickly to the bathroom. It took less than a minute until he was back and wanted to continue but my mood was ruined. It wasn't the first time it happened and I had much worse, I do anal sex for quite some time now and if you don't do an enema you have to expect this to happen, but it was still kinda emberassing even though it didn't seem to bother him much. But I wasn't in the mood anymore, I let him continue and tried to not show anything of that but I asked him to cum which he did so it ended quickly after that. When that happened with my ex bf we usually continued after cleaning but yesterday was different. Maybe it's because I didn't know him, I don't know. What do you do when that happens? Do you continue as if nothing happened or does that mean the end too for you? Or does that depend on how messy things got, lol? Interested to hear some opinions.

[Anonymous]

"you don't wanna have any of those on your skin"
does that mean you didn't use condoms? with a stranger? for anal sex? that sounds super risky to me. and probably let him cum in you too?

but to answer your question... it happened once with my bf. but we used condoms so we changed them and continued. but only vaginal sex after that.

[Nylena]

yes but let that be my problem.

[JonJames]

Ass to Mouth is the only answer for quick cleanup and continued session.

[Yumira]

ergh I do occasionally anal sex but that sounds a little bit gross. never had that happen and hope it stays like that but I know there is always a tiny risk. but it would probably be the end for that day.

oh and like other people here already said... going bareback with a stranger... that's "brave". hope it's worth the risk

[Ersacol28]

OMG seriously? Girl you need to do a colonic session before Having anal that's what I do and I promise nothing will come out if you can't afford a colonic use an enema they come two in a box so you can do both before anal so things won't get messy

[Nylena]

thanks. I do anal for 10 years now and in 99% of the time just going to the toilet is enough why I don't do enemas. additionally, doing them regularly is not very healthy.

[Anonymous]

Well it's normal. It hapened to me twice. I felt awkward and so embarrassed. He seems to take it easy lol. If he didn't make any fuss of it I guess you've nothing to worry about.

[Nylena]

thanks. It's not that I was worried about it... it was just kinda embarrassing then the mood was gone

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I understand. I was like that too. It took me some time to make me feel better.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[JonJames]

Who cleaned the dick? I find it more intimate when she cleans my dick for me and I clean her ass. Usually that is when you can start up again and not kill the mood entirely.

[Shibboza]

It happens but as long as she didn't notice I'd just keep on going. If I would be afraid of having some shit on my dick then I wouldn't have bareback anal sex with some random girl I don't know.
If she noticed and wants to clean it or if we change back do vaginal sex then I'd go clean it and continue.

[Nylena]

haha nice :)

[Shibboza]

thanks for mho lol

[AustinMan]

I keep wipes by the bed. If that happens, I don't even tell her. I just wipe it off and go right back at it.

[Nylena]

haha good idea thanks :)

[broadsword]

More good quality lube. This stops it even more.
From a guys point of veiw if your woman gives you her ass then your just so turned on it does not matter.

[Nylena]

haha okay thanks.

[Octavion]

So I've never done anal because I've always thought it was gross and now after reading this I know that no point in my life will I ever do anal. That's just beyond gross. Was he not wearing a condom? That just an infection on the dick waiting to happen...

[Nylena]

Well, to everyone it's own. You can do an enema before to be sure it's clean but I've been doing it for about 10 years now and in 99% of the time, going before to the toilet is enough.

[Jusjay]

I though that guy has some guts to go clean up 'quickly' and return like nothing happened. Credits to you too, for not using protection with a guy you don't know. But hey, the world is for risk takers, isn't it?
Oh, and that's just gross.

[Tokana]

It's never happened and I hope it stays that way. It'd kill my mood outright. Cuddle n sleep.

[skeptic007]

ANAL CAUSES STDs how do people not know that

[Nylena]

1. I know the risks. let that be my concern. 2. that was not the question

[Mr2kinky]

No matter how messy. Keep good night. I don't care if it gets messy.

[rodcassidy]

I want you

[gcode82]

What! Just you met him seen some dirty this come out and you act like nothing?

[Anonymous]

I'd let you lick it clean and continue ;-)

[Opinion Owner]

I'd love to fuck the shit out of you, literally

[Nylena]

ehm, maybe another time lol

[Opinion Owner]

but you would do it? a clear "no" sounds different to me ;) I need to meet a girl like you!

[Anonymous]

I haven't done anal before and that just confirmed for me that it's not something I want to do...
I imagine shit stains on his dick is one of those things that is just part of it -you either deal with it or stop doing it.

[Nylena]

you can do an enema if you wanna be safe, then it shouldn't happen.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok... still not apoealing for me. Do you actually enjoy it or do you just do it for the guy? doesn't it hurt?

[Nylena]

I enjoy it. Not gonna do something I don't like for a guy I barely know. It's definitely not better than vaginal sex, but still pleasurable. You have a lot of nerves there and your clit/g-spot gets indirectly stimulated. If I combine it with vaginal stimulation (fingers, toys, etc.) it can be very intense and make it easier to orgasm (at least for me). It doesn't hurt if you do it right. But you need a lot of experience, there is a lot you can do wrong. Just thinking about what could happen is enough that it hurts because you don't fully relax which is very important. I can understand why people don't like the idea of anal sex, I totally respect that. But should you ever change your mind do your first experiences by yourself with a small toy and have a lot of patience. It's possible that you don't like the feeling, but like I said, it shouldn't hurt when done right. Lots of girls have their first time with an inexperienced guy which usually ends bad and then they never try again.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the information - I can't imagine wanting to try but you never know, I guess.

[JonJames]

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