Was my boyfriend being loving or possessive?

[Anonymous]

So before any further comment is made, I realize that 17 (my boyfriend 18) is very young to be sexually active, however, we are both sophomores in college (I know thats weird but we both recieved early admissons to college due to stellar performance in high school), steps toward contraception were taken, and both of our parents were informed of this decision. Now to my question: after intercourse we talked for a while (which he initiated and I found that odd given that everything I've read says thats guys generally just want to go to sleep and be left alone after sex) and then I turned over to go to sleep. He curled up behind me and (gently) grabbed my leg and said "This is mine", then grabbed my butt and said "this is mine", then my vagina and said it, my stomach and said it, my breast and said it, and then he turned my face to his and said "these lips are mine", and he kissed me. At the time I felt all warm and fuzzy because of all the post-sex hormones, but now that my head is clear, I'm not sure if he was being loving or possessive. This isn't the first time he's said something like this; a few months back he said "You're all mine" during a make out session. He said it all in a very gentle way, and I'm not exactly concerend about this behavior, but if it is particularly possessive I would like to know so that I can address it early before it becomes a larger issue in the future. So, guys and gals, was my boyfriend being loving or possessive? If you need any further information to make your decision please feel free to ask!

[macncheese]

It's loving. It's a cute gesture, he's just showing how much he loves you, all of you. He doesn't mean you're his in a creepy or controlling way, but just that he loves having you to himself/as his girlfriend

[macncheese]

Thanks for MHO

[kaylaS91]

More loving. It's pretty equivalent to him saying you're 'his girl'.. as in his girlfriend, his girl to love and all the good stuff.

[sterah]

Are you kidding me. That's love at it's peak. It's so cute. And he is also yours, tell him that next time.

[Antizzl]

I think he's just being playful. He loves you (even if he hasn't said it). If he doesn't let you out of his site or let you do things on your then there might be problems.

[9mfeo]

More loving than possessive, I think.

[arianna15]

loving, that is really cute and nice

[Skadouchebag]

That's definitely love.

[Anonymous]

Loving = possessive. You rarely get one without the other.

[Asker]

That is very true