There is such a thing as bad sex.
I like sexually open women who love to experiment. Some women just hate that and when you are incompatible in bed that translates into bad sex. I received some terrible BJs (I know that I should be grateful for even getting some), too much teeth, not enough suction, keeping my dick in her mouth like a dead slug, spitting etc. I also hate when the woman is silent and giving me no bodily feedback. If I'm doing something wrong I prefer her to tell me about it to learn and better myself. It's also disappointing when the woman hates my semen and wants to run to the bathroom right after sex. It's very annoying when a woman can't kiss properly and wants to swallow you whole.
Sure, there is such a thing as bad sex. Just because we are guys, it doesn't mean that we automatically think all sex is fantastic. We're not quite that simple.
If the girl doesn't show any enthusiasm, it will suck. Just laying there like a limp noodle, giving us no feedback, and constantly making us do all the work is no fun.
I mean, she doesn't have to be a gymnast, climbing all over us, or anything, but we'd at least like to know that she is into it. She can suggest things, move around a little bit, and let us know that it's not a chore for her, otherwise it can be pretty unsatisfying.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Definitely. I was just saying on another question, enthusiasm is key with girls. I've run into a few in my travels that just laid there like they didn't know what to do and could take or leave being there. Hard to put in a good performance when the girl is all clammed up.
What do you mean enthusiasm? Like making noise or facial expressions? Or talking?
Yeah, I suppose that all qualifies as enthusiastic behavior. But it has to be real, not contrived. Fake enthusiasm is cheesy and easily read. I feel like with a lot of girls they either have "it" or they don't. Some girls just have that overtly sexual vibe to them. But I think any girl can do it, it just has to come from being comfortable with themselves. Don't be afraid to let loose and let out your inner freak. No guy is ever going to be like, " well the sex was ok I guess, but she was just WAY too into it."😆
If the awkward doesn't really go away and it's instantly awkward after, you regret it.
Enthusiasm is the main antidote to this.
Bad? I think "unsatisfying" is probably a better word. Though other factors such as a negative attitude, poor hygiene and uncomfortable surroundings can make for a less than pleasurable experience.
Yes because she didn't let me finish.
I have been with two girls who were really lazy in bed. One of them came, then decided it was over and she needed a smoke. Yay for me.
Yes of course specially if one or both party does not know what they are doing.
for us guys, we don't care about good or bad sex in the sense that you guys do (moves, how you get off, etc .)
If we are having sex with you, it is good sex, unless it is in a relationship and the girl clearly isn't enjoying it.
Defiantly YES.
I had couple of girls with what I just can't end even they where really hot. It depends how tight your muscles are down there.
And there are other type of girls, sometimes they are not even the hottest ones, but you can't keep your first time longer than couple of minutes. Those are the best orgasms I had. And yes it's because everything down there are very tight.
I have never had bad sex.
Sex is amazing and I can't get enough.
Yes if the women for example stinks cigarretes and perfume, I can't even get it up.
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