My boyfriend doesn't believe I am a virgin?

[Anonymous]

Okay so, I finally had sex with my boyfriend ( after 3 months of waiting ) I was a virgin so I wanted to wait longer just to make sure i'm comfortable and ready. I've always wanted to be prepared for my first time, so I've gotten a lot of tips/ pointers from my "experienced" friends and some online (porn/tumblr blogs/woman mags... etc) SO with that being said, when it happened with my boyfriend, it actually went amazingly well. Unlike me, my boyfriend have had a lot more sexual experience than I do and he said Im the first girl he actually came twice with and can still be hard for awhile afterwards to go for a third round (but he didn't want to tire me out). he was really surprise to learn that I am a virgin, and doesn't seem to believe me, should I just tell him that I prepared and all that?

[abundantlyrich]

That's because you didn't tell him about it? You gave him a good run. Unless you want a pat from him to say well done you did good in the bedroom?

[Asker]

I did tell him about it, before and after and he was really loving about it but just skeptical, not mad or anything though.

[abundantlyrich]

Why does it bother you? He isn't accusing you of cheating

[Asker]

I'd like him to think that I gave him my first time, because it is something really important to me, I am not getting angry at him, just don't want him to think that I am "experienced" (been with lots of guys before.) when I am not

[abundantlyrich]

You already told him twice. You can't make him be romantic about it. I'm sorry to hear you gotten a medicore reaction from him.

[Asker]

I suppose, well at least we'll have a good sex life. lol thank you for opinion nonetheless.

[Anonymous]

Tell him you were well prepared.
It's like acing an exam you studied for

[Rloco]

Yeah go ahead and tell him. That just means you did a really good job your fist time props 😜

[Asker]

Thank you for ur input, I was so nervous!

[Rloco]

Yeah complete honesty is always best. Go for it.

[OlderAndWiser]

He should trust you without the need to prove the truth of your statements.

[Asker]

So should I just tell him that him that it bothers me that he doesn't believe me and see what he says?

[OlderAndWiser]

"I trusted you enough to give you my virginity and you don't trust what I tell you?" Maybe he doesn't want to believe that you were a virgin because he would feel guilty about that. . . but that is not a justification for not believing you.

[anonymous010101]

u had sex why do u care if he believes u or not? if he doesn't that mean he doesn't really love u..

[Asker]

Well I'd want him to think that I am and he was my first time, you know?

[anonymous010101]

just tell him it's ur first time.. either he'll believe it or leave it

[Kapooya]

Dump his asssssss