Girls, do any of you have tips for giving a good blow/hand job?

[Anonymous]

I asked a similar question to just guys a few days ago and all I got was ridculous and rude answers. So, I thought I would try seeing what just ladies had to say. I've been seeing this guy for a little while now, we are not officially dating with the whole boyfriend/girlfriend lables, but we are seeing eachother exclusivley. We have done a few sexual "things" together (I'm not sure how else to say that so it sounds sort of funny). But it has been him doing them for me. Like fingering, etc ,. We haven't had sex or anything else like that--Im sure that is obvious haha. I feel bad that I haven't reciprocated in any way, and I would like to. He is the first guy I have done anything besides just makeout with and we really like eachother! I really want to give him a blow/hand job. The main thing that is stopping me is being way nervous! I know that he has eperience with these things so I just dont want to embaress myself! Like I said, I really like him! Also, Im not saying it will ruin the relationship if I did happen to do something to embaress myself, but I would rather just not go through that! Anyway, I would love some tips! Thanks in advance ladies!

[answeris42]

Okay Anonymous! Here's my scoop on what I reckon drives my man nuts. Now, before I get started, I am self taught with the whole head and hand job process, porn videos really are mostly over the top and unrealistic but sometimes a few little tipcms can be picked up so I'd suggest you watch a few anyway, just for some references.

But anyway, I find slow is the biggest winning part of the experience. If you want to give him the greatest head job in the world, it's all about showing your enjoyment. I sometimes start off by using the tip of my tongue and gently 'tongue stroke' my man's balls, all the way from where the balls start above from the asscrack area, it's very sensitive down there and men love balls being included. Then I fully suck my man's balls taking each then both in and 'take a break' kissing his chest/body/sides/hips etc, and sucking his nipples etc, then squeezing his nipples with thumbs and index fingers while continuing to kiss his body. Feel free to lick up chocolate sauce etc in just little amounts or it gets messy. Grab out the whipped cream and spray a little star on the tip of his penis and only suck the cream off without his penis being included, by this point he will be going insane.. :D

Then use that magic tongue and use the tip of it to swirl it very slowly around his shaft and even straight up and down. If he has foreskin it's even better because the skin holds in the pre cum but yah, it will still leak out so be prepared to get some sticky stuff in your mouth or on your tongue. Anyway keep playing with your tongue till he shows the groans are satisfying. Then more cream on his penis head if you want or are little hesitant about the pre cum and this time oh baby go straight down and suck away gently for a while at first then speed it up for the poor boy and go as fast as you can, close your eyes if you're enjoying it as it should be pleasurable for you too. He will see your enjoyment and this will turn him on. Your jaw may get sore...

[answeris42]

... from this new experience but when in doubt slow down or 'take a break' which prolongs the foreplay and you can always replace your mouth for your hand but don't jerk him hard as it can be painful for him, so gently but swiftly and he will be happy. Never pull back foreskin prematurely, it could be painful so normally, wait till he is mid way his session, then just gently peel the banana skin so the head is visible, if it comes up, just hold gently in place with thumb and index finger, the head will be 'raw' and 'exposed' pulsing red from the blood rushing to it, and use your tongue and suck techniques and wow, he will be uncontrollably in heaven. Then hand or mouth the finale and hang in there until he cums. Men take a while to cum unless they've not had any action for a while. The more they have something, the longer the cum takes to ejactulate. Spit or swallow? I think for your first time and to make a guy happy, swallow the cum in your mouth like a dessert is had after dinner :)

[Minxxie]

The first time I gave my boyfriend a blowjob he spent like an hour giving me oral for the first time and so we snuggled because it kind of made me tired from the orgasms. Then I asked if he wanted oral and he said he'd never had oral either (even though he'd been with someone before me) so I just kinda went slow and took it easy and he said he didn't feel comfortable having me swallow so he was going to tell me when he was about to cum (I can tell now before he even tells me). So basically I just started teasing the head with my tongue and gently pumping the shaft then I put the whole tip in my mouth and swirled my tongue around and just kept trying different things and paying attention to how he reacted. Don't try to deep throat! porn stars who do that in porn are either too high to notice the pain or they have dental numbing gel in their throat. The human throat was not made for doing that! Just use your hand on the shaft and lick up the shaft now and then, the only part that really needs to be fully in your mouth is the head and maybe half the length but don't force yourself or make yourself gag! Also gently play with the balls a little haha! Mainly just take it easy and focus on how he reacts. Then I always finish him off with my hand using a lot of pressure, I love that because then I get to watch his face as he orgasms, when we have sex I kind of miss it because I'm too busy having my orgasm I can't really pay attention to other things very well!

[Anonymous]

Just suck that thing like it's a tasty lollipop... you can only get better with practice. I enjoy it almost as much as sex. My x got me hooked on bus. He would chase me around the house on blow job Wednesday every week... fun.. swallow it , try to like it's yours. Grab his hard disk at the base and follow ur mouth up and down.