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My boyfriend saw me naked and he's acting strange?

We're both 20 and we've been dating for a year. We've never had sex and although we do stuff he has never seen me naked. I am a really shy person and i'm really conscious about my body.. So last weekend i was staying at his and as he went out to shop i went to take a shower.. When he came he just barged in and i screamed of the shock ans he just stared at me. I was too shy to talk about it with him and he didn't said anything either he is just staring at me all the time. He seems strange about me and all he does is staring at me... Have I scared him off?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Nooooo
    but his mind has just been shocked
    now it has to combine a naked gal with his girlfriend and come up with an equation...
    also afoot is the big question... do I want that naked body to be The Naked Body in my life forever?
    ... confused more by... should I pursue these naked inspired sexual urges with my girlfriend... or cut & run in the name of honor?

    It's time for a TVmovie, popcorn on the sofa together (no others) to snuggle up and say "a penny for your thoughts" ... eventually, he will either come clean OR stay away until he has resolved most of these issues

  • Sounds like he is about as embarrassed as you are about it. You have a couple of choices; first talk to him let him know it embarrassed you. or Second Ignore it, just blow it off, he's probably already imagined what you look like naked, now he knows! I wouldn't let it bother me, I imagined what my guy looked like without clothes, you probably may have thought about yours that way too. sooner or later you will probably share a good laugh about this happening!!

  • thats the first time I've heard of 20 year olds dating for a year and never seen each other naked? How do you "do stuff"? In total darkness?

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think the problem was not that he saw you naked but that you literally screamed your ears off when you were seen by Someone you have been dating for OVER A YEAR. Most people would tell him to date someone who actually comfortable with the idea of an exclusive relationship before jumping into one, then acting like seeing each other without clothes is a sin or something.

  • Not at all. Do a quick little strip for him and tell him he can look as closely anywhere as he wants. Then ask him to do the same. Get past the shyness.

    • Thanks for the MHO. How'd it go?

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  • Um... Apparently so. I'm sorry...

  • Maybe he is shy

  • It's because you were screaming, it made him think he did something really wrong. So out of embarrassment, he'll be acting strange.

  • No i highly doubt you scared him off.. he should of said something to you
    some guys do that stuff and it puts a girl on the spot and sometimes we
    do things without thinking.

  • I believe he was turned on and aroused. He may have been in shock too. But in a good way. Now when he looks at you with clothes, he is wanting you naked,. And probably mentally undressing you.
    YOU DID NOT SCARE HIM AWAY.

  • Lol no.

    May be he wants to see more of it.

  • no, he probably can't stop think about what you like naked and he wants to see it again

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