Probably because he's having a last minute attack of conscience hon. You should be grateful. A one night stand with someone who you're crushing on is not the way. Find a nice guy who wants to date you and wait til you're established before giving your virginity. You deserve the best experience and should hold out in order to give yourself that. I know you're probably in the grip of hormones, especially as you like this guy, but you gotta learn to rein it in and may as well start now. Otherwise 'it' and men in general will rule you.
Thank him for his consideration, take it off the table and let him know you're going to keep it for a proper boyfriend. You never know, he might even step up, but if not, you saved yourself the heartache.
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You're welcome, and, thanks for MHO 😊
First of all, KUDOS to him!! He's now being a respectable human being. Sex complicates things. A LOT of things! You say that you don't want a relationship now, but chances are, one of you will in the end. Sex makes situations like this so difficult. And he's right. You should be losing your virginity to someone who you love. He doesn't want you to regret your decision in the morning because this is one you won't ever get back. I think he did/is doing the right thing. I know that's not what you want to hear but I'm sorry.
0 0 0 0It wasn't what I wanted to hear, you're right. Took me a couple days to get to that conclusion but he was right. And considering how he feels about sex and can have it so casually, I guess I should be happy he cares enough to not just go there and walk away after. Thanks for your comments :)
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He probably means what he says that he doesn't want to take your virginity and then leave afterward and leave you feeling empty.
0 0 0 0Just wait a few weeks and if you feel the same way suggest it again.
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