You will never be able to do it if you can't role play. Try to keep in mind that your acting and act like you are a dominatrix. Check out some BDSM sites. No matter how much leather, latex, feathers, cuffs etc you have, you won't be able to pull if off w/o confidence.
Maybe you should try to one up him. Instead of being concerned with what he wants, see if you enjoy the role and take it further than he ever imagined. When you have a stiletto heel on his neck while your are watching porn and masturbating might rock his boat in a "be careful what you wish for" way.
2 suggestions:
For you, if he gives decent oral: straddle him (69 position is fine), line his tongue up, settle down on him, and let that one muscle of his that's not tied up get to work :) You can gently play with things if you've got enough attention, if you like.
For him, you can give him a really slow handjob. If his nipples are sensitive, you can randomly play with them with one hand while the other one's busy.
Easy start, anyway ;)
You can always untie him for further sex if you like.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Don't use handcuffs. Simple idea yes but cuts off circulation and causes numbness and eventual nerve damage.
Best to get a beginner bed bondage set.
Here is an example:
www.amazon.com/.../B005LE6OG4
Your boyfriend may be into BDSM.
Not sure on what level though... If all he wants is some light bondage, then sure, go for it. All in all, it's reasonably fun, to some degree.
Though, research carefully. There are creepy fucks on the Internet, and the video/photography community happily caters to them.
So, tie him up and blindfold him! Have fun! You can't be forced to so something that you don't want to do, but you might have fun be so completely in charge. It's not all about him having fun; once he's blindfolded, you can sit on his face and make him lick until you beg him to stop!
Tie him up and blindfold him. Your mentality should NOT be "What would he like me to do," but rather "What do I want to do to him?" Just go nuts and experiment. The more authentic you can be about your own desires to him, the more passionate and intimate it becomes. Being genuinely interested in exploring his body and doing it authentically leads to the "mind blowing sex" people keep talking about.
Go for it... but have a code word which means "game over" and the ropes come off. Tie him up, blind fold him Slowly take off is clothing, and tease him until he is ready to orgasm... then stop for a while... keep repeating... he will go crazy.
He's giving you the opportunity to treat him like your bitch. Tie him up and get a whip, blindfold is ESSENTIAL** because he can't see you then, so everything you do is sexy and anticipated! Also he can't see you, so you can dance around him, or pull funny faces, it really doesn't matter. Because he can't see or move you can be however you like. Good advice, top comment. Please vote now for your chance to win, a free blindfold to use on your boyfriend!
Cowgirl up!
Also, try watching a few tutorials on YouTube. Actually can help.
Guys Never let a female tie you up!! She'll destroy you.
After he is tied up and blindfolded, wait a few minutes before doing anything make no noise make him think you left him there then start giving him light touches and kisses in his erogenous spots. act like you are going to give him a bj (lick up the shaft and maybe one little suck) straddle his face grab a fist full of hair and force him to give you oral. talk dirty to him while doing this. Tease him like this to the point he starts to shake (you will know what I mean when it happens). At this point go just a little longer and then give him what he wants. Also a good idea is if you know something that he doesn't want done to him like any anal insertion tease hime with it buy rubbing a finger over that spot lol. the possibility of you doing anything you want to him and him not being able to do anything about it will make it so much more exciting for him. and possibly for you as well.
then just do it babe
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