Does anyone else absolutely hate drunk sex?

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I don't mix well with alcohol... Even just half a bottle of wine and I am just not in the mood. Usually I am stuck in between somwhere though... Where I can have sex, but I won't be able to cum, not even after like an hour. I have been trying to get sex before me and my girlfriend go out anymore because I know when we come back after a few hours of heavy drinking, it will be a choir to even get it up... but she really enjoys the build up to sex and doesn't like spoiling th enight by having sex before we go out. Usually though, we both end up disapointed with some fingering for her and me unable to perform... Girls, do you enjoy drunk sex? Any guys feel the same as me on this?

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kaylaS91 Influencer
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I enjoy sex after a little bit of drinking, but definitely not half a bottle of wine. Probably at most a bottle/can of beer, just to get more relaxed and get rid of any inhibitions that I may have at the moment.

I have experienced 'whiskey dick/clit' on both myself as well as my boyfriend, so that's definitely possible when you've drank too much. Alcohol is a depressant after all right so... yeah, moderation is key. Cut back on the amount till you find the level that will still make sex almost more enjoyable once in a while.
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- Asker
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  I have never heard of girls having too many troubles from it, most seem to like it! The problem is on like a Friday night out in town, my girlfriend likes to go out for a hard core nights and I am just so far away from in the mood by time we get home, but that is when she is horniest! ugh. But thanks, I have recently been trying to get less drunk when we go out for this reason, but she doesn't like being more drunk than me... honestly it has become a bit of a n issue
- kaylaS91
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  I'm not sure how it's possible that you've never heard of whiskey clit, unless you've only experienced drunk sex with your girlfriend. She clearly has a really good tolerance for alcohol, which can be built up if you drink pretty frequently. To solve your issue of being unable to perform after a night out, I don't see why you have to drink much when you go out. Keep it to a minimum of a beer or two, and problem solved.
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  Ya, she is all about drinking and dancing and such, I agree, I am a more chill lets just sit at a pub and have a fun time out haha So she likes to get drunk, but nobody wants to be the most drunk and I certainly don't want to be that much more sober than her... And I have never done one night stands, and my last girlfriend was before either of were really drinking, so it was not a problem. One girl I semi I dated in between never had a problem with drunk sex, but we were also not together that long so who knows... To be honest though, I don't think she even cums drunk either, but she really likes sex regardless. she can't cum via penetration either, or me and the guys before me have failed in that at least. but I think she just enjoys sex, even if you don't cum, which is understandable, but not for me.
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- kaylaS91
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  hmm yeah... sounds like a bigger issue than just drunk sex between you two. Quite a few conflicts of interest.. she's still not the partying thing, you not so much. Resulting from that, she wants sex, which obviously guys can't really do after partaking in such festivities. She still puts demands on you that you be drunker than her How old is this girl, 18?
- Asker
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  Ya, it is something recent with us. she is 21, but never went to university. I feel like I did that back when I was 19-20. I think she is on her way out, I know her parents have said I have calmed her down a fair amount. but ya, I am 23, I am still fine with a night like that, but only a handful of times a year, not every weekend... I think her ex before me was not effected by the booze, so she really enjoyed that, but I just can't give it to her that way, which is frustrating for both of us as she enjoys drunk sex and I don't sigh... we are working on it though
- kaylaS91
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  Have you tried voicing how you feel to her, and how long have you guys been together? Both parties should be making some compromise to make each other happy. Hopefully she'll be willing to meet in the middle.
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  About 5 months now, so not an awful long time, but long enough to care to try. And I still give her an orgasm manually (what I think is fair to meet half way), but she wants sex/ both of us to get off. I think we need to have a sit down though, it has mostly just been me trying to drink less or kill the mood some when we come back from a night out because I literally just want to pass out lol we shall see...
- kaylaS91
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  good luck!
XRabbitHeartX Master
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Me and my ex used to do it often after a night out.. he had no problem getting it up. But he didn't last long (then again he never did :P ). I can't say I hated it. We had the craziest/wildest sessions after drinking and sometimes we'd have more than one session so we'd do it at like 3 am then again at 4am. I actually loved it. We'd be so buzzed that all inhibitions would go right out of the window Crazy times maaaaan :')
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  See, usually sober is when we go for the hours long sex sessions because that is when I can actually cum. I have no problem lasting long sober, in fact I last far too long otherwise... I also don't really think of having inhibitions in the bedroom with a girlfriend, ONS sure, but not someone I have been dating for months and loads of sex. But others have mentioned it as well... interesting...
Anonymous
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I get crazy horny and wild when I'm drunk. And noisy. My boyfriend just falls asleep though.
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- Asker
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  hahahahahahaah that is about every girl I know! Funny that it is such an inverse in who wants what when.
- Opinion Owner
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  I remember one time I got over excited and was running to the bedroom in the dark, I turned the corner in our hall too fast and ran into the wall, full on smashed my face and landed on my ass... I think I had concussion... still had sex though, I'm a trooper :D
- Asker
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  Dang! Good for you! Usually I just want to pass out no matter what...
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- Opinion Owner
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  I'm not saying that hasn't happened. I'm not saying I haven't passed out during sex either :/
- Opinion Owner
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  Read some of your other comments, my boyfriend loves it when I get drunk because he knows he will definitely be getting some. He tries to stay a bit more sober anyway so he can stay awake when he gets home.
- Asker
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  Well I don't pass out during sex! that is just what I would rather be doing! haha And we have loads of sex anyway, she loves sex, and nither of us really have inhibitions, we see each other three times a week and have sex at least twice if not much more each time. So getting some is not a problem with me, if I know I'm going to get it either way, I'd rather in a way I will enjoy and not one where I have to really concentrate to finish.
- Opinion Owner
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  Oh we have a good sex life too but we do enjoy some drunken silliness.

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Anonymous
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I get jolly and bubbly when I'm drunk. And turned on. Plus it helps me last longer. It's like the perfect drug lol
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- Asker
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  I guess I already last over 20 min usually, I just don't normally have the stamina for a session of over an hour and usually I lose it a bit here and there/ just want to go to sleep haha good to hear you like it though!