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He came in me after I told him I'm not on birth control... Why?

Im 23 and in a relationship. However I've recently been sleeping with someone and we've had unprotected sex everytime and he always pulls out (risky i know). However we met today and I specifically said I wasn't on birth control. We have sex and then he says "That wasn't clever" with a huge smile/smerk and I run to the bathroom and realise that he came in me. Why would he do this? It's just casual sex and we are both young and just interested in each other sexually as far as i know. Was it an accident
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  • 1. He's a dick
    2. He thought it would be funny
    3. If you do get pregnant, he thinks it would be on the other guy. He got the joy of cumming in you without the problem of raising a baby.

    No it wasn't an accident. If it was oh my god I'm so sorry, then maybe. But grinning and saying "that wasn't clever" it was deliberate. That's like slapping someone and going "whoops my hand slipped"

    • But also... you shouldn't be cheating so there's a bit of karma there. Cheating and no birth control? Really?

    • Thanks for MH!

  • Honestly I highly doubt he wants a kid it just feels better for a guy to come inside... when they pull out they have to finish off a little most of the time and that doesn't feel as good. He took a gamble hoping you won't get pregnant and or hopes you will take the plan B but really he just having a good time thinking about him and what feels the best nothing more nothing less

  • I don't know this man amd your guys relationship when you aren't in bed and how he acts towards you, but it could be that he wants a baby with you or he was just lliving on the edge to see how you would react and what would happen... Did you take a plan b pill?

    • I want to take the pill but I can't bring myself to get it. We are very friendly and flirty nothing more

    • Take the pill! Unless you wanna take the chance... I highly recommend you take the pill. I'm not for abortion unless it's rape, incest, or comes to the moms life. But I do not see this as an abortion pill if That is what you are worried about. You have 72 hours after conception to take the pill!

Most Helpful Guys

  • The pull out method does not work. You can still get an std and you can still get pregnant. Don't let a penis near you without a condom on unless you are ready to be a mommy. Why do you have sex with the guy when he does not respect your wishes. How often are you having sex with him?

    • 4 Times Over 4-5 months

    • I could never use rubbers, and just pulled out for most of my life, with many different girls, and never had a problem. You just have to make yourself do it early enough.

    • Please use a condom every time!

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  • Your in a relationship but recently have been sleeping with someone but it's just casual sex?

    Seems karma bit you in the ass.

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  • just make sure you pick up some Plan B, if you have no qualms about using emergency contraceptives. That is weird that he would do that. I'd be more careful in the future. Condoms protect you from pregnancy and help preventing the spread of STD's

  • You're in a relationship.. Yet you're sleeping with someone else! .. And I bet your boyfriend knows nothing about this.. Well bigger fool you, you simply deserve everything you get.. You Play With Fire You Get Burnt.. Am sorry but I have no sympathy for you at all.

  • hell no it wasn't an accident. go get the emergency plan b thing immediately. -_- smh. real nice.

  • no seems like he did it on purpose take a pregnancy test if u don't get ur period after more than 2 weeks but if u do get it within2 weeks you're good that happened to me before and I didn't end up pregnant

  • He probably gets off on the idea of screwing some other guys' girl and possibly impregnating her.

    I'm guessing he's broke right?

    • He's wealthy

  • He doesn't regard what you say. He wants the monetary feeling. Tell him no more or no more sex.

    And, get on some BC yourself. Because yeah, definitely a little risky.

  • he probably did it on purpose. maybe he doesn't want a kid but just got turned on by the thought of cumming inside you without protection.

    take the morning after pill and tell him that it was the last time if that should ever happen again

  • He is being a dick that's all. If his episode is less than 24 hours old, go out and get a Plan B pill to avoid an ugly unwanted pregnancy

  • man... he's just an as basically... o_O

    maybe he wanted 2 FORCE u get pregnant... hope u don't though

  • Didn't you say your in a relationship? As, far as him cumin in you he did it on purpose a guy knows when he's about to cum, either he releases or pulls out and finishes. There are rare occasions that they lose control but still they know.

    • I am in a relationship. I have been for the last 6 years and this was the only time I have ever had sex with anyone except my partner

    • Okay, I was just a little confused, I would definitely be more careful. Have you talked to your boyfriend about your concerns within your relationship, I'd be really cautious

    • I'm sorry but I would first tell your man its not working out.. If you don't tell him what you did its disgusting and you deserve no serious relationship... you either want to be single or EXCLUSIVE... you can't dip your hand in both jars and expect the same result in the end

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  • You're 23 and in a relationship and you're having unprotected sex with another guy who ejaculated inside you and said "that wasn't clever." You're a mess.

    • THANK YOU! Someone else noticed it.

  • Don't cheat, never would have been an accident

  • It doesn't sound like an accident. Maybe he is trying to get you pregnant for some reason.

  • Because it feels better and he figures you'll probably just take the morning after pill or have an abortion. Or he really likes you and wants to trap you. Reverse from what some women do.

  • You're not very smart are you?

  • sometimes it is hard for us to control ourselves every time

  • lol its your fault idiot

  • Listen to me darling, theirs an another liquid which is released through the penis during sex, its job is to exterminate any residues of urine in the penis canal so that when the semen comes, the residue of urine does not kill the sperms. And by the way, this "another liquid" itself sometimes carries some sperms. So unprotected sex is way riskier then it looks.
    And, I dont know if you recall but 'it only takes one' right?

  • He's trying to get you to break up with your boyfriend so you'll have no other option to go to him when you end up pregnant. Maybe he likes you more than he's saying, I don't know. Girl always use protection and if you're unhappy with a relationship LEAVE, don't be a cheat.

  • You have a boyfriend, what are you doing? That is so horrible, he deserves better. I'm sorry to speak the truth.
    Get a morning after pill.

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