I see a lot of people commenting here saying that you should seek professional help- they are right! That is pretty much the only option and if you let the issue linger on it will, without a doubt affect every aspect of your life.
However I know for a fact that choosing to seek professional help is a huge and difficult step for people who have experienced trauma. You may feel ashamed of yourself.. and even blame yourself therefore you may think that you do not deserve help. This is completely untrue and this is yourself, punishing yourself for something that was 100% not your fault, regardless of what led to that incident. You owe it to yourself to begin healing yourself. Please make the effort to seek professional help. If you ever need any support, feel free to message me as well.0 0 0 0Your first step is going to be a difficult one and it is to seek professional help. The drugs you are on now isn't going to help you except in the short term and it won't be long before it affects your mental health if it hasn't already.
It does not appear that you are in a position to be in a relationship. Perhaps taking a break from it for now might be a better thing to do?
You should seriously consider going the route of seeing a counselor and a therapist.0 0 0 0I am so sorry that happened to you! That was obviously devastating and although I've never been raped, I can imagine how you feel. I'm sure you feel scared and helpless, and it makes it even worse that your boyfriend is going through withdrawels. I think if you haven't already, you need to talk to someone about this (specifically a counselor) and they may be able to help you feel better. I wish you luck and I hope you can receive comfort. God bless.
0 0 0 0Have you been to a therapist at all? It really helps, trust me. Especially if you're having anxiety and flashbacks. It helped me tremendously. Try to stay calm and remember everything is going to be okay. I'm sorry you went through all this. :(
0 0 0 0I've not been to see anyone. I did ok with it all until lately. Now I just feel it's a getting out of control. I tell my dr I'm having troubles and he just gives me pills and that doesn't do anything but make me feel drugged up.
Oh no. Yeah definitely find a psychologist to go to. The doctor isn't good at helping with these sorts of things. Psychologists do wonders though. It could be that the feelings were suppressed, or the anxiety has brought everything out. Either way, it happens and seeing a therapist is the best thing. Meds don't help me either. Talking to someone who can help is the best thing you can do for yourself. ❤️
I thought the dr would set that up or recomend someone. I've talked to a lot of counsilors online and they don't even wanna talk to me, just send me all these different places. I don't know how to get help or do that sort of thing.
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Wow this is a really complicated issue, first are you in theraphy of any sort? if not go, it helps. Two noone can force you to do anything you don't want to do.
This is the first sign of post traumatic stress, tackle it NOW before it gets out of hand.
if you need anyone to talk to you can message me no problem :)0 0 0 0I don't see a therapist. My dr just gives me pills that make me feel drugged all day
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3 0I'm very sorry someone did this to you... Please know people are here for you if you need it..
The best thing you can do for yourself is to see a professional
My biggest regret when I saw a professional is that I didn't confess to her about my molestation0 1 0 0Seek professional help. You need help getting through this.
I'm so sorry that happened to you.0 0 0 0you should try going to counseling.
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