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Can skinny, petite girls with small boobs AND butts be considered SEXUALLY attractive outside of fetish, novelty or fantasy?

I am called pretty, skinny and petite but have small boobs and a small butt. It's been this way my whole life, and I am now 22 years old and worry about my weight and youthfulness constantly. Why? Because it seems the only way women like me can be considered *sexually* attractive is if we are teens (youthful), Asian or tiny little "spinners." (I'm going off porn and the women who look like me in porn.) Basically, we are a fetish. I'm just wondering if there are any guys out there who could be into me sexually as much as a pretty girl with a big butt and boobs, or more, but don't care about my age, race, or the "fantasy" I fulfill. Will I have to get implants or do squats as I age? Am I only sexy if I'm very skinny and young? Will I always be a fetish? What do I do when I'm 35? Or if I gain weight? Girls like me please help too!
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  • I've always preferred girls that look like you, actually. Not because of any particular fetish; just because I am attracted to petite, skinny girls.

    I've never found big boobs to be a turn on, and big butts are actually a turn off for me. If you were standing next to a more robust girl, I would only be looking at you (and likely thinking inappropriate thoughts, lol).

    • Never I'm a million years did I expect this comment. EVER! A few questions: are you a minority in your friend group for having this opinion? And can you try to elaborate a little on why you might like girls like me in a truly sexual way? (Versus as a novelty or just a dating preference) And just curious.. how tall are you? Oh and what's your number? Lol but in seriousness- thank you!!!

    • Haha, you're very welcome. :) I don't know how well I can elaborate, but I'll give it a try. It's not necessarily any one specific thing that I find sexually appealing. It's more of the total package. Skinny, petite girls like you are just beautiful to me. It's everything about you. I absolutely adore a petite butt (like, a lot!), and smaller breasts are a turn on for me. Your entire frame is just sexually attractive to me. It's difficult to describe any better than that, honestly. Petite girls are just gorgeous to me. Always have been, always will be. I've never been attracted to large breasts, and I hate big butts. Girls like you have always caught my eye, and they've always been what I wanted. I wouldn't say that I'm alone among my friends for feeling this way, but I do thing I'm more easily, um... aroused by petite girls than they are. If you're interested, I am 6'4", lol. You can send me a message, if you want to talk some more. I'd love to chat with you. :)

  • There's definitely a stigma around the term "fetish." It's really nothing more than traits one finds sexually attractive that differ from the norm. The long and short of it is, there are plenty of guys out there who are both A) attracted to small girls, and B) able to appreciate small girls as people and not as sex objects.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I an like u and I found my man who loves my big ass and size small c cups. But I still have a problem with having small tots and big ass all my kids and their friends say how big my ass is I can't help it but as long as my hubby still wants to tap it here it is oh and by the way I'm 35 and I think I still look young some times

  • You're darn right we're attractive. Listen to the guys out there. At your age I had the same thoughts as you and I was totally wrong. Men very much like our body type. :)

    • :,) welp. this turned my night around. Maybe even my life! I was NOT expecting a single comment to have this effect on me. I think this idea that I had to be young to remain *sexually* attractive as a zero-curve petite woman was making me lose my mind. It's the one thing I can't control. I just want to be seen as a WOMAN and not type casted and banished from a sex life when I no longer fit the role. I constantly see beautiful petite older women, my relatives included, and wonder if their husbands see them as sexual beings or just delicate flowers. (You see "petite teen" on search engines but rarely "petite milf." This makes me BEYOND hopeful

  • guys want the curvy option but hate implants which puts us in a tough spot... I think its just having to come to terms with it.

    • olivia wild and mila kunis are both really hot with small breasts and guys do agree on this though so hold your chin up. Life is a pile of shit so make the best of it !

    • This. This is so so true. They also want a natural soft big butt, not a rock hard one achieved through squats. They want skinny>fat, but not if it means no boobs or butt- that would be "boyish" ! -___- well guess what guys, I don't get curvy when I gain weight- I get stocky or round! So "boyish" it is :,(

    • i feel your pain, so much i get so down on this. What to do though? and since when do so many women have like C and up... I feel like so few women are small, then i wouldn't care i just feel too different.

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  • Girls in your category will become very sought after when your in your 30s and beyond. Never will a man find girls like you as fetish only. Your be envied by a lot of girls and desired by a lot of men. X

  • Stop worrying so much, men love women or all shapes and sizes and you're not necessarily a fetish, some men just appreciate beauty in general not a girls weight.

  • Absolutely!!

  • I feel ya girl. I'm so like you. I too would love to know.

  • YESSSSSS

    many guys like petite gals :)

  • Depends on the guy. It's not my thing though, personally, as I prefer curvy and plus-size women of at least medium height.

  • Oh please girl, lots of guys do like that.

  • Yes most definitely

  • Stop worrying I think its sexy as hell

  • Ariana grande. jpg

  • I'm not just saying this, I actually prefer petite girls, y'all are adorable, but also hot, er pretty whatever ya prefer, but ya I'd be into ya for sure.

    Not in a fetish way either though I'm not exactly sure what fetish that is, but I'd find your details sexy.

  • Absolutely you are beautiful. Not just attractive but beautiful. See most guys think they want girls with huge butts and tits but let's be honest. They get sweaty and hard to maintain at an older age. Me I'm a guy who looks to the future. I love a firm cute butt because you can pick her up by it and kiss her. I love small beasts because they are guaranteed to stay perky longer :) hope this helped -peace and chicken grease

  • Petite is very sexy. Don't listen to Hollywood wanting tall women because if you stop to think about it, how do those women date eligible men? Hollywood is completely one sided and tends to focus mostly on male depictions of women. Let me ask you this do you like tall and muscular men?

  • Small boobs age better than big ones. Big ones expire fast.

  • Yes, I love small boobs and small chicks!

    • Thank you :) But one thing I'm still so unsure about- a small butt? THAT is where I feel like I can only appeal to specific fantasies. I feel like I can only be sexy as a role in their head (usually a creepy one in porn,) and not as a real WOMAN. Like they say, "real women have curves" :/

    • I can only comment on what I like, and what I know others in my circle go for, it's generally small chicks, my mates tend to like big boobs for some reason, but we all like a small arse, one that looks like you could crack walnuts on it, lol. Obviously this opinion will vary from region to region, age, etcetera will all play a part, but yeah, relax and be happy with what ya got.

  • thats how I prefer girls so yes

  • Of course, men are so different we like all sorts of things

    • what he meant to say is he is desperate and likes ALL THINGS

  • I think there are!

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