Boyfriend calls me prude and selfish for not wanting to have sex?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We have had sex before and still have it semi-regularly. But ever since we started dating he put such emphasis on having sex. Like it was the be all and end all. He's asked for dirty pictures on numerous occasions and knows i dont feel comfortable doing that, but continues to call me prude or selfish. He's taken jabs at me about it when we're out with friends or just having dinner together and then gets super angry if i get upset about it. Just wanting a guys opinion?

[PeachSunset]

Omfg leave the guy! A guy taunting a girl to have sex when she doesn't want to is already plenty bad enough, but now he's name calling you because of it? Its pretty much a form of bullying, his logic is that once he calls you prude and selfish you'll revolt and be like "nah, I am not prude and selfish", and he stupidly thinks you'll have sex with him to show that you're not any of this, well WRONG. You're obviously smarter than that. If i'm being honest, I think he's being selfish, he's not taking into consideration that you don't want to do it and all he cares about are his pleasures.

[itsallover]

He's being the selfish one in this situation, calling you names for not wanting to have sex is simply not cool. Then taking public jabs about it to your friends is just a different level of disrespect. You need to have a serious discussion with him about this, and make him realise that his behaviour is petty and immature.

[BaddieBrunette]

? He should respect what you do and do not feel comfortable with. He has some issues.

[Mesonfielde]

Yeah, don't take dirty pictures because they have the tendency to end up on the Internet. I do think it is healthy to have the physical desire to have sex with your partner in a relationship rather than see it as a "chore where the guy can exploit their girl and rape her consensually" or whatever that radical feminists tend to say, but it also makes sense to sometimes not have the time or energy for it.

[DodgersGM]

A lot of guys derive and experience their emotional connection intensely through sex. So yeah, it's possible that this could be hurting the relationship.

That said, he's acting like a complete and total douche about it. That he's not getting any from you should come as little surprise to him.

[nobuttonstopush]

Sounds like a selfish asshole to me

[UnremarkableDay]

You're a selfish bit**

[zombiebabe]

its kinda degrading from him to make shitty jokes about this when your friends are around... he sounds immature

[Sexualchrist]

You gotta give a man your quality time if you know what I mean.

[Shaft50]

SO, he an put you down and you just have to sit there and take it? That hardly seems loving and caring

[RationalMale]

aaand you've been dating two years... nice guys, take note.

[hypno-trip]

I think he's being a tad disrespectful, if he wants more he can just talk about with you like a normal adult...