How do I convince my boyfriend that spitting in my mouth isn't weird?

[Anonymous]

I am an 18 yr old girl and I live with my boyfriend. I'm super kinky and like to try new things and he's come along for the ride being okay with mostly everything. He's extremely dominant which works out for me because I'm a sub. I want him to spit in my mouth when I'm sucking his dick... not too much to ask for right? But he says it'd make him feel like he's feeding a bird. How do I convince him its not like that?

[RomansToPhilemon]

I dunno. It sounds kind of kinky. I would try it. I would probably smile too when you asked me haha. But really if he is down with doing all the other things, you should be willing to comprise on things he isn't wanting to do. It's not all about you. Have some respect for him.

[Sam19XX]

i have heard that there is a pill that increases the rate of production of mucus... i am not sure tho. Try searching for it on google n see if its correct. Cuz i actually see porn stars spitting hella lot of mucus when they r sucki...

[Asker]

I don't mucus... just saliva...

[linds34]

It's weird but I guess nobody is harmed by it... but how physically would he spit in your mouth while you're sucking his dick?

[Asker]

He would obviously have to pull his dick out of my mouth to spit in it. Then put it back in...

[linds34]

Ha ok. Well I've never heard of that but good luck. If you really want that I don't see why he wouldn't do it, seems easy enough.

[Asker]

Exactly... it seems so easy. I think he's worried about missing or looking stupid. But I wouldn't care I mean I'm the weird one in the scenario... so if he fucks up its on me

[Esplorare]

You can't. That's really disgusting and beyond weird.

[Asker]

There's weird people out there. Him spitting in my mouth is a dominance thing. I love being dominated. its just me. And yes I am weird my friends and boyfriend tell me all the time (:

[Esplorare]

That's nasty. Please stop making vomit crawl up my throat.

[Asker]

It sucks that you're so close minded. I bet you'd like a lot of these things weather you admit it or not.

[Esplorare]

Someone who isn't into the idea of another human being spitting on them let alone in their mouth is "close minded"? The definition of open minded includes opening your mind to having another person spit in your mouth? Lol, alrighty then. People are not always going to want to try what you perceive as kinky vs what others perceive as outright nasty in a bad way.

[Esplorare]

pretty sure I wouldn't and you shouldn't try to chastise or scold me for not cheerleading, encouraging, or promoting your idea.

[Asker]

Its not that serious. Calm down.

[Esplorare]

Lol, I'm calm 😌 just my response to you

[Asker]

Glad you calmed down

[Esplorare]

I always was calm. You can't read tone through the internet, sweetie so don't try becase it makes you look silly.

[Esplorare]

*because

[Esplorare]

If you're going to accuse someone of being close-minded and try to tell them who they are, then don't be entitled and unrealistic enough to not expect a certain type of response.

[Klaatu51]

U should tell him... but dont force him if he disagrees...

[Frost_Byt3]

Hahahahahah "feeding a bird" 😂

Just tell him that you like it, and that it'll lube things up better i guess

[usernameisnttaken]

Interesting kink. Tell him you are ok with this. He might not be comfortable at first but be patient with him. He may come around to the idea

[Skadouchebag]

You can't; It IS weird.

[Asker]

Okay skadouchebag

[being_human]

i don't know about others.. but i really like the idea of exchanging saliva.. it's really very hott..

[Anonymous]

i dont think you can...

[fenixx0083]

Because... because it is weird...

[fenixx0083]

... that's why you can't explain why it isn't weird, because it is...

[fenixx0083]

I mean, do what you do and be happy... but... if *he* isn't feeling it too... don't you remember the first time somebody tried to get you to do something that just really didn't resonate with you?

[Asker]

Yes I do. Giving head for ex. But it took the right words for me to be okay with it, & soon after I absolutely loved it. Me & my boyfriend had the same issues with slapping. I asked him to slap me during sex or during oral. At first he said absolutely not, then one night when we were drunk he just did it. Just one little slap that didn't feel like anything. but he did it and Thats all that matters. We talked about it later and he said he didn't like it and wouldn't do it again. but the next day I was sucking his dick &I wasn't doing something he asked right or something along those lines& he pulled me off by my hair &slapped me &pushed my head back down. I had never been more turned on in my life &he could tell. He said the fact that it turned me on so much turned him on and made him more comfortable with it& the fact that he did it the second time without thinking also showed that he was comfortable with it. Now its a regular thing. I'm hoping the same thing happens for spitting