Why has she become distant/quiet after sex?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so I've known this girl for just over two months now, I'm 24 she's 20, we've been talking, dating, and just getting to know each other in general. About a month or so in I asked her how she felt about us, she responded with she doesn't know what she wants but she likes me, which was understandable because she had a lot going on. Back to doing what we were doing. Anyways this past weekend I invited her to a camping trip with my group of friends. We all ended up getting drunk and crazy and her and I ended up sleeping together that night, the day before the trip she basically told me we were going to sleep together too so it wasn't just a drunk thing I think. I know the sex was good, for the both of us too (sometimes you just know). Afterwards we just cuddled and went to sleep. Wake up the next morning and she seems standoffish, embarrassed (because my friends heard her/us), quiet, etc . Didn't think much of it. Nightime rolls around everyones drinking except her (like she didn't want to repeat the drunk sex?), we didn't get crazy the second night, we all went to bed pretty early. In the tent she didn't seem in the mood so we just cuddled and went to sleep again. Wake up the next morning, she's still quiet and whatnot. Then one of my friends makes a comment on the noise we made of the first night, and she says it was a mistake, but almost in a sarcastic tone, then she said to me "if it makes you feel better its not the worst mistake I've made." So that was a little awkward, especially since the day before she said it was gonna happen anyway, maybe she was just embarrased again, or reffering to the being drunk part. Before this whole weekend we had never had a sexual encounter of any kind, and we had only kissed once I think. Since then she's been very quiet, hard to talk to, standoffish, and un responsive... all which i find odd because prior to the weekend we pretty much talked everyday via text and calling. I've never had a girl become distant after sex, so why is she?

[david_smith]

She probably enjoyed it but since it was her first time, she probably don't know what to say to you or if you even enjoyed it.

[Anonymous]

I'd say she's just embarrassed by how the whole thing went down. It probably wasn't what she had in mind you know.

[Asker]

Yeah that could be it, I think she would tell me though, especially since we are close and she used to pretty much tell me everything.

[Opinion Owner]

Then I'd say she needs to figure things out for herself. She'll tell you what's up when she's ready. Also if she's really in to you she wouldn't want you to think badly of her, maybe that't it.

[Asker]

I think she knows me well enough to know that I wouldn't think badly of her, thats not me at all... I feel like I need to be asking the questions eventually though to clear it all up. For all I know she could be looking at it as a one time thing only, in that case though she wouldn't have stayed the second night.

[Opinion Owner]

Then I honestly don't know what's up with her. Best to ask her. Good luck x

[Asker]

Haha thanks

[Chick180]

It could be she realized she wasn't ready? Why don't you ask her?

[Asker]

I'd ask her, but I think she needs time to think about it herself, maybe thats why she's been quiet.

[Sam19XX]

Maybe some cum is stuck in her voice box.
Jk lol :p

[Sam19XX]

Honestly i feel bad for saying that and i dont find it funny , I donno why i said that. Sorry! ,,, and can u report it so it will be removed?