Did I give a bad blowjob?

[amfever]

Hey guys and girls :) I was hooking up with my flirt this Friday and we ended up fooling around a bit. At somepoint (because I was giving him a handjob) he asked me to blow him which I was nervous about but I did it because I'd like to try (this was his first time recieving one and my first time giving one) I'm afraid it wasn't that good because he didn't come - we had both been drinking before hand and were slightly tipsy. He did make some noises and mumbled my name once. He also put his hand on my head and pushed me down lots of liquid-y stuff came out almost as soon as I started but it wasn't cum... In the end he told me I could stop because he couldn't take anymore (or something like that) I'm just worried he didn't enjoy it because he didn't come and I heard from others that he couldn't have enjoyed it if he didn't finish I know I can just ask him and I will, but I want to do if face to face and we won't see each other for a while, so I'm asking all of you while waiting :) (I hope this wasn't too much information..)

[tinyclit]

It sure sounds like he enjoyed it to me. A guy isn't always going to cum every single time you suck his cock. He might cum sometimes and not others. Or he may not cum at all from having his cock sucked. That doesn't mean he doesn't enjoy it. He enjoys it and still wants you to do it too. The same is true when he goes down on you. It might feel great, but you might not orgasm from it. It's still good though and you'll still like it and want it.

[akaSerena]

I'm going to ignore all the graphic TMI, but you should know it's a common idea enforced by society that sex is a failure if a person doesn't finish. You know, people can enjoy the sexual experience itself without ultimate resolution. Our bodies all have different rhythms and sometimes one is satisfied with what they get, one can't always be able to perform on command either.

[chnapo]

The liquid what you felt was precum, it is a sign that you are doing it well. Some guys cannot cum from blowjob. Or it is difficult to make it happen. Be sure that your BJ is good as soon as you feel the precum. But to make him cum, you must combine good speed, pressure, maybe hand, tongue and everything in right way. You are great even only for wanting to make him cum in your mouth, trust me many girls will stop as soon as there is precum.

[chnapo]

Thank you for MHO :)

[grier]

I'm not sure if it was good or not, as I wasn't there. I do know that when I got my first couple of blowjobs they were bad. As in teeth were dragging and things were getting scratched. You know what? I told the girl. And she was cool with it. Embarrassed, sure, but as long as we were open about everything, it was cool. I know this will be difficult, but if you really want to know, just ask

[OlderAndWiser]

If he didn't ejaculate, what was it that came out of his dick? The only other thing that ever comes out of mine is piss.

[stevie123]

Drinking dulls the senses, so that might be what was slowing him down.
Are you sure it wasn't cum at the beginning?
He could certainly enjoy it without cumming.
A mouth and tongue feel great on a penis.
Cumming is just a bonus.
Ask him not to push you down on it next time.
Have him put his hands on the side of your head.
now is the time to train him to be a good receiver of favors.

[CountVronsky]

If he doesn't cum, then it isn't good enough. Anyway, if he was half drunk, don't give it too much thought: I'm pretty sure it's difficult to have an orgasm when you're under the effects of a drug.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you were doing really well to me