Girls, if you spooned with a guy who was a friend would you care if he got a boner?

I hug and cuddle this girl quite a lot, she's quite a sensitive sort and tbh I love giving hugs. XD If we ever spooned though and I got a boner would she feel grossed out or anything because I'm a friend?
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  • I can't speak for anyone else, I would think a lot of girls would be grossed out. But me personally, I have a close guy friend and we have cuddles once or twice and he hasn't... But if he every got a boner i would think it was cute. Maybe even give him shit about that and joke about it the next day or some thing. Me and him are close buddies so that's why, he could do anything and I would love it. I know he is a great guy. But let's say a guy I just met got a boner when he gave me a hug. Still wouldn't be grossed out but I wouldn't care as much I guess. But I would never really shun a guy or something because he got a boner or a boner at an inappropriate time. I am happy I am a girl because I get turned on by a lot of things xD i wouldn't know how to handle boners socially. But I understand they can't control it. So it can be cute. Ugh sorry I make all of my answers so long and complicated xD

  • I honestly got extremely grossed out when it happened to me. He was my best friend. We did everything together. But every time he would spend the night, he would end up smothering me in my sleep and dry humping my ass like he was some sort of dog. I don't know if he was sleeping or if he just thought I wouldn't wake up but either way I confronted him on it and told him he was no longer allowed to stay the night. It was mostly because he knew I had a boyfriend and my boyfriend trusted me to have this guy spend the night with me and he overstepped a huge boundary and disrespected me.

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  • Personally would take it as a compliment. Depending upon the friend, would probably end up taking care of it for him lol.

  • If y'all are just friends, I think it would creep me out especially if I wasn't interested in you. But otherwise, no.

  • Since she's sensitive I'd suggest against it because no matter what she's a girl and that is going to give her mixed singnals as to what you want to be to her. Also because she's sensitive I don't think she'd appreciate a boner. I don't know.

  • why are people that are "just friends" spooning in the first place?

  • I've cuddled with just friends before but spooning with someone you're not interested in is kind of strange. However, if I'm comfortable enough to be spooning with a guy and he got a boner I would just tease him mercilessly about it

  • I would never spoon with a friend

  • She would feel it definitely, but it's up to her how she reacts.

  • It's understandable, I know it's not that easy for guys to control it. I'd be flattered tbh.

  • lol I would fuck with him more. but thats because im evil. disregard this

  • nah i would think it would be funny and honestly i would take it as a complement.

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