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My first Blowjob?

me and my bestfriend (male) we love each other and we always make out and those stuff so yesterday i went to his place and as usual we kissed and did those stuff while kissing i felt his dick that it got hard and thats because while we were kissing he was wearing his clothes and he was pretending we were having sex ( like tribbing) so it was unfair because he always turns me on so I suggested if we could do anything and he said do anything but i won't push you to do it so we picked a blowjob he was wearing shorts and he said go on i didn't know what to do ( because its my first try) And he told me slide the shorts down and take my dick out from the boxer) He was small sized and he could fit my whole mouth, he told me to taste it but i was satisified with touching it, he pulled me from my hair and made me blowjob him ( in a gentle way) and i didn't enjoy the blowjob that much but he was mad and said " if you started anything you should finish it" After 1 min he cummed but he hid it and said he is a cold guy and i didn't turn him on then he went to the toilet and after he returned he didn't kiss me neither do anything atlast when i wanted to leave, he started squeezing my ass and started touching it I was wearing a skirt and he started rubbing my vagina quickly from outside the skirt and whispered to me" when you are ready tell me" i said ready for what? He answered for a blowjob he kept rubbing me hard and told me to stand and he stood behind me and told me open your legs and kissed my neck until i reached my limits my questions are: 1- Why does he say he's cold while he's not? 2- Why did he rub me? And so hard? 3-Does he show love by doing those stuff? 4- Was he enjoying it?
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  • 1. Probably embarrassed that he is small
    2. Trying to turn you on and so hard because he doesn't know what he's doing
    3. it seems kind of like he made you do something you didn't want to do which is not love at all. You have the right to withdraw consent at anytime and it sounds like you did and he pressured you into continuing anyways.
    4. He came in a minute so probably a combination of him being new to it and you being good. Mostly that he's new to it. For instance my wife is amazing at sex however because we have done it so many times it's usually takes me about an hour or so to cum however the first time we did it I only lasted about 10 minutes.

  • 1) He probably said he was cold because he's embarrassed that his penis is small. 2) He thought you would enjoy it. 3) No I don't think that's how you show love. 4) Yes, he definitely enjoyed the bj since he did cum

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well he is kinda right u started something so u should finish it. He was just trying to turn u on by rubbing u. Next time suck him

  • 1. Because he finished so early 2) because he was still horny 3) No thats not how you show love. 4) yes he did enjoy it.

  • He totally disrespected you. Break up with him if you value respect

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  • 1. It doesn't matter if he was cold or hot. He sounds like a lousy lover.
    2. He rubbed you because he doesn't know how to properly turn you on. He sounds like a lousy lover.
    3. No, he doesn't show love by doing that stuff. He sounds like a lousy lover.
    4. Who cares if he was enjoying it. Were you enjoying it? He sounds like a lousy lover.

  • Sounds like he was extremely turned on by you and that's why he was rubbing hard

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  • 5- He sexually assaulted you.

  • its just the foreplay yto make you horny and you can have sex with him then also you dont want it

  • Doesn't sound like you're in the age range of 25-29 based on the questions you just asked... even if a virgin those are far out. Ijs

  • How do you choose your friends? Why does Chad always win?

  • He wasn't enjoying it, he went to the bathroom to jerk off and finish, he said he was cold cuz he wasn't into it (just cuz he's hard doesn't mean he's into it) he's not showing love pry just wants to fuck, he rubbed you to try to turn you on so you'll do what he wants, he did it so hard cuz he sucks at it

  • he sounds like a jerk

  • Did he force you?

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