Cheated on my girlfriend now everyone hates me?

Question

So I went on a trip by myself while my girlfriend was having a heavy school semester and I ended up cheating. We did everything but sex but honestly I would have had sex if we had a condom. I felt so bad the next day. I love my girlfriend so much and I guess I was just unhappy and feeling neglected because she was so busy with school. I felt like she always put school before me. So I came home to her and everything was fine and I was starting to forget about it but then she told me she went to the doctor and found out she had an std. She knew. So she dumped me. I haven't stopped crying I loved the girl so much and just made a 5 minute mistake. Her friends hate me and yelled at me when they saw me out, she told my parents and they can't even look at me, and my friends are mad at me because they have girlfriends and they also found out through someone else so they felt I lied to them too. I just dont know what to do... I feel so helpless and I know it was the biggest mistake I ever made. I miss her so much. I know its over she made it very clear. I actually lost such an amazing girl.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

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HyperOrphic · Accepted Answer

Um of course she put school before you, school is an obligation and is likely going to be around a lot longer than you - clearly since you cheated you aren't very devoted so her focusing on school was clearly the better choice. I don't care what your excuse is: if you are neglected, say so. If they can't give you attention due to obligations, understand and be patient or leave. You need to do some serious apologizing, but if she doesn't want to talk to you... you have to respect that and move on and just try to be a better person in the future.

Sorry for the tough love but, it is what it is.

Kelser31 · Accepted Answer

If you really loved her how could you do something that you knew would hurt her. honestly you got what you deserved. I don't think there is much to tell you at this point. If my boyfriend cheated on me cuz i put school over him, that would be it as well. I work hard in school so I can someday have a good job and home and maybe if I'm still with my boyfriend it will be for his benefit as well.

DessieDoo · Accepted Answer

Uhm... Okay so let's be clear.. You did NOT sleep with the other girl?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sorry, I just had the urge to be an asshole to you. Because I know how it feels to be cheated on, and it fucking sucks. The only thing you can do is move on from her and NEVER make this mistake again.