Is a big penis more visually arousing than an average one?

[TheSpartan]

I'm not asking which one is better during sex. I'm asking which is more arousing visually. If you were to take off a man's pants, which would be more visually arousing and exciting--an average penis, or a large one? For reference, most studies seem to put the average penis size at approximately 5.2 inches long and 4.5 inches around (Veale, 2015). So, let's say that's what average is. According to the same research, the 95th percentile of penis size is about 6.3 inches long erect and 5.2 inches around--so let's say that and larger qualifies as "big". So, what do you say? Is a bigger penis more visually arousing. I don't ask this from a place of insecurity; mine is about 6" long and 4.5" around, but I do want to know because I'm working towards becoming a male stripper, and I need to have the honest truth about this subject in case I need to work on my size. Go anonymous if you need to--I need real answers.

[briarred]

You can't work on your size. I know there's a lot of advertisements like pills and such, they don't work. It's like trying to get larger breasts without putting on weight. It's in your genetics and you can't change your genes as of yet.

I'd say it's arousing but when it's proportional and fitting to the man. I've had just as much fun with a six-inch, relatively thin guy and an eight-inch, big, muscular guy honestly.

[TheSpartan]

There are ways to work on penis size through a specific exercise called "jeqling". It isn't scientifically-confirmed, but I've spoken to enough men that swear upon the method to convince me of its effectiveness. So, it has mor to do with proportion, not size in terms of visual arousment?

[briarred]

Yes! I wouldn't be that turned on with a nine-inch thin and unathletic guy. Really though, it's things like this that worry me. Being brutally honest, I don't think penises are attractive visually in the first place so a girl isn't going to stare at your junk all day and examine and analyze it. The only time that I've actually looked at a penis was when I lost my virginity. I had never seen a penis before, no pornography or anything. So I was curious and I nervously stared at it. It wasn't pretty and I was expecting something more attractive I suppose.

[FantasticPlanet]

You just haven't seen the proper penis then. It's like guys typically think all vaginas look similar until that one... The one that draws you in. Never lets you go. It grips you. There's a saying "good (Dick/Pussy) will imprison you" It's accurate.

[briarred]

I guess. But I've seen many now and even the most attractive guy, tall, blond, muscular, dominating, really good in bed didn't have a pretty penis. I don't find them attractive? In the moment, sure I do, but it's not something to stare at on its own. Either way, proportion. Not size.

[TheSpartan]

That's another thing: height. I'm roughly 5'7, and no amount of antidepressants and therapist visits has brought me anywhere close to accepting my height.

[briarred]

I'm 5'6", but seriously. There are MANY women who are 5'4" and under. That's the average in America, and we supposedly have tall women here compared to many other countries. Don't let that get to you. I've always hated my height too, but that doesn't mean I'm supposed to love other people's height. Not every 6' tall guy is attractive, you should understand. Height is not a deal breaker in most situations.

[TheSpartan]

Tall men are still viewed as more attractive and masculine than men of my height--something even my mother has said to me. I don't see any amount of psychology helping me here.

[briarred]

There ISN'T any psychology involved in it. Don't be ridiculous. I've been called fat, fatass, fattie by only my parents because you know why? Because I was indeed overweight at a time, when I was about eight. I lost the weight which was about five pounds, I surprisingly had a genetically thin waist, I worked out, and I managed to support myself mentally. Though that insecurity when I was eight? My parents remembered it and it came back from time to time. Whenever we fought, they'd use it against me, because they knew it hurt me. It wasn't even true. I'm not skinny or slim, but I'm more than fine with that. Because while all the girls around me were shaped like sticks. I had breasts and a great body. Work with what you have, don't try and create something. Don't hate yourself for something you can't help. If all men were tall, what about the shorter women? Wouldn't that be intimidating? Wouldn't it be boring. I myself don't bother with very tall men. Trust me, it's not that attractive.

[TheSpartan]

Yes, but I don't know how to be satisfied with what I have.

[briarred]

You work with it. You don't try to push it out. Think about the people less fortunate than you.

[TheSpartan]

I'm not so sure if the whole "less fortunate" argument is going to work--especially since it is a strong possibility that it was a brain tumor that stunted my growth.

[briarred]

It doesn't matter what stopped it. What matters is that you're 5'7", a lot of people AREN'T fortunate to even be 5'.

[TheSpartan]

I suppose. However, if you're that short, you're basically a dwarf--which has its own perks.

[AmandaLynn1930]

i like how big ones look. but some average ones are nice to look at too. it depends more on the shape than the size when it comes to just visually.

[TheSpartan]

What is the best size to look at?

[AmandaLynn1930]

size doesn't really matter as long as it's not itty bitty. so i gues anything over like 6 inches. but it has to be shaped nice too. not a ugly one. haha!

[TheSpartan]

Didn't you say you liked how big ones looked? I was wondering what you consider big.

[AmandaLynn1930]

yes, i do. but im saying it doesn't have to be big if it's nice shaped and clean. big to me is like 8 or bigger.

[TheSpartan]

Woah, 8 is pretty big lol That's like 1 in 2000 people. Is bigger better visually?

[AmandaLynn1930]

haha! i gues i've just been super lucky then. hahaha!!! yes, as long as it's a nice shaped one.

[TheSpartan]

Well, alright, I suppose I'll work on my size some. Thanks.

[JulyAndrews]

Yes it's visually more pleasing. I never lie about that. Just like perky breasts are visually more appealing than breasts that sag a little.

[TheSpartan]

What size are we talking about?

[johndugan1217]

No. If you want more size then just use a penis pump.. you will get both length and girth this way. Just get a good one and also use a penis health creme for skin protection or you will be sore and chafed... no fun. But other than this minor side effect the pumps work great. Hope this helps.

[LionelMerelGlisem]

I think that's above 20'' (50 cm) long and 8'' around (20 cm), it is not important. I think it's very disabling to have such a big penis, perhaps.

[KimmyB]

Visually, yes, as far as my curiousity goes. I know u said ur not asking about which is better during sex, but it's visually and physically are not always the same thing, just saying!!! :o)

[TheSpartan]

Which size is best visually?

[KimmyB]

Oh I mean I don't know exact sizes but.. if it looks big, then it's like... okayyy :o)

[Anonymous]

I never thought it was till I got the big one. Yes it is.

[TheSpartan]

Which size is best visually?

[Turendot]

Big ones are better sexually as well as visually aren't they?

[Opinion Owner]

@Turendot:7 inches is the best. It's not extremely huge but it is big.

[TheSpartan]

I assumed it was somewhere around there. An 8+ inches long penis would seem rather--unpleasant to handle.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it is more arousing. Girls deny it all the time, though.

[briarred]

How the hell would you know? You can't vouch for them at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Asker, this female right up here is what I'm talking about! ^^