Do most women hate sex, and only do it to please men?

[Anonymous]

Today I read a book which is wrote by a women. This book says that women generally hate sex and only do it to please men because men give them money and food. Women have vary lower sex drive so they desire sex very rare and want sex only certain time. Women have very low testosterone so, they think about sex only 2 or 3 time in a week and during ovulation they think about sex but not very often. My girl friend break up with me because i want to sex with her, she hate sex. I don't know why. She told me that women have very weaker sex drive and they don't want sex as much as men. They only have sex to please men. If this is true: Women don't watch porn, women hate porn. Women don't get turn on by porn. Women are not visual. Women don't get turn on see a men. Women don't attract to a men as much as men attract to women. Women don't think about sex often. Women hate casual sex. Women don't masturbate as much as men. Women have a weaker sex drive. They only want sex during ovulation. They don't get arouse easily, it takes more time to arouse. So, my question why women have sex? only do it to please men? why women hate sex? sex is a very heinous thing?

[MlleCake]

We LOOOOOOOOOVE *GOOD* sex.

We hate uninformed clods who hurt us and don't give attention to our orgasmic needs.

We hate all the sex shaming, misinformation and nonsense messages people get about sexuality, especially female sexual pleasure, that puts us in a place of being unable to find accurate information about our bodies or sexual response.

We *looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove* caring, compassionate, creative lovers who make it safe for us to explore what we like and ask for what we like.

We *loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove* when no one smacks our hands away from our vulvas when we are children, so we can't develop the same awareness of our bodies that little boys do.

We *looooooooooooooooooooooooove* when we get to see diagrams with our body parts labelled correctly (and even Med Students get diagrams that are WRONG).

Of course, not all women will love sex, for a variety of reasons. But mostly we do, or have the potential to love sex, if we aren't shut out of proper, evidence based information about how our own bodies work, and we aren't shamed for knowing what we like and how to ask for it. And we also love it when people listen to us when we describe things we are feeling and not tell us we are making things up.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Link me to the name of the book please...
and secondly women are perfectly capable to love sex just as much as men. We can want sex daily, we have sex hormones inside of us and we are definitely capable of being turned on by men and/or porn. There's so many things wrong with this question...

[Asker]

The Female Brain, The Male Brain Book by Louann Brizendine

[Amiratahir]

I don't think that girls are really hate sex. God given sexual interest both boy and girls. Thing is socially boys can talk and express about the sex where girls are not. But that does not mean they hate sex. We can see there in escort agency like japanesecompanions girls are doing job for giving sexual pleasure to men. If girls hate sex then there would be no escort agency.

[BabeBarlow91]

Oh no ! I love sex. Moving towards that physical and mental explosion that penetrates your whole being and makes you feel lighter than air. Nah, I'm in the Yes Club for sex with a man.

[hrlalal]

not everyone some of us like some less

[Asker]

most guys feel crazy for sex but do most girls also feel it?

[geo_torno9]

STOP READING THAT BOOK NOW!!! (Sorry)

[bijbee]

No. Why.

[ciitruskiwi]

I don't have sex to please men because men will give me money and food. I can and prefer my own money and get my own food. I am very capable of doing it.

Just because your girlfriend didn't like sex (maybe she likes it just not with you) doesn't mean all women do. Not all women are the same just like how not all men are the same. People are different, we are individuals.

[ciitruskiwi]

Doesn't mean all women don't*

[simplecountrygirl]

God no, I love sex. My boyfriend turned me into a horny little devil when he took my virginity and my sex drive is just as high as his. I have sex because I enjoy it and love being that close to my boyfriend.

[tbaby8533]

I think what we're men hate about sex is always having to give a man a blow job or having to feel obligated to give him one I am very good at giving blowjobs and I don't mind it until a man starts pushing my head down to where his penis stops me from breathing I don't mind sex being rough but that is one of the biggest turn-offs for me having them push my head down on them I can do it myself also for me personally at least I don't like when a man comes inside my mouth but it is very pleasurable to have a man come inside my pussy or on my breasts but having someone come inside my pussy is the greatest feeling in the world for me I love sex and I want to have more another problem I have is I don't want just sex I want a relationship where we can go out on dates we can hang out we can watch a movie without any foreplay but sex is a big deal to me too I love sex and I want a lot of sex that's not the only thing I want

[Ewgies01]

Nope. I love it. Ask her what she likes. Listen to her. Learn what really pleases her. That’s the key to success in bed.

[Douma]

Yes. It seems not just that way it is that way. You have noticed that correct. Do you know why man allow themselves to be used by such woman?