The fact that he proposed a threesome does not mean you did something wrong. A lot of people (man and women) have fantasies about it and it doesn't mean their partners are lacking in somethig or not attractive enough. It doesn't even mean that the person he wants the threesome with is more attractive then you. Like I said, it's a fantasy. everyone has their own fantasies. Some people like it, some don't and if that's the case, the couple needs to talk about it and make sure to express to each other how they feel.
That being said, the most worrying thing here is the fact that he texts her behind your back. If the content of these texts in what i'm assuming, this is definitely a break of confidence. If he just proposed the threesome to you in a open way, to know how you feel about it and to discuss it openly, there would be no problem. But this texting is something really problematic. It's a hint he may not be faithful to you.
And let me make it clear: I don't think poligamy is inherently bad. I don't see any problems in open relationships, for example. But in your case, it's clear you have a monogamic relationship and he's breaking your confidence. In your place, I would think twice about remaining with him, but that's for you to decide.
Take care.0 0 0 0He claims it all talk and he went behind my back to make sure she was into him. And throws up he purposely picked someone more into him then me. i guess more straight then bi curious but I've seen what he tells her and I'm being played but he won't admit it I would be done fir this if had been done the right way but I feel manipulated and he can't see that... we have a five year old and he claims were home but he talks to her all day and hides it and tells her how bad he wants her
So he's cheating on you again and again. That's what it is. The threesome proposal was just an excuse. He just wanted a reason to keep texting her. That's what it seems. I know it's hard, but you need to move on. You deserve better.
So wanting a threesome isn't bad it's just something that turns some people on.
But he tried to CHEAT on you and the only reason he didn't is because the other girl said no so while nothing happened he still has the mentality of a cheater and he respects you no more than any other cheater would. It's clear he doesn't want a threesome for the thrill of a threesome he just wants to screw her. My advice is to break up.0 1 0 0
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I'm sorry, but he sounds like a complete douche to be honest... /: I would not stick around to deal with him for any longer if I were you. I don't believe it's just meaningless sex. You most definitely did NOT do anything wrong... Not all guys are like that! Hang in there. Good luck.
2 2 0 0I am agreeing with anonymous. I think he is taking serious liberties here.
I'm sorry he already fucked her and he's trying to get you to join so he doesn't have a guilty conscience. Fuck both of them👍 I would hate them both if I was you and they could have each other. Oh yea and I would fuck his best friend
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3 5It sounds to me like he's playing you. he wants a new pussy to play with so you should give him an ultimatum her or you...
0 0 0 0Get rid of him NOW! this is how itll work with him yeah he wants some different pussy and yeah itll just be sex but then the next time he wants to fuck a different chick if she too is not cool with it hell be right there again begging you for another 3some then another then another its a pattern but make no mistake your old news to him
1 1 0 0The way he is treating you is not kind and loving. He should give more worth to a ten year relationship.
0 0 0 0HE CHEATED ON YOU
1 0 0 1Why do u say that
Omg just leave him.
0 0 0 0It could be fun for all of you.
0 0 0 0Two junkies being unfaithful. Awesome. I bet your beta dude already screwed her.
0 0 0 0Don't do it if you care about this relationship
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