I'm in love with a little pregnant lady, what can I do?

[Anonymous]

So there's this little 5'4 pregnant light skinned hispanic girl in my appartment complex. I'm 24, pretty tall (6'2 so I can offer protection) and in college. What I heard from some of my neighbors is that she got raped a couple months back, she's like 2 doors down from me. But every day I see her come out in her little shoes and cute clothes and go to work about 5am and I don't see her come back till about 4pm. She's 20, she's really cute and adorable, just how she tip toes all over the place and her cooking smells great by the way. One day I lent her some sugar and she gave me some of the peach cobler she made, it gave me a food orgasm lol. But anyway, every day I see her and I can't stand how cute she is. She wears soft colors and has floral clothes mostly. I just really want to be more that just the white guy that helps her with her groceries. I'm not going to lie, I really want to sleep with her, and it's not some pregnancy fetish, it's just that the pregnancy makes her look so small and dainty. She's really petite and totally reminds me of a pregnant cat lol. How can I propose it to her? So far, all I've tried is asking her what she's going to do with the baby and she said she's going to give him to a couple that can't have children. Sometimes she lets me in her apartment when I ask her to lend me something and I ask her things. I asked how she's satisfying her urges and she stayed quite but then found what I needed so I wasn't able to get a response. That is the creepiest thing I've done by the way. She's just so adorable, and so sweet. She's the nicest girl I've ever met. Her personality is just amazing. So what can I do? Also, a note: I keep trying to select "Flirting" as the topic but it keeps switching to "Sexual Behavior"

[PiuBelloAmante]

Dude it sounds creepy but sweet, you just really like her
She just happens to be pregnant, just keep being there for her and making her feel loved and supported/protected

Always be kind and say hello, and make your feelings known when the time is right,
Tell her something honest, straight from the heart you will know when to say it... believe it

[Asker]

But what can I do for her to notice me? My palms get really sweaty when I'm trying to think of what to say to her when I see her and most of the time I say something stupid. But I like your advice, just don't know if I'll be able to do it.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Its always easier said than done... my advice is solid but risky, Just be helpful and let her know that you enjoy her company If you are having a get together with some friends at you apartment invite her, make her feel wanted by you, every girl loves to be wanted and shown attention you sound like a good bro, you can make a move now, or soon, but you will have to stick with her through her pregnancy, and since she is hispanic she might be thinking its not cool to have pregnant sex (which i think is gross by the way jut my opinion) so you would be with her for love not selfish desires, it will show that you are a good man who is willing to be there for her even though you know you can't get intimate just yet...

[Asker]

That's a great idea actually. I can totally have a get together o. o Yeah, she looks so lonely, it makes me sad, I don't see family visit her or anything. Hahaha I could but I'm not sure what I'd do to 'make a move', I'm inherently shy :) Oh hmm I don't see what's so bad with sex during pregnancy but it does sound kind of gross because it's not mine I mean. But why not. Yeah, I'd be there for her, I want to be, she's just so perfect.

[PiuBelloAmante]

I understand you on the shy part, its the same deal with me Just make her feel wanted, invite her over for dinner, let her know you are ordering Chinese and if she wants any the little things add up, sounds like you are doing a great job already, you help her out, with groceries and stuff girls love that sounds like you are in love with a good woman :) best of luck bro

[Asker]

Yeah, it's really hard. Yeah okay, maybe I'll order pizza tomorrow. I don't have school and maybe I can invite her over to play games. I don't like that she's alone so much. Yeah, I hope she really appreciates what I do and should do more, but she comes home really tired, I mean sometimes I see her climb the stairs with her slippers in her hands or see her sit and then continue but if I see that I mostly come and her to her apartment. She is a good woman, just the sweetest person and she's so incredibly smart I am awed.

[PiuBelloAmante]

if she seems tired some days, just let her know, if she needs anything to let you know

[Asker]

I will, and do she just never asks me for anything an insists she can do things herself.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Haha! thats fine just keep offering, or sometimes just do it, just help her without asking her

[Asker]

That's the only way I get to do anything for her :D *Shia Labeouf* Just DO IT!! MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE! DO IT!!! :D

[PiuBelloAmante]

YEAH BRO!!! JUST DO IT!!! FUCKING DO IT!!! ARGGHHHHHHHH!!!

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[Asker]

Hahahahahahaa omg that's gold XD I'm going to bookmark that link right now XD

[PiuBelloAmante]

Thanks bro! Hope everything has/is going well with her! You sound like a kind be bro and I wish you the best of luck with this girl!

[Asker]

You're welcome and thanks :)

[Asker]

Took your advice by the way, thank you :)

[PiuBelloAmante]

Ight bro Really am rooting for you!

[Asker]

Thank you.

[Ilovemilfs]

" She's really petite and totally reminds me of a pregnant cat" that just made me spit my soda all over my keyboard, thanks.

[Asker]

Ahahahahahahaha :D Because you laughed or because you didn't expect it? XD You're welcome buddy :D

[aleecee1995]

Lmao wow it literally just sounded like you described me except im not pregnant xD
Anyways just talk to the girl like a normal person and be actual friends with her first before flirting. Cus if you flirt right away you're gonna turn her off bc she will think you only helped her out just so you can get with her

[Asker]

You're small and dainty and you wear a lot of flowery clothes and soft colors? That's so cute :D Yeah I'm trying but it's difficult, I mean I only get too see her when she's most tired and not in the mood to talk :/

[aleecee1995]

lol yea. Maybe you can try visiting her at work. I would honestly recommend just being friends with her first. It seems like she's going through a very difficult situation. Asking her out right away is not the best approach cus like you said she is pregnant and tired all the time. And as a victim of rape and being pregnant at the moment I highly doubt she will want to be dating right now unless you are willing to wait for her and be there once the baby is born I suggest you move on cus women are emotional beings and this case dating will not be easy

[Asker]

Woah visiting her at work? Umm I don't want to creep her out. She's a very reserved lady and I think that will but me in her danger radar. Yeah I know, I just can't ignore her though. She seems like someone I'd love very much. As for emotional, she's extremely smart and but also very sweet. She's about 6 months right now and she doesn't seem emotional to me. At least not expressing it. She's very calm and collected and we play chess together Sundays when she's not too tired. She isn't a weak woman, she's very strong, mentally. But yeah, I just want to be there for her.

[aleecee1995]

When i say emotional im not referrering to her as a cry baby or anything like that xD it's hard to explain. I was saying you could visit her at work since i thought she was a little more comftable with you but like you said you dont wanna creep her out so its okay. But yea like I said you should just take time to get to know her better. I'm sure after awhile after being friends you guys can become closer and more comftable with one another since you're willing to be there for her. Then you can ask her out. Which is good cus not many guys can do that. Anyways, I wish you the best of luck with this girl😀

[Asker]

Hahahaha I know what you mean, like issues right? Yeah, I'm not trying to be the creepy guy two doors down x"> Yeah, I found out about 2 days ago that she loves honeydew boba and she doesn't go to work tomorrow so I'm going to wake early and buy her boba before I head to school. She told me she craves them ahahaha :D Okay, will do, thank you :)

[arianna14]

I think that's adorable. If you like her, go for it. What do you have to loose?

[Asker]

I actually already tried. I woke up early and bought her boba before going to school and she ended up giving me back the money under my door. I'm just trying really slow.

[CourtJester]

"... pregnant cat,"... lmao!

[CorruptedDocument]

This video should help you out with that fetish.

https://youtu.be/-ZOiX6cIT8o

[Asker]

hahahaha wow this is amazingly cute actually.

[Anonymous]

So you have a fetish for pregos

[Asker]

No no no I swear it's not a fetish, it's just that she looks so vulnerable. I don't know but the girl is cute and really nice and smart. I like her.