What does an orgasm feel like to you?

When I near orgasm, my breathing quickens, almost like there is not enough oxygen in the room. I find that I tend to start grasping for something... the nightstand , the sheet, a guard rail (it all depends on where I am), etc.. The same sort of happens with my legs... almost like Restless Leg Syndrome, I cannot keep my legs still. My muscles begin to tense up, and I get lightheaded and dizzy (perhaps from the nearing orgasm, or perhaps from lack of oxygen, at the time it happens I don't care). I have heard many people claim that if you focus on your breathing, and make sure to breathe deeply, this will actually "aid you" in having a wonderful orgasm. I have found the complete opposite to be true, and I tend to have multiple orgasms. My mind is non-existent; all that exists is the *feeling* of what I am doing (or what is being done *to* me). Coherent thought is not a part of it, and it feels as though every nerve ending is a million times more sensitive than usual. When I am at this point, even something as small as tickling can put me "over the edge". It's hard to describe the lack of thought in words, since no words exist at that point... It is purely sensory for me. Anyway, the last thing on my mind is regulating my breathing. LOL At the moment I orgasm, it literally feels as though my heart stops. The first few times this happened it scared me half to death, but I assume it is merely my focus being drawn away from my heartbeat. I tend to stop breathing... not so much holding my breath as just simply... not breathing for a moment. I have met many girls who say that when they orgasm, the focus of their feeling is in the clitoris, however for me it is like a tightening sensation within my abdomen, only I am able to feel it deep within. Then there is this incredible wave (for lack of a better term) that feels like it radiates outwards from just beneath my navel, up towards my neck, as well as down my thighs, and calves, and ending in my feet. My toes almost always curl, but not so much in a tightening of the muscle, but rather as the ending point of this wave.
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  • When I had my orgasms in the past it just depends on what it is because I had to very different ones.
    I have had one and I did not feel it until. my boyfriend at the time asked me. I had no clue what he was talking about. then I had one with my boyfriend now.
    He had my legs up in the air the min it he went in me I never noticed that my breathing was quacking I stared to scream and I could not control my breathing. I did not even know I had came. but I did notice that I was exhausted.
    Then I had one that was cassed by me. I actly dwelt this one. I was quickneen my breath and then I hadst to try to control my legs then as I neelery there. I I just dwelt this hot liquied com out. and then I feilt like going to sleep.

  • Where to start... there's so many feelings that happen at once. It's like my body concocts a giant potion of all the good feelings I'd had so far and pours it all over me. I pant, sweat, twitch, stretch, squeeze, sigh... I feel like I'm glowing between the legs, and in the end I melt into a puddle of pleasure. Letting it all wash over me and basking in the glow is tough, cause ejaculation is always right around the corner. And that feels great in its own way, but it's just not the same.

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  • Sounds like your Second chakra, aka the Sacral chakra, is fine and well :) As is your kundalini energy, which then radiates up through the rest of your chakras, and finally back down. Anyway, thank you for the wonderfully detailed description. No one has ever shared that experience with me verbally.

    • wow your a fellow buddhist too?

    • No, just deeply spiritual :)

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  • My legs straightens and there is a little muscle contraction. My face has like a sour expression.

  • It feels like some muscles in your lower half tense up, then you feel the cum going inside your penis and spurting out. Rather anti-climatic, ironically enough.

  • For guys it's more of an ache at the base of the penis just before we let go, then a melting feeling as we begin to shoot come.

    I know what you mean about being only able to feel at that point. It's a very non-verbal, or maybe pre-verbal mental state. Not so much an altered state of mind as an absence of mind. I doubt I could tell you my own name while I'm coming, and I hardly care who I am. All one's cares and complexes are washed away for a few moments.

    Isn't it wonderful?