Guys, why do some change position so many times during sex?

[Anonymous]

So, some guys I have slept with change position a lot during sex. Is it because they have a hard time finding something that is good? One of my friends, who have slept with the same guy I have told me he didn't do it while they had sex, but when we had it he changed a lot, like every 2-5 minutes. It all comes down to me being insecure if Im good in bed. No one ever told me I am, and it has happend once that I guy gave up on cuming while we had sex and it made me really insecure. So guys, why do you change positions many times during sex?

[Anonymous]

These three reasons:

1) Porn: Guys may feel they need to change stuff up because of what they see in porn. They see how pornstars "seemingly" change from one position and smoothly into another. They feel by doing this they are like pornstars and if you're a pornstar then you're a "master at sex". The reality is that in every single scene pornstars do they do a ton of takes. They may do one position for hours and take breaks in-between. Not only the but it's not the pornstar's responsibility to choose positions. That is scripted and directed. So as you can see this is a ignorant mindset for guys to have.

2) Premature ejaculation: One of the scariest things when it comes to sex for a guy is cumming too early. Guys need to take breaks during sex. Unless you're in a quickie or the guy is a rare breed of male who can fuck for 30 minutes to hours non-stop then he's going to have to take a break. However, that can be done without changing positions, but some guys feel that stopping and resting some is a bad thing. Even the pornstars they worship within what they actually filmed stop and rest some. This leads into the last one:

3) A woman's satisfaction: Many men feel that by stopping and/or not changing positions the sex will feel "boring" to women. It's a ridiculous mindset really. These men are insecure.

[JuicyBrain]

He either wanted to changes things up a bit to make it more interesting or he is cleverly using that trick to prevent him from cuming. When he's about to come, time to change position. That gives him a little break, just enough to go back at it in the new position. It can also be a way to see what position is best for you two.

Also, there are tons of reasons for which a guy can have difficulty reaching orgasm. It's not necessarily because of you ! Don't feel so insecure. It may sound like men are always in total control their body and mind but the truth is having an orgasm depends on many different factors and we do not control all of them.

[Glimpee]

Guys can't actually last that long without breaks. changing positions gives us the quick break...

every second not pumping is like taking away 5 seconds of pumping -> this becomes less effective the more you use it in one ejaculatory period

[Proc1]

Every 2 minutes? Lol. Yeah that's not normal; reasons can include not wanting to cum, wanting you to be more involved which is forced in some positions, you get different sensations in different positions, maybe he was on top for ages and wants you to be on top so he can lie there and rest up.

[Klaatu51]

personally i don't i go missionary 99%
guess they do it coz they wanna spice things up maybe

[reptocarl]

It's a way to slow the sex down to prolong it plus its fun

[creepycreeper]

They sound like they watch too much porn.

[meatballs21]

Because if we don't, we get accused of being boring in bed.

In other words, no matter what a guy does with a girl, in bed or otherwise, he can't win.

[Dtegesd123]

lol its like taking breaks during workouts. We don't wanna finish too soon.

[Alistar]

Sometimes you need to change the angle to improve the friction.

[Ihav2fart]

To mix things up and that is what porn has taught us. To go through with at least 5+ positions on 1 pop.

[RationalMale]

too much porn? or love variety?