What would u say about guys who reject sex or play games?

everyone has a reason or is entitled to rejecting sex.. but im talking about guys online, who might want it or show interest then reject it, for reasons that are not normal. I've heard stories and its happened to me. i was hanging out with a guy who was an acquaintance. he seemed thrilled to come over to my house, but also seemed irritated nothing happened between us. he told me many times he was 'attracted' to me. finally, i asked him to give me a massage and he even pulled down some of my pants, exposing my butt- which he didn't have to. Then, he left and went to his place. he said "ok 'let's hang out later' but when i texted him, days later, he was stand offish and rude. i finally asked him today why if a hot girl asks him for a massage why he wouldn't talk to her again. he gave all kinds of reasonings saying he didn't want to be a certain way, my past (there is no past), and other bs. i said.. seriously why.. he gave more lame reasons. why would guys who WANT sex refuse it and act even rude like this idiot... he has a hot gorgeous girl in front of him saying she's regularly horny--and he just doesn't talk to her again. is it an ego trip? insecurity? wtf is wrong with idiots like these, then he just wanted to put me down.. its almost as if he was MAD i made a move on him... another guy--tried to get with me for years.. saying i was hot pretty etc.. finally one day i was kind of like ok.. and he was over and i was almost sort of intiating something as well, and he didn't make a move then, he was acting kind of weird about it like wanted to play games.. after watning to get with a girl forever, now he has a chance and acts weird? other guys have said thigns to me like "i want to make u want me more"...(one being an ugly old guy) and other guys too--they all seem to act abnormally and play games.. why would they do this when THEYRE horny and trying to seduce me then just play games... what is wrong with these weirdos and freaks...
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trying to figure out why psychologically these weird guys are acting this way--do they have internal issues, mental issues... whats with them and wanting to play games with women or others.. why not just go with it.. many guys talk abotu 'the moment' and these weirdos just want to play head games.. I've dealt with so many weird guys like this.. really what is wrong with them...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm not sure based on what you wrote. I'm almost afraid to ask some of the questions I need to for fear you'll go ballistic. Can I trust you to stay calm?

  • Maybe they're at war with themselves morally and all want sex but when it comes down to it, they know they shouldn't

    • this isn't even sex.. its just fooling around... and i doubt they are b/c there's nothing wrong with it... is it an issue with the female, if she's really pretty or theyre just.. stupid? or maybe they do have moral issues or get intimidated or scared

    • Every single possibility you just said are equally possible

Most Helpful Girl

  • I say they're not for me and I don't want to be around them

    • this is for the above anonymous.. the psychopath not the person who answered this.. no its not 'slutty' at all.. most guys are the 'sluts' out there.. you're a stupid b*tch... get a brain because you lack one... guys don't reject my 'coochie' what a nasty vile sick thing to say---you're a disturbing person and a psychopath.. you need major help... and im calling you an idiot b/c you're worthless trash.. not 'lashing out at you'... u should shoot yourself anonymous (18-24)... you're a retarded child with no brain... worthless dumb crazy b*tch

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  • No offense, I don't mean to hurt your feelings but the best guesses I have are...
    1. You are not as physically appealing and attractive as you originally seemed thus he can't get it up or doesn't want to get it up.
    2. The slutty approach was a turn off. As Tupac said "Tease me. I don't want if it's that easy."

    • most men are married to or dating really ugly women.. so again.. you're a moron and get a clue... and im super pretty and most of these guys are the ones chasing me or saying they want me... much offense to you-- you're a complete and stupid moron...

    • I never said you were a slut, but the approach you described was very slutty. *reads pathetically defensive tone for a 30 year old* Never mind, apparently anyone who doesn't tell you what you want to hear or give you want you want sexually is an 'idiot'. Don't lash out at me because guys keep rejecting your coochie.

  • Then don't bother with them. Find guys who will. Not rocket science