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We slept in the same bed and nothing happened?

So, a guy friend I've been hanging out with a flirting with (both of us have established we're attracted to each other) went to our bosses going away party the night before last. We had a lot of fun and went swimming, play fought in the pool. Typical flirting. We both had a few beers (he had more than me). He was supposed to drive me home but said he didn't feel like it was safe for him to drive and asked if it was okay if we slept there. I said yes. After everyone else left a friend said "there's pillows over there, and a futon in there so y'all can snuggle." He didn't even react to it, he just got the blankets and made up the bed. We joked around and talked for a little bit and when I turned my back to him as a joke he laughed and tried to roll me back over. I eventually turned over and pretended to have fallen asleep. He very lightly touched my stomach and when I didn't react he pulled away and went to sleep. We ended up spending the whole next day together and watched fight club at my house. We never talked about it. I guess my question is: Does he respect me more or feel a certain way about nothing happening? I really like him and want it to eventually move into something more so I hope I haven't screwed that up. We've been friends for about a year and we've progressed into hanging out more frequently the past few months. What's your take?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Its because he knows IT IS WRONG TO RAPE. He might also not be a guy who gets into hat stuff too quickly. But if you pretend to sleep and he doesn't have sex with you, it is probably because he has respect and thinks "wow, this girl is asleep so I can't have sex with her because that's rape."

  • There's no way to know. You can ask him about it. Or you can snuggle up to him while watching another movie to see how he reacts.

Most Helpful Guys

  • you should make the first move! I think that he is reluctant to make the first move because he might think that you dont feel the same way

  • he didn't know you wanted him. you can't play sleep and expect him to make a move.

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  • Well... just from your title I can honestly say - "And nothing will ever happen."

    • Unless you do something - something concrete --- no hinting. O. o

  • You should directly ask him out.

  • He didn't see your green light.

    • I'm okay with how nothing happened. It wasn't really the time and place for it. I just kind of want to see what guys think about having a girl they like sleeping in the same bed but not doing anything with them.

    • It can happen but 'incidents' may arrive.

  • You mean a lot to him.

  • Jesus, this sounds frustrating. Just make out or do each other already.

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