25 year old virgin. Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute in a brothel?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so I'm a 25 year old male. I've never kissed a girl, never had sex and never had a girlfriend. I'm too shy to approach women and the ones I have have all shut me down. After years of rejection I've decided to give up, the heartbreak has just gotten too much to bear. I don't think at this rate I will ever have a relationship or sex with a woman in a normal setting like most people. I feel like a complete loser because I haven't at least had sex when all my friends lost theirs years ago. I've been considering going to a brothel (prostitution is legal where I live) and hiring a prostiute to lose my virginity. Do you think it's a good idea?

[thecd1979]

Paying for sex is not going to help your self esteem or develop confidence. If anything it's going to just drag you down even further and make you feel worse about yourself. I don't know why you are having so much trouble interacting with women and dating, but I can tell you have a very low self esteem and lack confidence in yourself. The best thing you can do is to try and stop worrying about it. Instead of looking for a partner or trying to get laid, focus on your goals, the plans for your life and doing the things you love. Pick up a hobby, call up an old friend, spend some time with your family and do things that you love on your leisure time. It may be a long road but once you develop some confidence and get a better idea on who you are and where you want to be in your life the women will start coming to you and it will get easier to interact with them and date. Please don't pay for sex, it's not going to do anything for you regardless if it's legal or otherwise. I recommend reading up on some of my takes for more information.

[Gman1]

I don't know... if you think it might help your self esteem, and get this burning issue of your mind... I think you should do whatever feels right to you.
You're going to pay for sex whether you have a girlfriend or a wife anyway... in retrospect prostitution would be much cheaper ;)

[Anonymous]

No, please don't. In my opinion, a person's virginity should be best saved for someone you love. Also, there's the stigma of visiting prostitutes to think of. If in future you get a girlfriend and she finds out that you had visited prostitutes, it might be a deal breaker to her.

Also, if you have been rejected so much, maybe you should rethink the kind of girls you have been going for. It's okay to still be a virgin at your age. I have some female friends around the same age as you who have never had boyfriends or even been kissed and they're pretty girl next door types with nice figures and great personalities but guys are just not interested because they don't dress up to the nines / too goody two shoes.

[Stacyzee]

I don't think it's a good idea.

Because eventually you will rely on brothels to fulfill your sexual need.

Sooner or later you'll be looking at your account realizing you wasted hundreds on women who didn't give a crap about you, and only the amount of money you have to offer.

It's not too late.

Work on your social skills.
Improve your all around appearance (exercise, diet, eat right).
When you improve your inside then it will reflect on your outside appearance.

Spending money on prostitutes will only feel good for the moment.
The one thing that will not change is that you will go back to your lonely life.
You have to change that!

[bombamboum]

If you feel like it will help you feel better, why not but I don't think it will make you feel better. It won't help your shyness towards woman and you might find it cheap for doing this way

[XRabbitHeartX]

This question gets asked almost every friggen day. I say do whatever you want. I don't think it's a good idea but if it will make you happy then do it.

[JaguarPrincess]

This would make you feel better due to the fact that your friends have been there and done that. Try meeting women where you feel comfortable. .. Museum maybe... Idon

[Unersheep]

Don't do it. You aren't the only 25 year old virgin out there. Give it some more time.

[JessRoxHard]

If your want sex that much. Go for it. If it's legal where you are then what's the problem. Lots of men who get laid regular probably to brothels so why shouldn't you.

[sid312]

If u were 15 i would say no but ur way behind, so u better visit this brothel often. U will love it and they treat u like a king. So go get that first piece of ass dude

[jacquesvol]

Don't do it: it's just very expensive masturbation in a vagina.

[olivia183]

Dont give up! Become more confident and your results will drastically improve.

[Aristotle]

If you feel like you will feel better after it, sure go ahead. I wouldn't say it's a good idea though.

[genericname85]

I know a person who did that. Not worth it. I wouldn't do it.

[greycadillacs]

I swear I see this question at least once a week. Having sex probably won't be a panacea, you have to work on yourself. And that means putting in the time and work, read books and online how to get good with girls. But if it'll help your morale, go and hire a prostitute by all means

[Strider90]

If you are too shy you probably won't be able to do it with a prostitute. Go to the church instead and find yourself a virgin bride to settle down with.

[IHateBeingaMan]

ya why not, most guys pay for it one way or another

[ramboreconnect]

I thought of this many times but dont do that. Try to get a girl through relationship.

[Anonymous]

why not, Johnny Berba did it

[Anonymous]

Morally it's not okay but after all who cares? It's your money, her vagina. If you're curious about sex then go for it

[Opinion Owner]

Just make sure you're std protected, that's nr1

[Anonymous]

no I did but wish I did not sex with my ex wife was a different level, volunteer in some thing that has a lot of women volunteers, as you get to know them you won't be as shy. Take your time it will be worth it sex is fun but love is better.

[Anonymous]

Yes! Sleep with an STD filled used up ho!