Has anyone here been to a BDSM site such as fetlife?

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If so, has it been an enjoyable experience? What are some reasons to join and others not to join? Did you make any friends? know I'm under aged but I'm interested and I'm bored.

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Anonymous
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Yeah I have an account on there. Not very active though. I use it to perv around on people's profiles, and read some post on their 'popular' page. I myself don't socialize on there, so it's not all that interesting; just fun to take a look at sometimes.
If you want to meet people to talk to or ask questions, or find out what's all happening in your area, i suppose i'd be a good place to start though. It's a nice place to orientate if you are really starting out exploring your kinky side. Would not recommend actually going out or meeting in person though when you are still so young!
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- Asker
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  I want to meet friends there. I am fifteen years old and not planning to meet anyone because that's dangerous when you're young. Do you think I'm too young? The main reason I desire to join is for BDSM education purposes and to socialize.
- Asker
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  *eduxational
- Opinion Owner
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  As said below, you do have to be 18. I think 15 is really too young to start meeting people on that site. Besides, you won't find many people your age and predominantly creepy older guys. Can see the appeal, but would wait if i were you. If you really feel like you need to talk someone about BDSM, do it with someone you know and trust (and preferably a woman ^^)
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- Asker
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  May I please message you, ma'am? Also, I'm extremely bored. Do you think it would really be dangerous for me to join? Please state your honest opinion. Thank you.
- Opinion Owner
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  sure :). No longer anonymous
Anonymous
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I've been a member of fetlife for a few years now and haven't had too many negative experiences thus far. Yes I've made a few friends through attending local munches.
Reasons to join/not join are purely personal, changes from person to person...
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- Asker
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  Can I make any friends online? I'm too young to meet any of them in real life. I am fifteen years old. I'm I too young? I really desire to join.
- Opinion Owner
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  Thats way to young to join such a site and converse with people online about such subjects.
- Asker
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  So it's dangerous if you're under eighteen?
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- Opinion Owner
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  Its illegal if your under 18
- Asker
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  Please elaborate.
- Opinion Owner
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  Typically when you go to join sites like that its asks if your over 18, if your not it doesn't allow you to enter the site.
- Asker
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  It's easy to lie about one's age, but what do you mean by illegal? I could go to jail? I'm not really sure what you meant by that.
- Opinion Owner
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  Well its illegal in the sense that youd be lying about your age to join the site (although i suppose it would be more of an honor system based thing than legally binding). But still the point holds true that you shouldn't join at such a young age.
- Asker
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  I do not think is illegal, but yes, I suppose it would be rather incorrect of me to do so. Perhaps you are right. It's what everyone says. Although I am unable to comprehend the scientific reasoning behind that statement.

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Adaler Xper 4
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If you are interested in BDSM and such activites fetlife is maybe the best place for this.
There are many good people with pashion, but also some extrimly stupid. In BDSM you should always be carefull, openminded and good sense.
I have account there but not much active. I enjoy converstions with people what i met there.
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Klaatu51 Master
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tbh i joined there coz i wanted 2 masturbate wid some pics of some gal, and i wasn't able 2 do it as a guest
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Mustachekitteh Editor
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Nope never been to one.
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- Asker
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  Do you think one must be eighteen?
- Mustachekitteh
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  They don't have to be 18 but I think one needs to be mentally mature and well educated about it all.
- Asker
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  I'm actually not well educated on the subject which is why I'm joining; to learn. I would consider myself "mentally mature" but I can be childlike at times. Im aware of not giving away private info.
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- Asker
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  I'm not sure if I should join or not due to my age. What is your opinion? I am fifteen.
- Mustachekitteh
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  I wouldn't join because at 15. There are A LOT of people that probably would take advantage of you. There are some cruel people out there that will try to go after anyone.
- Asker
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  That's accurate, but what if I were to say I was eighteen?
- Mustachekitteh
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  People would still try and trick you. Plus you would be lying to other people. You have any older friends who would join you and maybe good at keeping you safe?
- Asker
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  Yes, I do. But how would they keep me safe? Also, I hope it isn't selfish of me to ask such a request.
- Mustachekitteh
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  Honestly if you want to learn from those types of websites. Then you should lie about being 25. That way you should have less creepers if you meet any. Don't really go there to make friends and don't meet them in real life ever. Or let them know anything about you.
- Mustachekitteh
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  Though if someone was creepy enough they could hunt you down and where you live by your IP address. Though they would have to go through some great lengths for that. Still there are some really fucked up people out there.
- Asker
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  What's an IP address?
- Mustachekitteh
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  An IP address is your internet address. So meaning where your internet is being at your home. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IP_address Though that depends also on your security. But I do doubt the chances of someone going to such great lengths for that. It's just amazing how far some people will go to trick or take something from other people.
  
  Again you go on that website be paranoid and make sure nobody knows to much about you or that you give to much information as well.
- Asker
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  Thank you!! :) I'll be super paranoid!
Ball9008 Xper 4
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I use fetlife message me if you wanna be friend on there
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