Why do some guys kiss like they're trying to shove their tongue down the girl's throat?

I dated a guy like this, who used only tongue. I would kiss his lips, he would respond by putting his tongue in my mouth. My lips would only be a little open and he would shove his whole tongue in my mouth. For example, I would meet him dt for our date. I would try to give him a simple kiss and 2s into it, he'd put his tongue in my mouth. Is he really horny (we didn't have sex)? Does he think his tongue is like a penis and that he has to get it as far as he can inside me? I asked him to give me more lip... He said why, it feels better this way...
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  • I'm also guilt of using a lot of tongue, but only when its appropriate of course. If she straddles me and forcefully starts making out with me, then i know she wants more than a peck on the lips.

    But if we aren't getting it on, and its just a normal kiss, i don't use any tongue at all.

    You need to let him know that there is a time and place for using tongue, and that when your not getting it on, that he needs to use his lips only.

  • I would chalk it up to being inexperienced... Some chicks I have encountered in my time have done the same thing... Personally I like a lot of lip work with with some tongue swirling... but for gawds sake, I fail to see the thrill in being gagged with somebody's tongue... Blah!

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  • He evidently likes it for some reason, I don't know. This usually comes from lack of experience or experienced partners. Work with him, you never know what may come of it.

  • Because he's an inconsiderate lout. Dump him.

  • "Why do some guys" I think it would've been more appropriate to ask "why did this guy" because that sounds awful. I think the that's probably an uncommon thing for both guys and girls and isn't really a question worth asking. It's obviously just a weirdo who thinks it's hot and doesn't care that it bothers you.

  • lol he is a bad kisser. just horrible. A little bit of tongue is an invitation, if you do not respond with tongue I will get the signal and be sure not to stick my tongue down your throat.. He is really horny , he also probably thinks he is a good kisser and probably just dated you to get into your pants.

  • Because we just want to be inside of you. We do need a home after all:)

  • He just didn't know how to kiss

  • lack of skill/ too drunk to control their tongue

  • Well, why not?

  • They are inexperienced and don't know how to kiss yet.

  • Thats probably how he learned to kiss from his first couple of GFs.

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