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My girlfriend really wants to have a threesome?

She wants both a ffm and mmf threesome, but especially a mmf since obviously two dicks in her at the same time would be twice the fun. I'm really uncomfortable with both, but especially a mmf since the thought of another man penetrating her while we're together makes me cringe. I'm already a pretty jealous person as it is, and her bringing it up all the time makes me so uncomfortable... she just told a food friend of ours through a text last night that he's jot and if he'd be down for a threesome. it's not the first time, either. I don't like sharing, but she wants to have sex with everyone, even brought up having an open relationship. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? or been uncomfortable with the idea of one but did it anyway and liked it? I need some advice pleeeease.
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  • The only threesomes I have had (long, long ago) were when I was with a woman the was a friend I had sex with, but was not in a true relationship with. If I am in an emotional relationship, then no way to a threesome. Too much can go wrong.

    Your girlfriend wants sex with other guys, and maybe other girls. She does not want to be with just you. And once you open the door, it will get worse. since she is not letting up on it, I figure she really does not care about what you think and you would be much better off if you move on. Really!

  • Well I have had threesomes before but never in a relationship.. Just friends with benefits. I'm not sure how the dynamic works but hey if you are not comfortable with it then I wouldn't do it...

    I do know that it works for some couples and they are still happily together.

    • I'd be down for either threesome if I wasn't in a relationship with her. Being in a relationship just complicates it, though. I just don't want another dude fucking my girlfriend, it just makes me feel like just another dick to her--nothing more. I don't see why I'm not enough for her. If I fuck her really good, why does she still desire to sleep with other men? I put her orgasm over my own every time. She says no other guy has ever done that... and she's slept with soo many people.

    • Dude I don't know.. she's just really adventurous. I know some guys would love to be in your situation though (she sounds kinky) But either... Enjoy it or find someone else.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Here's the thing: You have every right to refuse a sexual act that you're uncomfortable with. By repeatedly insisting on something she knows you dislike, your girlfriend is showing absolutely no respect to you.

    You need to sit her down, and explain that you don't want that kind of relationship. Maybe you're better off apart if all she can think of is messing around with other men.

  • Well if you do agree a ffm, then you'll have to agree to a mmf too. It's just fair. And it's kinda obvious that you two have very different personalities and tastes. Maybe you guys just aren't compatible y'know.

  • It's going to be a disaster, mate. This is one of those decisions where you need to be fully on the same page, otherwise problems will eventually arise.

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  • Honestly, it's time to go. This issue won't get better and, frankly, any man who is okay with the woman he loves getting fucked by another not to mention her wanting that is the largest beta clown on the face on the planet.

    Cut your losses and find a girl who will accept your finger or a toy up her other hole as "guy #2" while you handle the other.

  • hey send me chat i have had many threesomes with girls and my man doesn't share me with men ;)

  • That is why I avoid will nearly always lead to emotional complcations

  • Leave the bitch

  • You realize she probably has already been having other men penetrating her, if she's bold enough to be flat out asking to have it done in your presence?

    • I agree with this man here since she's telling a dude he's hot while she's with you clearly doesn't respect you

    • Yeah, I'd advise OP to get himself tested to make sure she hasn't brought anything exotic to bed.

  • Bro this girl is no good she will cheat on you and it doesn't seem your on the same page dumo her now!

  • If you're not down for it then don't do it. The FFM thing sounds like a good time to me; but I get what you're saying about not wanting to share.

  • Maybe try you and a dildo at the same time

  • Well... you damned well better be comfortable in your relationship AND your sexuality. Most men your age are not.
    You know things will bump (Male male things) and you are prepared to see her love another guy fucking her?
    MOST relationships that aren't secure fall apart after these things. Use care.

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