If my boyfriend wants to have sex twice in one night within the hour does that mean you're good at sex or bad?

Question

when me and my boyfriend has sex and he cums within 5-10 minutes give or take and he seems like he wasn't ready for it and in a half hour or hour he wants to have sex again and usually takes a bit longer or the same time to cum does that mean his orgasms were so weak he can do it again or does that mean it was so good he wants to do it again? also does this say anything about his attraction to you?

selfishstars · Accepted Answer

Men experience something called a "refractory period". It's basically the period of time after a man orgasms before he is able to achieve an erection or orgasm again. For some men, it can be a matter of minutes. For others, it might be hours, or even days.

To me, it just sounds like your boyfriend enjoys sex with you, and since he has a relatively short refractory period, he's ready and willing to go for round two not long after.

Hannah591 · Accepted Answer

It doesn't say anything, he's just very sexual and wants to go again. Guys don't have awesome orgasms like women. He's doing it more for you; to increase the chance you orgasm and it lets him go on for longer. It doesn't say anything about attraction.

Cookiemonsterrr_ · Accepted Answer

Why don't you ask him about it?(: He knows the answer.

theguyisback · Accepted Answer

That's a good thing! That means you tuned him on enough in round 1, that he couldn't control his orgasm past 15min; AND you turn him enough that he can get it back up! 👍🏻 that's awesome!

zorro8888 · Accepted Answer

It just means he wants to have sex again, it doesn't mean the sex was good or bad.  Most guys last longer after the first time so maybe he wanted to go for a longer time.

yoyito92 · Answer

no just means tht it is fun

sharkman154 · Answer

Maybe he is worried that you didn't get enough pleasure?

Xlink · Answer

The third time I cum is the strongest to me. So that might be it. He probably doesn't masterbate before sex with you

lamborgini15 · Answer

Means he really finds you attractive and was amazing sex.

Anonymous · Answer

It definitely sounds like a good thing :) If he's hard again in half an hour or so, it means he was really turned on and had a shorter refractory period (the period after a guy ejaculates that he can't cum again, which is usually accompanied by orgasm but not necessarily.) It doesn't mean his orgasm was weak, and it does sound like he's attracted to you. It takes a bit longer the second time for many guys, so this sounds totally normal. Hope this can be of help?