Is anyone else tired of "big dick" shaming?

[FantasticPlanet]

Look, everyone was born with whatever body they were born with. Some women have a beautiful facial structure, or great natural breasts or butts. Some men are built with naturally handsome genetics and good frames for athletics.

And some men are just born with large penises. That does not mean that we're bad at sex, that we're all brutal penetrators in the bedroom, or that we don't know how to please a woman.
On the contrary, hung men have to work and study their whole lives to learn how to properly use their large penis correctly.
We're often better communicators, more attentive lovers, and sensually suave.

So whether you're hung like an elephant or a field mouse be happy with what you have, and stop trying to shame people that were born with something different.

And hey guys, the ones that think having a big dick means all you have to do is unzip your pants to get laid, trust me when I say it doesn't get any easier than you already have it. Women are human beings, not "dick contest" judges that reward every big guy with a complimentary BJ. FURTHERMORE: stop judging women on the size of their body parts of you don't want to be judged on the size of yours.

[Anonymous]

I think the way you worded 'A' is a bit of a giveaway.

I've been teased about it and I've read plenty of absoulte nonsese online but I've never been shamed. To be honest I'm in the top 1% in length and off the charts in girth and the overwhelming majority of my girlfriends didn't even seem to notice, that is they didn't mention it to me. They apparently told their friends but that didn't result in shaming, except in one case and that was a guy who teased me about it. I didn't feel ashamed or proud. I have a huge head too (size 7 7/8) I get teased about that more often.

[GoodDogNigel]

Everyone's a f3cking victim nowadays. Within the last five minutes on this site, I have seen the following topics:

Pretty girl shaming
Fat shaming
Thin shaming
and now, the biggest joke of the lot, BIG DICK SHAMING.

There is no such thing dude. You in fact are, "a whiny brat that hates when other people have things that I want."

[FantasticPlanet]

Great attitude man! You exhibit no undesirable personality traits at all! 👍🏼😂👋🏽

[GoodDogNigel]

Inability to put up with bull$hit is now an undesirable trait to have. If it is, I don't WANT to be desirable.

[FantasticPlanet]

Then leave the site, if you dislike it and peoples opinions so strongly. You're not one of those people that sits at a party, and grumbles about the food, the music & the company, when you could just get up and leave, are you? Get on with it then!

[superficialgirls]

There is a difference between being sensitive about everything, and getting pissed at public and mob like behavior. Mob behavior is inacceptable, as well as bullying. Joking and teasing is something else. But the way many people speak about things they don't like with disgusting words is annoying. How about speaking about what you like and enjoy? Do we need freedom to bitch? Seriously? Is that necessary to read about people's expectations that are unrealistic and at the same time put others down? Why can't they just describe what they love and be done with it? No, it always has to be coupled with lashing out against the opposite of their tastes, and degrading it. That's not about being a victim, it's about having human decency, and having fun with your tastes, instead of having the need to degrade. Yes, that's possible.

[Lyndsielee666]

? i don't ever see big dick shaming?
My boyfriend rams into my cervix every time we have sex and still don't complain.. he's good at what he does xD

[FantasticPlanet]

Yeah, it's typically not directed at women, so you wouldn't see it. It does occasionally come from women, but usually from men, directed at men. Kind of like girls arguing back and forth over large or small breasts, both implying that there is something wrong with the other.

[Lyndsielee666]

ass > titties anyways /: looool

[FantasticPlanet]

Can't we all just have both?

https://youtu.be/teosKxwqu80

[n_i_oo]

Finally! Someone! I have never experienced cervix pounding to be that bad as some women keep saying. And if so, slowing down the pace does wonders.

[Lyndsielee666]

How old is this question though wtf I don't remember even writing this

[n_i_oo]

Proly too old, my bad. Has your answer changed ever since though?

[Lyndsielee666]

@n_i_oo no my answer stays 😂

[n_i_oo]

Another one. Big dicks winning 😂

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

Don't have a go at us for having tiny dicks, don't have a go at us for having massive dicks... just how am I supposed to ridicule you then?

[superficialgirls]

You are trying to be sarcastic, I know, I hope... For the others who have unconscious thinking patterns that really go this way: how about enjoying life by enjoying what you like and at the *same* time letting others enjoy what they like?

[mikimouse]

I have dating too many guys with big dicks and they make it seem like it is a huge deal when to me it really isn't

[Bards]

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Filler

[mrsterlingarcher]

Is that Alex Turner? O. O

[EarthToKepler]

I'M THE WINY BRAT😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Киттйлинк]

Huh?

[OlderAndWiser]

I voted for C because my option wasn't included: I don't care about the size of anybody else's dick. I care about pleasing my woman and I know how to use what I've got, so I'm good!

[b_lova]

Never felt any shaming, but I didn't know why in my youth all the girls in my circle of friends made offers "I could not refuse" sometimes without even wanting to date me until I rekindled a relationship with someone from that circle of friends and she informed me of the discussions they had without my knowledge. Then it all clicked.

What is funny is that I didn't realize I had a big dick until she told me a year ago. Locker room boasting and porn had me thinking all guys were my size.

[SakuraChii]

I don't see what the big deal is

[blythely]

Then it's not all that big

[BertMacklinFBI]

could make this a mytake.

[FantasticPlanet]

Thought about it, but fewer people read the mytakes. Wanted to reach a broader audience, also wanted to offer one of those polls where the only way you get to vote is how the asker wants you to. Also, who in their right mind would open a mytake about big penis shaming? Not most.

[BertMacklinFBI]

I have a feeling this would probably get featured, so when that does happen im sure plenty would open it at some point. but anyways keyword: could. I just thought how it was presented was more suitable towards being a mytake but its still a question as well. nothing wrong with it.

[GOOSEBOY78]

you can stop the small dick shaming too ladies... because nothing bar cosmetic surgery will make it bigger unless you are paying for it!

[Bandit74]

I never realized hard life was for guys with big dicks

[Anno_Domini]

Let me break out the world's smallest (no pun intended) violin! xD

[Bandit74]

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@Anno_Domini

[superficialgirls]

Just read about the many degrading comments women post to "protect" non big guys (and at the same time add some requirements guys should fulfill in general...). Also, if you haven't noticed, this subject is all about playing with people's self confidence. If you are big they find something else, it's just a standard line. I much prefer a woman showing appreciation for a male, real one, without describing all the things they need to have to be attractive. Like have a job, a car, be dressed, don't live in your parents basement. Seriously? What does anything of that have to do with finding someone attractive. It's just another way to be superficial. It's nothing but shallow undesirable traits, and speaks volumes about the people who mention that, instead of more important things they really love. Way to show how empty they are if that's all they can think of.

[Ghosty]

Umm.. I don't really care? People talk and have opinions.. If you're hurt by those you were not happy with yourself already and let strangers projections get to close to you.

[superficialgirls]

So? People are insecure. Everybody can become insecure, depending on what happens in your life. We are social beings, of course people's opinions affect us, even if we don't share them. A basic level of acceptance is needed. The bad amount of stuff said about men on the internet is staggering. Calling people out on it is a good idea.

[jacquesvol]

And some men are just born with normal or small penises but will be be brutal when penetrating, hurting a girl on purpose. They think the girl will believe it's because of his dick size and tell it her female friends and they hope to earn kudos that way.

These guys are dicks themselves, compensating for their feeling of inferiority.

[jacquesvol]

With this question FantasticPlanet convinced the site he's Mandingo's twin. :D :D :D

[chubbycrow]

I'm a guy w a big dick there's a lot more to dating than looks, personality, dick size. There are some people who have amazing dating luck and aren't choosing what most would consider "bottom of the barrel" yet don't fit any of those qualities

[Texaskid1]

Having a well sized package is a joy.

[Ihav2fart]

Or we could just stop being sensitive little bitches...

[superficialgirls]

Or we could just stop being rough retarded chimps?

[Ihav2fart]

@superficialgirls rofl whoever you are, creating a new account just to comment on others so we don't know your main account is lame... sensitive little bitch.

[jonnycauc9]

How big is big? Im hung but i see others too like myself. We never talk about who is bigger. Why not?

[Socca_Playa_22]

is that Taylor swift in that picture ahaha

[MrsAthruZ]

LOLL at this question

[JordanDavis]

I'm on the large side... like very large... and it does sort of bother me when people say things like size doesn't matter and that the extra size is a waste, because honestly being really big down there can be very annoying and it's not really worth being big if there isn't any benefit to it.

That said, everyone's opinions are different and as long as people are being honest and not being overly cruel or mean I think it's fine.

[CT_CD]

I agree to stop shaming men that were born blessed

[Anonymous]

Tell me more about how having a big dick is anywhere near as bad as having a small one. At least you can have sex. Think about that one.

[Opinion Owner]

That last photo? Yeah, I'm never, EVER GOING TO HAVE A WOMAN REACT LIKE THAT when she sees me naked. How do you think that makes me feel?

[Anonymous]

It obviously goes both ways... I think the world could learn to just STFU and not get so hurt so easily

[superficialgirls]

How about going the simpler route. The world could just learn to STFU and not get to spite vileness all the time. It's a sign of disease if you can't enjoy what you like without having to degrade the rest. Makes you wonder if you really enjoy what you claim to like in the first place.