To all the straight guys if u could have sex with a guy just for curiosity sake and you don't have to see him ever again and it will never be found out that you experimented would you be willing to have sex with a guy. Also if you don't like it going into it you can stop
Be HONEST and don't think oh if I say yes that means I'm gay I'm just asking a question and want a honest opinion
Yes I would be curious it's only experimenting
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mabye I would consider it
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No I've never wanted to experiment for curiosity sake
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Other (explain what)
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Anonymous
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Okay, this is a weird one and nobody is going to believe it, but I can get sworn testimony. Years ago - my girlfriend and I have been living together for just over ten years - my girlfriend went through this thing where she thought watching gay sex was kind of hot. I count myself straight, but I kind of played along and we would watch some gay porn or something.
Then at a Christmas party, a gay co-worker of her's happened to mention that he thought I was kind of cute. girlfriend got an idea and asked if co-worker and I would have sex so she could watch. He loved the idea, but only if sometimes he could just have sex with me without girlfriend watching.
They thought it was a brilliant idea and came to me. I was not exactly enthralled at first, but after several weeks, and I mean weeks, of back and forth and nagging and pleading and girlfriend offering me all sorts of sex, I agreed, and for the next seven months - !!! - I was in a gay relationship (at the same time still having sex with my girlfriend.)
To my surprise, it took getting used to but I actually started to enjoy it. I was both top and bottom - and even liked being the bottom. We actually got sort of intimate, especially one week when my girlfriend went out of town on business and her co-worker stayed with me. It wasn't like we had sex every day or anything - we both had to work, we had other things going on - but we did spend time together. We got along great and the sex was actually pretty good - both when we had it in front of my girlfriend (which actually really turned me on) and when it was just the two of us. Weirder still, I actually liked cuddling with him and talking.
It was weird on one level, unpleasant on another, and good on another. I was all over the board.
It actually ended on a somewhat sour note. It became fairly obvious that the guy was getting pretty involved with me and we decided to end it. He took it pretty hard and it got a bit uncomfortable. My girlfriend felt especially bad and tried to set him up with another guy, but nothing really worked. Eventually he got another job and we lost touch.
During this and for a bit after I sort of had a nagging sense that maybe I was bi. Not gay, but bi. That has passed with time as I have no real interest in gay sex, but it did sort of rock me back on my heels for a bit. I think, in retrospect, it was more the novelty than the sex - and I definitely told my girlfriend never again. (Easier to do now that we have 3 kids.)
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wagsingle
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Just because you haven't found a guy that attracted you since the one you really enjoyed sex with doesn't mean your not bi. If you had sex with a guy, and it was pretty good, if you describe it as intimate, and you also love a woman, you are without a doubt bi. Especially if you liked cuddling.
Opinion Owner
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@wagsingle Well, if you say so. I admire your ability to make these measured psychological assessments never having spoken with me. Of course there is also the Kinsey Study that found that 11% of heterosexual men had at least one homosexual experience and 3% had one homosexual relationship. No doubt Kinsey got it wrong in defining these men as straight - the fact that they were so classified scientifically by the Institute, which is a renowned research center. At any rate, I don't mean to offend, but you are drawing conclusions based on some very scanty information.
wagsingle
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An honest question:You admit you enjoyed sex with a man, and enjoy sex with women. What differentiates that from bisexuality? Clearly you prefer women, and have decided that you don't want to do it again. But that just appears to be a preference. Perhaps as much a preference for monogamy and deeply commuted relationships as opposed to the more casual sex as you enjoyed with him. The unintended bonding you experienced with him would understandably make you not want to do that again. I'm just trying to understand why you would first suspect that you might be bi, then latter reject it.
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Opinion Owner
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@wagsingle Well, because it was unexpected and I was not sure what to make of what I was feeling. Was it novelty or was it something deeper? Your presumption is that we always know our own minds. Sometimes we do. Other times it takes us time to figure out where we are coming from. In other cases, we never do. In my case, it was a realization of what I really felt even as I was still with him. The fact that I could not reciprocate his feelings and we realized that he was getting more attached to me is what moved us to end things. Yet I did feel what I felt at the time - and remember feeling it. That was not an illusion, but it was transient.
MrOracleInfluencer
+1 y
No. I'm straight. 100% straight. From a sexuality standpoint, men don't even register on my "attraction meter", and may as well not even exist. This is what straight means.
Bi-sexual men definitely exist, but they are FAR smaller in number than bi-sexual women - men's sexuality is far more polarized than women's.
How can anyone answer that without being labeled, or judged by someone!! I don't FEEL gay, but yeah, I have seen some naked guys, some nice penises, in locker rooms. Do I want to get with them? NO. I ADORE women, and their soft little curvy parts! I've never met a guy that I was attracted to, so I would not sign up, to try it, but who knows what will happen tomorrow? I am not offended by gay guys, or girls kissing, or being married!! Why should I? They have every right to find their joy, wherever they choose!! I won't judge them, and I expect they won't judge me!
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ncannon18Guru
+1 y
As a straigt guy, I would have no problem having a gay moment with a gay guy just once, because I might feel something really sparkling. Also I've sometimes had sexual fantasies of having a guy lick my ass for me.
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MrRobot
+1 y
*cough* gay *cough* *cough*
ncannon18
+1 y
Well, this is something I truly do want to try out someday & will not let a mean person like you stop me. And I was to not recieve any comments by a youngster like you neither. One other thing, if you don't like what I'm talking about then just stand up & run away to any other question that doesn't really scare you.
hellionthesageYoda
+1 y
I am not gay, I am attracted to femininity. So would I want to have sex with a guy no, if however said guy looked like a woman and acted like a woman (there are some very attractive transexuals and crossdressers out there as awkward as that is to say) I might. But that is diffrent then being gay because of homosexuality has to do with attraction of same sex characteristics so yeah. In short everyone is a little gay and also not gay if that makes sense. But to answer your question, yeah if I thought they where pretty and feminine enough I might though I don't generally go for casual sex.
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markc9000Xper 4
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i pick other if i was a female temporarily, even if it wouldn't be completely gay but still, though never if we we're both guys i just couldn't be turned on at all if we we're, i'm just more attracted to females.
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wagsingleXper 6
+1 y
I'm pansexual and have been with both genders, so selected other. But I find it puzzling that guys who have been with guys and enjoyed it will insist they are straight! You're open enough to admit liking it. Why not just admit that your not entirely straight?
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GojiraXper 6
+1 y
Of course not. I'm straight for cripe sake! I'm not capable of even thinking of something so abhorrently disgusting without getting physically I'll, like now...
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zinithinXper 6
+1 y
Never, ever ever. Not in this life or any others that I'll have.
Once you do it, you can never take it back.
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HereForTheDayExplorer
+1 y
Not really interested. It is repulsive to me personally. Not the type of thing I'd want to try. It would be like asking a diner if they ever wanted to try eating rotten rat... you would never try it.
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kingoficeolationXper 6
+1 y
I'm down with that.
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MackTodayGuru
+1 y
I don't think you really get it. The idea of a man is like licking maggots off the asshole of week old road kill. It's not something a healthy man even thinks about let alone feels curious about.
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wagsingle
+1 y
Comparing someone's romantic and sexual attractions to licking road kill is bigotry either from ignorance or self hate and denial.
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