My 23 year old boyfriend is a virgin and I'm not. he's ready to have sex but I need some advice?

[Anonymous]

I've very recently started dating a new guy. He's super nice, funny, and attractive so I never thought that he would be a virgin. He was pretty embarrassed and I felt bad but I realized he was telling the truth. This weekend we're planning to have sex for the first time- he says he's ready and I've waited for his cue. I want to make him comfortable and have him enjoy himself. I know he'll probably cum pretty quickly, and that's okay. It's not going to be about me getting off but obviously I want it to be good for both of us. Should I show him what feels good on me before hand and let him watch before we have sex? If I guide him inside and tell him what to do, do you think he'll be embarrassed? I care about him and I don't want to hurt his ego. Just want some guidance and maybe some tips on what to say or do.

[Wicken]

I've been in your exact situation! My current boyfriend was a virgin when we first got together. Now he's a horny monster.
Anyway, like you, we did talk about it & he told me I was the perfect girl to lose his virginity to.
I think the biggest thing to remember here is to not point out his inexperience. & make sure he's comfortable. I don't think you should show him how to please you right away. This first time should be all about him. But the next time you guys have sex start telling him what feels good. For the first time definitely guide him through everything & be the one to start taking off clothing and touching first because in my experience they won't know if it the right time to get that started.
Afterwards don't bring up his virginity being gone. Just let him take that all in.
Good luck!

[AustinMan]

You're clearly a very considerate lover and I commend you for that. I think there are definitely some things your should discuss with him beforehand:
1) Take your time. You gave all weekend so just take it easy.
2) I'd start with you on top and tell him to let you know when he starts to get close so you can stoop and let him roll it back. Waiting will create an explosive orgasm that he'll never forget. He just may blow you out of the saddle unless you want to swallow his virgin load?
3) Tell him to bring patience and his sense of humor because humans do look funny having sex. If something awkward happens, laugh it off.
4) It might be very revealing to learn his dark, nasty, kinky fantasies so you'll know what direction to take him.

[reptocarl]

Definitely show him how to please you. Show him your clit. Make him cum a couple of times before he sticks it in and he'll last a little longer. Good luck

[Wicken]

If it's his first time, He won't have the stamina to cum a few times beforehand.

[reptocarl]

Oh yes he will

[zack6x]

how to know the boys virginity... im still confused wit thissss

[Anonymous]

wow i'd be so embarassed in his place. women can get so judgmental about these things. i've been gay shsmed because of this countless times. about your question just be original, no pretentions are needed... .

[Anonymous]

i wonder how he got the confidence to make the first move on you, ask you out, or was that you who did that?

[Anonymous]

you will work it out

[Anonymous]

Seduce him and show him how it's done, it will come naturally anyway I guess, sex is something natural after all