Is sending dick pics to a stranger cheating? What if my current girlfriend doesn't want sex til marriage?

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Ok so I got contacted on a social media site from a girl asking for my e-mail, I didn't see an issue with it, but then she started asking me for dicpics and videos, I stupidly sent here a couple of pics to mess with them as the site used a different name, and she sent me some pics of her in a bra, and asked for videos for me to see more, so I did, and she showed me her nipples and then some, but then I felt really guilty, horny, but guilty... I want to see more, but I love my girlfriend too much to continue doing this, am I a bad person?

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2890RR Xper 2
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I wouldn't necessarily call that cheating, unless you are making physical contact with the other person. And, how do you feel about it? Would you not be judgmental, and send some of your Dick pics to me? I would do the same, so yer not the only one. (Just curious, nothing else.) Let me know, I'll send my e-mail.
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- Asker
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  Y-You want to see my dick pics? Lol why?
- 2890RR
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  Like I told you before, just curious, that's it. I am an understanding person, and would like to be a good friend, and help with any concern, or question you may have! K? ;-P
- 2890RR
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  So, Would you send them?
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- Asker
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  No, that's what got me in trouble in the first place
- 2890RR
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  But I can be a sincere friend, and would not do what you have described. I will not even judge you. All I'm askin, is that you just be open with me. I will be open with you. Please just share with me. K? I'm trying to be kind, and give you someone that you can come to whenever ya need, or want, and someone to talk to, and confide in! I want to be that for you, but you can share with me! I will do the same for you! Just think of me as yer own personal journal! Lol!
- Asker
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  Dude no offense, but that's a little creepy, why would you need to see my dick to be my friend?
- 2890RR
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  Hey, Please, no offense. Lol! I'd be your friend regardless! Ha Ha! Also, don't over think it! K? Y do you find it creepy? Did you ever have a "show and tell" type of thing ever? What was that like? And, like I have told you, I'm not even judging you. It's a simple thing. No worries!
- 2890RR
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  I mean, look at it this way, do you like your Dick? Is it a nice Dick? Are you happy with your Dick? What things do you do, or like to do with yer Dick? Details please, and you can ask me some as well! Ha Ha!
- Asker
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  Look in all actuality I am very self conscious about my penis, since the girl in question seemed to like it, due to her being horny as well I imagine I shared, but because I personally am self conscious I am not one to just go around sharing my dick and pleasures to random guys on the internet.
- 2890RR
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  Hey, That's ok. So you think I will judge you, when in actuality, I am just a kind, sincere friend? You told you did that before, yes, I know, with your girlfriend, but please don't feel as if yer sharin it with the internet world. No. Yer just sharin it with me. Just believe in yerself, and believe in me. If you just relax, and open up a little, I can show you that I am sincere, and a good friend. I want to share experiences, and talk. Genuinely. A genuine friend. K? I'm not someone just lookin for pics. That's not why I'm here. I'm here to be there, chat, and make friends. Sharing is just part of that. But I can't show you that, if you push away, or don't let me.
- 2890RR
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  by the way, Yer doin great in communicating! Yay!! Lol! thanks man!
- Asker
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  Gee thanks, I'm glad my communication is good lol. But I'm not afraid of your judgment of my penis, I just don't like to share it, what happened with the girl was a moment of weakness, I was horny, she was willing to show me pics in exchange for seeing my dick. It's not like it's something I enjoy passing around.
- 2890RR
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  Well, Yeah, I feel bad that you had that experience, which seems to have affected yer self confidence. How someone could do that is beyond me. I would not do that to you though. I'm not like that. I assure you! ;-) Lol! thanks so much for chatting! You seem nice! I am just curious as to what yer Dick looks like. Yes, I know that may sound weird to you, or make you uncomfortable, but it's natural to explore sexual things. I hope you can understand. You can honestly feel comfortable with me, just give me the chance to show you my sincerety. Can you please do that? That would be great! Let me into your world a little. Give it a chance. I will be here whenever! K?
- 2890RR
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  by the way, I get horny too man! It's normal! Ha Ha! What things do you usually do when yer horny, weather yer with yer girlfriend, or not? Do you get horny often?
- Asker
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  Not something anyone did in particular, my dick is simply below average size so since society is so vocal about size I get self conscious myself. I get horny several times a week, like most guys, mainly when talking or thinking about my girlfriend
- 2890RR
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  Hey, The size of yer Dick is what you were blessed with! You should feel confident and secure about it. Ya know what I feel? You should be proud of what you got hangin, or protruding between yer legs! Ha Ha! Yeah, I think I actually got a smile, or at least a silly grin outta ya that time, am I right? Lol! Ya know what? Yer a pretty cool guy! And yer pretty cool to chat with!
- 2890RR
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  I say never mind those "Dick Size Haters"! If they don't like the size of yer Dick,... F*k em! Right? Lol! They're probay just jealous cause their lacking in that department! The thing that separates you from them is the simple fact that you admit. They do not. That right there says you are better than they are!
- 2890RR
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  Bet ya didn't think you'd actually make a genuine friend here, did ya? Lol! Thanx!
- 2890RR
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  Hey, U there?
vekin Editor
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You aren't a bad person, understand me right I do think what you did was wrong but like i understand you already regret it... learn from it, keep away from such seductions in the future and have more selfcontrol
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MissNowhere Editor
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That's definitely cheating. You are a shitty person for doing that in my opinion. And don't say that you love your girlfriend, cause if you did, you wouldn't have done that shit. Ask yourself this, how would YOU feel if your girlfriend was secretly sending nudes to random dudes? You need to stop.
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- Asker
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  Thanks for not holding back in your honesty, I have stopped for a couple of weeks, but I started getting urges again and thought I should get a verbal beating for it. You did it for me, and yes I do love my girlfriend, which is why I got out of my horny stupor as it were.
Lys_Dis Explorer
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I guess it all depends, what you are doing now is kind of like watching porn all your doing is seeing some random chicks tits and things just don't get to attached and no face pics and don't do it often you don't want the other girl to get used to you
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NatashaJ Editor
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Yes it is and you are a fucking prick and you don't deserve your girlfriend I love how you said you love her so much but you didn't think of your girlfriend when you were doing all these things.
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- Asker
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  I actually couldn't stop thinking about her, as sick as that may sound, I was horny, I hadn't masturbated for months since I promised her I wouldn't, and I lost control. Yes, I'm a scumbag, and have since stopped, but I still get the urge, which is why I came here to get set straight.
- NatashaJ
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  Good! you need to get straight what you did was wrong and honestly its best to break it off with her she would still want you because she loves you but when she falls out of love of you she realize its the best decision of her life.
- Asker
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  Wow that's a bit harsh isn't it? I'm not doing it anymore, and it's because I love my girl, it's like looking at porn isn't it? *sigh* maybe you are right, but I would be devastated without her in my life :(
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- NatashaJ
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  Ok here the thing porn is not like you know the girls in them personally right? but this girl you sent nudes to you have talk to her you have a connection with her I'm assuming and you contact her anytime but when your watching porn you can't actually doing anything with the pornstar. That's why its worse but if you truly love her and if you know her well enough maybe you two can talk it out.
- NatashaJ
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  Plus you should had known you can't wail til marriage for sex.
- Asker
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  Really my only relationship with the online girl was we both liked the same movies, we don't know anything else about each other, other than our first name, and well what her tits and my dick look like. But if you asked me if I had any other personal connection to this girl, none, she's just as horny as me and I was seduced by curiosity... I will talk to my girl. It's hard, but I definitely think it's possible to wait til after marriage, why not? It's been done before.
- NatashaJ
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  But the fact that you were so horny and went and cheated on your girl is why you should had known you couldn't wait that long.
Anonymous
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if you dont mind her showing her pussy to strangers, then she shouldn't have a problem with you showing your dick to strangers.
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- Asker
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  Damn, didn't think of it like that. So simple, my how the penis twists the mind. thank you
- Opinion Owner
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  welcome :)

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Onlyinit4fun Xper 5
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Would you allow your girlfriend to behave this way? If not, than don't ever do it again.

Live by the golden rule and life will be good to you.
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Rachael1014 Xper 4
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I don't know if you're a bad person but I think it's cheating so I'd stop doing it or you're gonna lose her
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- Asker
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  You right.
- ModdaNalla
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  It's not cheating
- Rachael1014
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  How isn't it
cinderelli Guru
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Yes this is cheating.. dum dum..
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- ModdaNalla
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  No it's not cheating luv
- cinderelli
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  Yes it definitely is.. how would he feel if his girlfriend was sending nudes to other guys.. @ModdaNalla
- ModdaNalla
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  Not a big deal
Iamathinker Xper 6
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Stop doing it.
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- Asker
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  I have stopped, but I get horny, and I don't look at porn, this is just a guilty addiction, but I will have to fight through it.
Mickdodge Xper 5
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Wow, the ladies beat you up hard here. I don't think it was cool but we all do dumb things. Just stop sending pics and forget about it
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- Asker
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  Yeah, I have never felt more guilty, these women treat me like I killed a baby panda looking at the hate. But I have stopped sending the pics. Let this be a warning for all men, no anonymous dick pics.
ModdaNalla Xper 2
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That's not cheating. it's just like watching porn.
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- Asker
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  Not according to the women on this site. Be careful my man
- ModdaNalla
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  Ha ha ha they are possessive
Anonymous
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People make mistakes but you should have known that sending that would be cheating. I am positive your girlfriend would not like that. I think you need to evaluate whether you want to be single or continue this relationship if you are left with the feelings you described.
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Anonymous
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How would your girlfiend feel if she knew you were doing this? I would stop right away.
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