Positions to get pleasure from a smaller penis?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he is amazing in so many ways, and there is no way I'd ever leave a guy just based on his penis size, but he has no idea what to do with it. He had only had sex once before he met me and I'm pretty expirienced so I know what a guy who knows what he's doing can do, and that you can get just as much pleasure from men with a smaller penis.. He's pretty great with his hands, not so much when it comes to oral, which is understandable since he's inexpirenced like I said. My problem is I thouroughly enjoy sex and don't always want to have to wait to get off when he fingers me after or to nessisarally have sex once I'm finished, and I also don't always want to be giving oral or a hand job to get him off when I don't want sex because it's not really pleasuring me. I want the intimacy of sex with him but I also want the pleasure. He's arround 4 3/4 inches long and I'm not sure how to estimate his girth but it's certanly not wide enough to get me off alone. My question is what are some great positions for him to be able to get me off or that I will be able to feel him better when he's inside me? Even with my clit being stimulated would be nice, without having to do it myself of have him use his hands because I'd much rather they be touching me elsewhere. Also any tips on how I can help him to become better at oral and in bed in general, without making him feel badly? He tends to be sensitive about his sexual preformance and I don't want to hurt his feelings but I do want him to be better at it.

[BlueCoyote]

Well, let me maybe start off by saying that I'm not exactly "well-endowed" either, as they'd say in porn jargon. I'm around 13-13.5 cm, which equates to about 5,3 inches I think. I'm saying this so you know that I understand how your boyfriend and you feel (I have a long-term girlfriend myself).
Generally speaking, I can say that practice makes a huge difference. For example when I started having sex with my girlfriend, I used to be bad at oral too. Nowadays I'm a champ :-) (haha, just bragging... but she does tell me a lot that I'm very good). I also happen to love giving oral to girls... even more than getting a blowjob myself.
But I have also become better at sex itself. Not just in terms of skills but specially concerning my girl. I know her inside and out (pun intended). I know what gets her off - and of course I use that to my advantage. I had, however, the advantage that both of us were virgins when we started having sex with each other. So our skills developed at a similar pace. Still, I think it's very important for you to try and be patient with your boyfriend. If he wants to, I'm almost certain his performance will improve.
Another thing that helped (and still helps) me tremendously is foreplay. Most girls like it anyway and it's a great way of both impressing a girl and compensating for a small penis. I know girls who even say that the quality of the foreplay is more important for them than the actual sex. To put it shortly: the more your boyfriend manages to make you horny previous to penetration, the easier his job will be during penetration. It's almost like cooking. If you prepare everything in advance, it's more fun and easier to do the actual cooking afterwards. Your boyfriend should definitely use his mouth and hands to make you horny before he penetrates you. And by that I don't just mean fingering or licking your clit (cuz that can get boring fast). I'm talking whole body explorations here. There are so many interesting spots on a girl's body you can kiss, lick or pet :-). I once brought my girlfriend almost to her edge by sucking her big toe and petting her inner thighs at the same time. My girlfriend also likes me playing with her boobs, kissing the side of her stomach (above the hip) or her neck, or the part above her pussy and below her belly button (just about where the pubic hair starts). When I feel submissive, I also enjoy giving my girlfriend rim jobs. Anything goes. What's important is that he likes to try out things, be a

[BlueCoyote]

little adventurous and closely watch your reactions. Obviously he should only do things that you enjoy (you can also help him by telling him during sex what you like). Another point that unfortunately does matter but can't be changed is YOUR side. By that I mean how wide your pussy is. The width of a pussy is mostly determined by ethnicity, genetics and simply individual factors. My girlfriend is east Asian and quite petite, so she has a super tight pussy, which works to my advantage ;-). But still with practice and a long, good quality foreplay, I am convinced your boyfriend can give great sex. As for positions... I think this also depends on what positions YOU like. For example I've read a thousand times on the internet the doggy style is great for men with a small penis. Yet, my girlfriend doesn't like it. She says she can't feel much this way. My girlfriend's favorite position is missionary. This can really get off very easily sometimes. It's also great for me because I cannot

[BlueCoyote]

only control the depth but also the angle of penetration. For example I can try to rub the upper side of her pussy with my penis by sitting straight up in the missionary position and she really likes that (something I also found out simply through practice). Finally, I think you riding your boyfriend can also work quite well because you can really engulf his penis completely this way.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

If he has a small penis, put a pillow under your butt giving him full position to penetrate your vagina also you could place your body towards the end of the bed while he positions himself in a standing position than he can penetrate your vagina that way too,

[Stacyzee]

Missionary with your legs over his shoulders.
Him pushing all of himself of you and grinding (instead of back and forth) feels fantastic.

Cow girl position (also grinding your hips in circular motions)
Is great for smaller penises. (There is no chance for his penis to slip out, like if you were to do the back and forth motion).

Laying flat on your belly , and doggy style position is also great.
If you're into anal sex... since you are very tight back there you will feel him more.
(He will feel large) and you will have a whole new feeling of intensity.
All of this is great in my opinion.

Even try giving each other oral.
Do the 69 position.
Don't let your whole act of intimacy be direct intercourse.
Explore and play with eachothers bodies.
Introduce toys if you have to... to lengthen your orgasm.
He can use them on you.

[Stacyzee]

Thanks for mho

[cinderelli]

It is lovely that you will stay with him.. I don't know much about sex but I read that cowgirl position is good for this situation

[OrdinaryGentleman]

oh man the pretzel is the one to go to in this situation.

[tenofthepeaks]

then he's inferior.

[Anonymous]

So you're saying size DOES matter?

[Asker]

It does to an extent, but not if the guy knows how to use a smaller dick.. Like I'd prefer a man whos smaller and knows what to do than a larger man who thinks he's got it made and doesn't do any real work

[turnpost]

That makes no sense. Then just teach the guy who has bigger P. I am sure he knows what he is doing, we all know when we are failing mostly lol.

[Anonymous]

Try sum yuga sex position that help u a lot

[Anonymous]

i haven't tried to fuk a guy with a smal penis. can't help sorry... . kidding. i have a small penis but i've never fuked a girl so i still can't answer hehe... .

[Anonymous]

Try putting your legs on his shoulders

[Anonymous]

Goodness you wrote a book. I guess do positions that allow for deep penetration.