Guys, Im scared he will think my private part is hideous:(?

So me and this guy have been close for 4 years but in an actual relationship for 2 months. I have ALWAYS hated the way my "down there" looks, and have been terrified to ever want to take my clothes off in the future. I dont ever want anybody to see and it makes me cry to look at it. So i sent him a pic of the 30 different types of pussy. I wanted to know which ones he preferred without actually asking him which he preferred (im shy) So i said pick 3 that you THINK mine would look like. He said either 2, 10, or 21.. Basically he answered in a way that shows which he would prefer or like.. And it broke my heart because im ugly number 4, which is no where near what he picked. So i just told him it will be a mystery.. And this other guy i talked to before , i asked him the same thing and he said i have to be number 2 because im a virgin.. Why do guys have this dumb knowledge that if your a virgin, your pussy looks like a babies.. i dont get it.. So basically they conclude if your junk is hanging out a little, you have been used up.. And i am a virgin but im number 4 and it makes me sad knowing i am considered used up and ugly :( Also my labia minora is a dark color rather than light pink :'( i just feel disgusting and never ever want to let no one get close to it.. sorry guys had to vent how i felt since i can't tell him or he'll run off
Guys, Im scared he will think my private part is hideous:(?


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Guys i told him about me being #4 and he said he knows it can be genetic influence and said he doesn't care , he said hed love it even if i was # 28 or #18
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Is This Really Worth Getting All Worked Up Over?
    You Really Need To Get All This Nonsense Out Of Your Head, You're Making A Huge Deal About What A Guy Will Think Of Your Pussy Once He Sees It?
    No One Cares What Your Pussy Looks Like, Your Pussy Is Not A Deal Breaker.
    All Of This Drama You're Creating And Putting A Guy On The Spot On a Whether He Will Accept Your Virgin Pussy Because Of The Way You Think It Looks, That Is A Deal Breaker, No One Wants To Be Put In The Middle Of All This Self Pity Drama.
    Do Your Self A Favor, Get Rid Of All The Pussy Comparison Photo's, Get Rid Of Anything That Compares Pussy.
    Shave Your Pussy Bald And Love It For What It Is, Your Pussy, If You Love It, He Will Love It.
    FYI My Wife Had 2 Kids, And Her Shaved Pussy Looks Like #6.
    Every Woman's Cunt, Pussy Whatever You Want To Call It Looks Different, Even Virgins Can Have Protruding Lips, More To Suck On When Eating Your Pussy!
    And Some Women Who Are Married With Children (Like My Wife) Will Always Look Like A Virgin, It's A Part Of Life, Everyone Looks Different And No One Cares What Your Pussy Looks Like, How Small Or Big Your Boobs Are, How Small Or Big Your Cock Is, We Learn To Accept Our Bodies, And The Ones We Love Will Accept It Too.

  • You are worrying over nothing. Mostly only prebubescent children have the ones he named. Every girl gets labia after puberty. Also who cares about the color of your labia? This may come as a shock to you but the majority of all human beings have dark colored labia. Not everyone in the world is white you know... and not even all white people have pink labia. Check out this poll, it may help you. I actually got MHO on it. Read my opinion.

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1594138-what-do-you-think-about-meat-curtains

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  • You have lost your mind he won't care I assure you! Just be you and relax. If your that stressed your not ready I assure you!

  • It will be fine don't worry! As long as he has fun! I am a virgin but I would like anything, around 15. Your vaginas good and he will like it

    • He will feel the same even if he was with another woman. A vagina us a vagina don't worry. Hairy or not men don't care as long as they love u

    • No. 4's actually quite cute in my opinion. It's the best

  • You seem normal... I see no issue

  • If you gave me a menu for Chinese takeout and asked me to pick one dish to order, would you assume that I'd refuse to eat every other dish on the menu except the one I picked?

    That's what girls do when they ask guys to pick a favorite from images like these. If you give us 50 options and ask us to pick 3 that we like, we'll take you at face value and pick three that we like. That doesn't mean we don't like other options, and it doesn't mean it's an important choice for us. We're just entertaining your question.

  • Listen, DO NOT BE AFRAID!!
    For most guys, by the time they get there, they will not care what the vagina looks like, because it's you. He will like you and will love the vagina you come with. :D

    If that makes sense.

  • Trust me when I say he'd be jumping for joy just having the opportunity to see your vagina.

  • First of all you girls are more critical than us guys about your pussies I have first hand knowledge of this and I was pleased by what she showed me after saying it was loose looking! Besides if a guy sees a exposed pussy I dought he will turn down the chance to get some!

  • You are young and he is immature as a guy.
    4 is a really nice vulva
    Generally, mature men prefer bigger inner labias.
    2, 10 and 21 are child like vulvas.
    He remained with that imagine, you can see on the beach at young through the panties.
    Let him get mature and also please mature yourself.
    Most of the women are otties and are nice and sexy.
    Be proud of that.

  • I don't think #4 is hideousness at all but really the opposite. It's awesome

  • OMFG, you have a pussy ffs. Not many guys give a fuck what it looks like.

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