Is there a difference between a girl cumming and having an orgasm?

[Anonymous]

For example, one time I went down on a girl for 20 minutes, there was no visible sign of her "cumming," then we had sex for about 45 minutes with no visible sign of her "cumming,"... But she said that she had two orgasms. One from the oral and another from the sex. So how do I know when she has an orgasm and when she cums and is there a difference? And please don't talk about squirting because I know that only like 3% of girls can do that. Can you make a girl orgasm without her cumming? And do girls cum every time they have an orgasm? And is there a difference between the cum and the squirt stuff? Can every girl cum and do they every time they should reach a satisfactory orgasm?

[kaylaS91]

The amount of 'cum' a girl produces when you get her to have an orgasm will differ with each individual. I believe every girl can cum when they reach a decent orgasms. Similar to how some girls get dripping wet from just making out while others are basically dry even after a bit of foreplay though, whether or not the amount she cums is noticeable will differ.

Girl cum is her just getting even more wet from orgasm, none of that squirting stuff. There's no ejaculation like with guys either. Squirting is different in terms of where it's released from, consistency, pressure it's released at, etc..

[Asker]

So, the girl cum is basically like fluid right? Like a lubricating fluid... for example, I had one girl that would secrete white stuff all over my fingers when I put them inside her... that is girl cum? And this is produced even before or in absence of an orgasm.

[kaylaS91]

yeah it's like a substance thicker than water, but a bit more diluted than male cum I think. &I've never been with a girl but from what I've observed in myself as well as what my boyfriend's told me, I do get considerably wetter while actually messing around, before he's gotten me to climax. Perhaps orgasm is paired with even more juices but girls can have a buildup to the big one that's a few mini orgasms as they get closer. Not sure how much sense that makes but yeah, that was girl cum. Not exclusive to orgasm as the only purpose of it is essentially to lubricate even further. We don't have sperm-like equivalent that needs to be ejaculated.

[Willow117]

I think orgasming is when many of tighten and then release. I believe most girls do cum when this happens although it may not be noticeable to you because a lot of the fluid stays in the vagina. The cum is the same wetness/lubrication you normally see when she is aroused. The science on what makes up the liquid that is secreted when squirting is still up to debate I think.

[Asker]

yes but what is not in debate is that the squirt stuff is different than the cum you talk about, right?

[Willow117]

I think it is different, yes.

[Asker]

Sure it is different!!! It comes from a gland (I think called the Skene's gland) that is located near the urethra... while the cum you speak of is obviously from the inside of the vagina...

[Fobananas]

Well she can precum and she can cum. I'm pretty sure actually cumming and having an orgasm is the same thing but it can vary, but generally it's the same thing.

[Asker]

So how come I've had sex (and oral) with girls, like described above... and they said they had two orgasms and did not ever "cum?"... what does the cum look like?

[Anonymous]

I think of it as

True cumming- Ejaculation going outside the body. Examples, squirting for girls and sperm ejaculation for guys.

Cumming (the slang)- The word cumming may be used in slang terms to describe a orgasm.

Orgasm- This is used when your pleasure is at it's absolute peak. For girls their vagina may get extremely wet and/or they may squirt. For guys it's usually right before sperm comes out, but not always. I can have a orgasm without ejaculating. It's that feeling of peak pleasure that is usually followed by a satisfied feeling.

[Asker]

Okay... but do you have to throw into the female lubrication as part of the mix? Cause one time I had a girl that would secrete this milky white stuff all over my fingers when I put them inside her...

[Opinion Owner]

The milky stuff is just her squirt juice. Some girls have thinner more clear squirt juice and some have more milky stuff and some can't ejaculate at all.

[Asker]

But it's coming from a different area... the milky stuff is in her vagina... whereas the squirt stuff is secreted by a gland just near the urethra...

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhhh. Yeah that's when a girl's vagina is trying to clean itself out. You were fucking her while it's still in the process.

[Asker]

I don't think you know what you're talking about...

[Opinion Owner]

You asked the question. Do you know what you're talking about? Don't they call that discharge? Are you sure you're 30-35? I don't think you are.

[Opinion Owner]

"hmu you'll have one" Hahaha smh.

[Asker]

No I am under age 30. Also, read up top, it says exactly what I was thinking... That the "cum" is the same stuff as the lubrication, and the squirt is something different... The lubrication isn't the result of it cleaning itself, it's the result of being aroused...

[Asker]

Specifically, Willow117's comment...

[Opinion Owner]

Well a vagina is always wet. It's never dry. It produces a "lube" when aroused yeah. I don't define that as cum, but okay if you do fine. In my experience what you're talking about is always clear and thin fluid.

[Asker]

yea I think it usually is clear, but this girl had a super wet pussy that made white stuff all the time (and at no particular part of the month or anything like that, but every day)... and it is definitely different from the squirt stuff...

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah yeah I know that. I figured the milky stuff was something else though. Again what you're talking about has been clear and thin. Some girls can ejaculate it and some can't so it just sits inside the vagina. You can feel it though because her vagina will get really wet.

[Opinion Owner]

She made it every day? Okay yeah I don't know then. You're right lol.

[Asker]

but I thought the stuff they squirted was a different substance and came from a gland near their urethra?

[Anonymous]

These words are synonymous.

A girl does not ejaculate with orgasm.

[ClariceOwen23]

They're the same thing.

[Anonymous]

its the same thing.. You don't cum if you don't orgasm ( at least I dont) ... fluids is a different story.. you are simply wet and then you simply orgasm and cum

[Asker]

but the cum is just being even wetter right? It doesn't actually ejaculate... unless you're talking about the squirt stuff, but that's not what we're talking about here, is it?

[Opinion Owner]

no no no... getting wet ( because you are turned on-fluids), squirting (Id rather not go into that I personally think its ewy and its a whole other level, cum ( reached orgasm but ofcourse a girl becomes even more wet - but again thats different.. its the same fluid but due to different feel if that makes sense

[Asker]

so the cum is the same fluid as the "getting wet" part... but what is different about the fluid when it reaches orgasm? Does it just secrete more? And where exactly does it come from?

[Opinion Owner]

orgasm is when women reach their climax and it is accompanied by the vaginal muscles contracting rhythmically 6 or 7 times in addition to sometimes discharging of fluid, cum is the fluid if it comes out with some force , usually from the uretha (Pee hole) (squirting) When some ladies say they have cum, they just mean because their vagina is wet, but that is lubricating fluid and comes out slowly from the Bartholin's glands which are situated on the inner lips of the vagina. During sexual excitement, vaginal discharge becomes very profuse because two glands near the vaginal opening (the Bartholin's glands) secrete additional slippery mucus, which acts as a lubricant for intercourse.

[Anonymous]

What do you mean with cum if its not squirting? If that's the case i never "came" lol but I had orgasms for sure

[Asker]

okay so the only kind of cum is squirting? I don't know what I mean... I seem to get different answers from different people... and maybe the only other kind of fluid released is like lubrication?

[Opinion Owner]

Well for me cumming is having an orgasm means that it feels amazing for a few seconds and my muscles clench together and it is quite sensitive when I touch it right after "cumming", never squirted or anything like that though

[Asker]

do you secrete any more fluid than usual? like on the inside of your vagina? Is it white? Is it clear?

[Opinion Owner]

Just getting super wet at the moment and it's clear

[Anonymous]

Well I usually cum, I squirted once, but I thought I pisses if myself, I never had an orgasm.

[Asker]

What does the cum look like? What is your cum? (not the squirt).

[Asker]

Are you saying that you have never had an orgasm in your life?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I'm a virgin, I masturbate can be ever have an orgasm My cum is clear, lol

[Asker]

*can be ever (?) was that English? Can you retype that sentence in words that make sense?

[Opinion Owner]

I CAN'T MAKE MY SELF HAVE A FUCKING ORGASM😊

[Asker]

so how do you cum without having an orgasm? by the way... hmu... you'll have one... (or 5)...

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know, its weird

[Opinion Owner]

How can u hit you up. If you're anonymous?

[Asker]

well if I wasn't and you weren't... redstar123123

[Anonymous]

It's the same thing.

[Asker]

yet in the answer above you, they say it's different... how can girls have different answers about their own anatomy, when a guy's answer is so clear?