Guys, my boyfriend gets a boner for woman on internet and TV what I have to think about it?

[Anonymous]

Last night I have a big fight with him, I still didn't feel comfortable what happen that midday so I cleared my heart. Because I caught him getting a boner when I show something on the internet a "gif" from girls shaking around their boobs and butts. I just joke and look in his pants there I saw it rockhard. So I ask why it's hard already I didn't even touch my hand there. Than he said a fake reason, because he have breathing problem so that connect to his penis. Bullshit to me. So that night I said to him be honest. When I hear the truth it broke my heart. Than he become angry and all, say to me I have to be real, he is a man and not gay feel attract to woman. But the result above all: Men get boner for woman, not that they want to have sex with them or find them attractive, it's nature "the woman is calling for sex" like an animal so man get boner if they see like this. Last what he said, those woman try to attract is basic style every man get boner to that but you are special even when you just wear beautiful clothes you give me boner. So is it all true what he said? Because I still feel lack of confidence on myself? How I can go normally to the beach without my boner boyfriend gets a rockhard? But he said on the internet and TV is different than reality in real life he will not get. But I don't trust it. I still feel like tears coming up! Please help me to clear this things up! Because I read something else before a man do feel attract on woman and want sex with them if they have a boner, so what my boyfriend say is a lie right?

[Bad2DaBone]

OK I got this. I've been married almost 30 years. If you think that my wife is the only thing that gives a a boner then you are nuts.

Here is my truth. I have never cheated on my wife with another woman. But it is normal to admire another woman's appearance, her body, a pretty face, etc. It's normal to imagine what it would be like to be with her in a sexual way. That does not mean you want to act on it.

Can you honestly tell me you have never gotten horny thinking about a celebrity or another man you saw some where that was attractive? Does that mean you want to fuck him? No

And what about masturbation. 97% of the world population masturbates. The other 3% just don't admit it. That was a joke.

You can even tell me that you don't masturbate, but can you honestly tell me that when you wash yourself down there it doesn't feel good. And if you do admit to maturbating can you honestky tell me that your husband is ALWAYS the guy you are thinking about when you do it?

When you dress nice, your wear clothes that flatter your figure. You wear a bra that makes your tits look nice and round and sexy. Why do you do that? Because you want people to appreciate your appearance. Well some guys are going to appreciate it so much that they get a huge boner. Are you offended or are you flattered that some men find you attractive?

In the future don't be offended when you see he has a boner. start rubbing it and tugging it and you will become the focus of his attention quick enough. You can reap the benefits of his lust.

[MattDamonAndFriends]

You can't get mad at him for something he can't control its now like he used the force to make himself hard it's an natural body function it seems kind of petty to be angry about something like that I mean even him jerking off to another girl would be more sensible than this as stupid as that is too but for something he couldn't even control cmon now I know you can't help it and that's how the female brain thinks sometimes but at least try to understand coming from a guy it's mean nothing what so ever he won't track down those boobs and titty fuck them trust me

[Asker]

Thank you, this help a lot. So he better don't jerking off than, on porn...

[MattDamonAndFriends]

No problem! Feel better!

[AustinMan]

You're wrong here. Men are turned on by what we SEE so if he's looking at erotic images, he's gonna react with arousal and that means and erection. It doesn't say anything about you.

[ccp16]

you need to grow up here. It is very well know that men will get boners form things and we can not really control that. That does not in anyway mean we are going to ct or even think about things! I sometimes get a boner from a bumpy bus ride! would you get jealous over that too?

[driel]

Its pretty egotistical to think your man is only going to have a boner for you. Its a natural biological process that most guys have no control over when it takes over just randomly like that.

[JuicyBrain]

Wow ! You are crazy jealous ! I am sorry, but you have a serious problem. You should work on that. I would've dumped you right then and there. Nobody is going to tell me who can give me a boner. I don't care that you are self-conscious, it's not anybody else's problem but your own.

[AleDeEurope]

So how crazy will you go when he wakes up with a boner? Are you gonna flip out thinking about what he may was dreaming about? Of course he's gonna get a boner from seeing a girl shaking her boobs, he's a man! I couldn't believe you if you tell me you don't get wet by seeing a hot guy ob TV/Internet

[Zigzagz]

XD this shit is hysterical

[oldanddecrepid]

I think he was just turned on by the sexy images... women's bodies are much more beautiful then men's so of course we get turned on by them!

[nate18]

You sound really stupid. You show him a gif of chicks shaking their tots and ass around and get pissed at him for getting a boner? You sound like a real keeper...

[Asker]

No, it's not like that at all. I was watching some topic on 9gag. So I show him like "look how bad 9gag become all porn stuff like"

[nate18]

Ok. You show him porn like stuff and expect him not to get a boner? Some guys are easily excited.

[Asker]

Ok, that is clear. But it does't mean he want to fuck them right? Because I have lack of big tits and ass...

[nate18]

Stop being do insecure. There's gonna be other women that are more attractive than you that every guy would prefer to have sex with. But he's with you. Not another girl with huge tots and a big bubbly ass. Maybe it's just possible he likes you and your smaller framed body?

[Uptick715]

Dudes get boners constantly. For any reason at anytime. Just the way it is.

[singlebee]

Ahahahahaha 😂😂 this is the funniest post i ever read!! Ahaha

If i am attracted to a women i will get boner... this is true..! We dont get boners only when we wanna have sex! That's bullshit..!

And you need to grow up... you are very immature!!!