Guys, I need your brotherly advice on a dick question?

[Anonymous]

So, Here is my question.

i am not circumcised. And i am worried about something. Basically, My dick looks like any non cut dick, The skin covers all of the 'meatus' And, when i pull it back, I can pull it back like this *Ignore the 14 day treatment thing*

But, When it is pulled back, It dosent hurt, But there is discomfort, I mean, Masturbation is literally impossible when i pull it back (That little stringy bit on the bottom of the meatus that is attacthed to the foreskin get tugged on). But, When i dont pull it back, And leave the ''turtleneck'' i can masturbate just fine and it dosent hurt at all

And, My question is, Is it normal for non circumcised guys to feel extreme discomfort trying to masturabte/sex with the foreskin pulled back or is there something wrong with me?

At first i thought i might have a tight foreskin or some shit, but, that can't be the case as i can pull it all the way back like in that picture with no discomfort, its only when i start masturbating with it pulled back that it hurts.

We never did sex education in school as our teacher felt uncomfortable talking about it, and i have no guys i can ask this to and i can't find a clear answer on google, So please help.

Thank you.

[Sexualchrist]

My uncle is a urologist and he tells me things he shouldn't about his patients. So I know this:
What you have is what they call a short frenulum. It's actually possible you can still have normal sex but it's also possible it might rip. It's one of those things where there's only one way to find out if you know what I mean.

If you're worried about it, what you can do is get some steroid cream. They call it cortisone where I'm from and apply it to the frenulum and do little stretches and count to 100 every day. After 100 days you'll be right as rain.

[Asker]

I just googled it ''short fenulum'' and yeah that ''stringy'' bit looks similar on them to myn, Oh fuck! is it a common thing or am i abnormal with that ? I had it in my mind, that guys with foreskins had sex without pulling their skin back, i mean, i masturbate without pulling it back, so surely sex would be the same right? Oh fuck I mean, When i masturbate, like, obviously the foreskin dosent stay fully covering the end bit, It does pull back like 2/3 of the way painlessly, It only hurts, If i fully pull it back, and then try and masturbate.

[Sexualchrist]

I wouldn't say it's common, like it is an abnormality but it's not one of the worst ones and has a relatively easy fix which doesn't require surgery. You'll need a prescription for the cortisone though. Just ask your doctor, he has one too so don't worry about it. I'm not circumcised and I don't pull it back before sex, it kind of just does its own thing when you put it in. Some guys with your problem never actually have to do anything about it. It just depends on the severity of it

[Asker]

I only thought you needed to visit a doctor if you literally couldnt pull it back, I mean, Like i said, when its flacid, i can fully pull it back no problem what so ever, And when i have a boner i can fully pull it back, Its just when i have a boner and its fully back i can't masturbate like that. Though, id imagine having sex wouldn't be painful as the foreskin would only slide back a bit and not all the way back when inserting right? Not to mention, im only 17 and i haven't finished puberty yet (Still no face / chest hair). So, it could solve itself over time right?

[Sexualchrist]

Oh, no you're not meant to masturbate like that anyway. I think you're probably normal and you're just worried

[Asker]

So, If you pull back your foreskin with a boner, and try and masturbate, would that be uncomfortable for you too?

[Sexualchrist]

I just slide it up and down. I don't pull it back and then try and pull it back more, that's just not what you do lol

[Asker]

I mean, When i masturbate, Like, *Sorry if this is TMI by the way im just scared as fuck about this*. Like, Ill grab like 2/3 the way up (I dont know if this is relevent to the tightness but myn is just under 7''), And, When i do it, Like, pulling back and forth on my dick (To masturbate) the skin will obviously be pulled back too (Not all the way, just like 80% of the way), And, That is completely painless and feels good, The pain is only present, If i have a boner, And pull it back as far as i can (Which can be tight and kinda uncomfortable to do) and then masturbate like that (and that frenulum gets tight and tugs and it hurts). Other then that, When i masturbate its completely painless, It only hurts if i pull it back all the way. Is that normal? Or do i have something wrong with me. sorry again if this is too much information, i am just seriously fucking panicking over this. Thanks for all the help too.

[Sexualchrist]

I think you're normal. Don't forget younger men are tighter too

[Asker]

Cheers mate, Took a ton of weight of my shoulders!

[Sexualchrist]

No worries mate

[sa230e]

You might have a short frenullum. It's not abnormal (although I've never had a problem with it) and you don't have to fix it if you don't want to. There's no right way to masturbate so if you're happy to do it your way there's no need to change.

If you want to lengthen it and make masturbation more comfortable retracted, check out this forum: https://www.network54.com/Forum/244184

They have stretches and stuff you can do.

[Asker]

I mean, When i am flaccid, i can pull it back no worries and without discomfort, and when i pull it back with a boner, I can still pull it back all the way (Only now its a bit tight but dosent hurt) it only hurts if i try masturbating with it pulled back all the way (Not exactly hurts, but more just a tight discomfort) When you have a boner and pull your skin back fully, can you still masturbate with the exact same feeling as if you hadn't have pulled it back?

[tattooedhandfet]

It has to do with your frenullum. That's that piece of skin that webs to the tip of your penis. The "stringy" piece of skin. That's the only reason I could see this causing you discomfort.

[Asker]

But, when i masturbate, its completely painless and feels good. It only hurts when i fully pull the skin back and then try and masturbate :/

[tattooedhandfet]

Talk to a urologist maybe he/she can help you. Maybe you need to have a minor cut on this area to sever it so it doesn't cause discomfort. I'm not sure what a they do for it for sure and that's why I said you should speak to a healthcare provider

[Asker]

I dont know what to think, because almost all of the guys are saying its normal, but almost all of the girls are saying its not. Do you think its possible i could just be fine? I mean, surely the guys would be right.. Right?

[tattooedhandfet]

I have no clue. The guys said it's the frenullum just like I did... If something is causing me discomfort I would see if anything could be done to ease that discomfort. I never said it wasn't normal lol

[tattooedhandfet]

Thank you for MHO

[Nuqood]

It sounds like when you wank with it pulled back you're over-stretching its boundaries. Just wank it normally instead of testing the limits of your foreskin.

[Asker]

When you pull yours back and masturbate is there a discomfort too?

[Nuqood]

I'm not intact, so my opinion is literally just an uneducated guess.

[Asker]

Oh right, thank you anyway bro.

[UKNOWN47]

Same issue here but its not really an issue because its natural. Just during sex I would imagine your foreskin would go back on its own but other than that there's no problem.

[Asker]

So, When you masturbate, You dont pull your skin back either? Im honestly having a panic attack thinking I've got a deformity or some shit. Like, When i pull it back (To clean and stuff) it dosent hurt at all (Its harder to do with a boner though but still not painful), But, If i have a boner, And pull my skin back, And try and masturbate, It hurts. Does that happen to you too?

[UKNOWN47]

I don't pull my skin back, it isn't as comfortable that's why. Just do whats comfortable. Don't worry

[sexyphil]

No Idea at all... Mine was permanently pulled back just after I was born so not an authority on the subject of foreskins

[AngryHorny]

No it's not normal. Pulling back the foreskin should never cause pain and you need to see a doctor.

[Asker]

No, pulling it back dosnt cause pain, it's only if I masturbate with it pulled back it's hurts.

[AngryHorny]

Like they say, you could be stretching the frenulum. That would cause discomfort on the undeeside where the foreskin meets the head.

[AngryHorny]

*underside

[Anonymous]

I can't pull it all the way back and keep it back while jerking it. It kind of slinks back and forth over the glans. It can sit behind the glans on it's own but I think it's obviously going to hurt if you're trying to yank it all the way down and have it tug on the frenulum.

If you start with too a 'downstroke' from the puled back position yeah it's probably going to hurt you I would expect. Just don't do that, just do what feels good. Why would you need to do it that way?

[Asker]

its just on porn and stuff, when the guys have sex, you can always see all their 'glans'. and, i was just worried how i couldnt masturbate with myn also with all the glans visible as it pulls on that frenulum thing and hurts.

[JuicyBrain]

Came here to say that. You are probably being too rough on yoursell my friend I am not cut myself and if I go too rough, of course it hurts. It's the same thing with people who are cut, though in their situation, they use lube, so they let the skin slide. You could try using lube too. @asker

[Asker]

@JuicyBrain Masturbation dosent hurt in the slighest for me, It feels good obviously, And, Its nothing to do with my foreskin being to tight or anything, i mean i can pull it back all the way Its just when it is fully pulled back, thats when it hurts, regardless of lube. Like i said, Normal masturbation with the skin not pulled back is fine, its only fully retracted there is discomfort.

[Anonymous]

phimosis needs cutting. simple as that... .

[Anonymous]

It's normal I've seen a lot of porn and I never seen an uncut guy pull back the foreskin.

[Asker]

Are you sure dude?

[Opinion Owner]

Yup I'm sure. I'm circumcised and have that string attached to the foreskin and to the tip. I'm sure your fine.

[AngryHorny]

Circumcised guy is a foreskin expert because he watches porn. lol

[Opinion Owner]

I never said I'm an expert. It's my opinion from what I've observed. Stop spouting things you can't comprehend. Plus aren't you a little old for this site, why don't you go and get a job instead of slandering people on the internet.