Why my boyfriend keeps liking other girls pictures on instagram, I told him it makes me feel bad?

[Anonymous]

We've been togeter for a year now, broke up once but yeah.. he is amazing to me, really caring and everything, but i told him a few times that it bothers me when he likes other girls pics, it's kind of disrespertful to me, and it's like telling them he thinks they are hot... i told him that 3 times and eveytime e told it, he said: i'm sorry, im gonna stop it, than he likes only his friends photos, which is fine but starts liking photos of other hot girls again after like 3 weeks... it goes round and round... one night i got really mad and tired of it and told him, go like their photos it's just social media after all, just to see how he would react... he told me it meant nothing to him, when he likes those photos and i understand that, but if it bothers me and makes me feel bad and he knows it, why is he doing it, plus those girls must think i'm just stupid girlfriend and that he can flirt with anyone, plus he likes commenting about this models when we watch tv, those that pose like porn stars which makes me think he's really immature... i don;t know what to think because im really in love with him, he was amazing to me all the time... it just hurts when he doesn't listen :)

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should shop for a replacement but really only gals would suit your needs but even some of those will do same as most guys.
The real root of your problem is his little Pest and its raging hormones. This is who drives his ID/Libido into immature waters, often deep and the inexperienced suffer consequences such as girlfriend (you) leaves them for someone that either doesn't practice looking/flirting (rare) or is better at covertly doing so & making the girlfriend FEEL like his One & Only.

Guys will not outgrow this, unless you find a very boring one or one rejected so many times, he's given up.

Best things to do
> when he gets horny over a gal, USE his boner to curry sexual attention toward yourself; THINK of those gals as Viagra for your relationship. Soon he will be trained that you are the real sex and they only Pavlov's dog's bell. Eventually, he'll be bold enough to ask YOU to pose, et al. in ways those gals found that turned his Pest "on". Some gals even join in and find gal pics/videos that run their guys on, to benefit from these.
> divert his attention from such "dry hump" pursuits by using that idle time to cook up your own spicy things to do; reading erotic fantasies in bed nude, finding erotic videos to watch together, sexy role playing & mimicking what those gals do/dress around the house... will be to distracting to any guy, thus his idle time and motivation to "like" on line dwindles... his Pest WILL dictate all this

[Anonymous]

Girl I have such a similar situation!!! My boyfriend and I haven't been together that long but I notice he likes other girls pictures on Instagram sometimes where they're in like, microscopic gym gear or bikinis and it makes me feel so shitty. I don't know if it's a guy thing that they don't understand why it gets to girls so much because they don't think anything of it but it's still a horrible feeling. I think if you've confronted your boyfriend about it and he still isn't changing, it's wrong. Fair enough he didn't see it as bad in the first place but if you've explained it hurts your feeling and he doesn't take that into consideration then that's shady and mean. Maybe confront him whole-heartedly and say that I needs to stop because it's really hurting your feelings and even if he doesn't understand why, he should still just stop because it doesn't matter why as long as you're okay. Anyway, what's not liking a random girls photo going to do to him? Hardly going to have any effect on him or her. I hope all goes okay for you and you sort things out!! :-) xxx

[Asker]

Thanks girl, your answer really helped me! :)

[NatashaJ]

Well for me it depends on the picture if its just a pictures of their faces then I wouldn't be too mad but if he kept like every day liking them then I be wtf about it. But if I did told him he to stop and he didn't listen I would say to him "you have no respect for me" and its true if he did respect you he wouldn't keep hurting you like this by keep doing this shit. Especially after you told him three times but I agree with a other commentator some men don't change. I say if he keeps doing this for 6 months then leave.

[Anonymous]

Meh, some dudes are retarded. If your girlfriend really doesn't like something, even if it's trivial, you earn brownie points by listening and stopping. Guys like pictures of hot girls on instagram to try and get their attention, it doesn't mean nothing, otherwise they wouldn't bother and they'd like tons of other random people's photos as well.

[Strider90]

The moment he pressed for the next picture he already forgot the girl he just saw.
Stop being jealous. He is with you and wants to be with you.
If you take all pictures posted by girls show them to him and ask him which he did like he will not remember any of them.

[Mesonfielde]

Well being controlling in something so insignificant is the way to put you enroute to breaking up. Because people eventually get bored of being told what and what not to do.

[zombiebabe]

trust me guys who act like this won't change...

[TripleAce]

Ah

Ah well lol... what you going to do huh , you picked him he's your boyfriend. Why you pick guys that like other girls?

[Nice_Guy_Last]

He does sound a little immature. Do you make it apparent that he is hurting you?

[Jakesusername]

Sounds like you're a little jealous. A large part of guys our like that. As for liking pics on Facebook thats not a big deal.

[jakeofalltrades]

it doesn't mean anything, you are just making mountain out of mole hills