Girls, is a blowjob cheating?

[irishkev]

my past girlfriend told me fe months bk that she gave another guy a bj at a party and said it wasent cheating becasue it waset sex. i ended it fairly quickly after that. whats your opinion?

[AthleticMom]

Wow, that's a mind set from Mad Men era
like mid to pre 1950's and often it didn't sell well then among women that weren't participants.
That era are pre-BC pills, so no possible preg = no sex evidence = A-OK with the gents and the gals that wanted a piece of their lifestyle, regardless of marriage wrecking

[AthleticMom]

If not clear, then yes = cheating = sex with others but I am curious once past the emotional hurt and branded her as NOT girlfriend material... most guys LOVE a BJ and wouldn't turn down knowing more than one gal willing to do that for them, sooooo why didn't you keep her around... just for that service she so willingly provides?

[irishkev]

i know what you mean. thats mad. i wouldn't keep somebody lke this around me if they cheat though lol

[AthleticMom]

So you wouldn't share a hot willing gal like a sport team or frat party? Even if one-at-a-time in private?

[irishkev]

if i didn't care about her mabey lol

[AthleticMom]

well, does it make sense to throw away someone that likes to do BJs so easily when asked? Agreed, not girlfriend material but when we get emotional after being hurt, sometimes we "cut off our nose to spite our face" The positive take on this would be HEY... I found a gal that likes to give BJs...

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

As a rule, most people take any sexual contact as cheating. That means kissing, oral sex, physical stimulation, mutual masturbation and sexual intercourse are outside of the realms of a normal relationship. She was just trying to excuse her bad behaviour by making up her own rules.

[Cmasterson]

Yes, any sexual encounters with another person that is not your S/O I would classify it as cheating x

[Elsa2ne1]

Firstly oral Sex is sex. Hence the name. Secondly you don't have to have Sex with someone else to be unfaithful

[oldlady]

I would feel like I had cheated on my boyfriend if I gave someone else a blowjob and I would feel like he had cheated on me if he got a blowjob from someone else.

[irishkev]

so u would this this is worse or same as cheating by having sex?

[tragicallyinlove]

It's cheating. Just kissing another person or consider cheating. So giving a bj is far into the realm of cheating. You did the right thing.

[irishkev]

thanks. she went way to far. i even think kissing is cheating

[KimmyB]

OMG yes that is totally cheating!!! Sorry :o (

[gwenlota2442]

YES. IT. IS! dump that nasty little whore and call her a skanky slut bitch while you're doing it!

[pinkbubble]

Its actually cheating.. isn't she satisfied with u? Why would she do that :(

[irishkev]

she was. she as sum fool like

[Glasses]

That is totally cheating, any thing sexual that you do with anyone other than your partner is cheating point blank, even kissing is still cheating.

[irishkev]

i know. it got me wound up ike

[Zendrya]

It is definitely cheating.

[irishkev]

ya. it was fairly anoying like

[NatashaJ]

I thought you ask this question didn't someone ask this question already? and yes its cheating if you two were dating at the time.