Cowgirl tips
Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
• He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
• Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
• Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
• Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
• When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
• When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
• When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
• As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
• If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
• Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
• If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
• He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
• Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.
off, do some leg work outs! and don't break his dick! But really, my girlfriend struggles to go for very long at a pace we both enjoy and cowgirl by far is the way most penises get broke if they will, but it is still very rare lol
The thing is, it will feel better for you to sort of... gyrate on him, like move back and forth, which feels good for us too, don't get me wrong, but it won't get me any closer to cumming... thant needs to be up and down movement and it is much hard for a girl because obviously you are not connected to the penis, so guys know within a millisecond if their stroke is right and can adjust, where as women won't know until they have done the full movement.
My suggestion? take it slow and try a whole bunch of things out, and be sure to maintain confidence! lots of girls can feel like they are in the spot light on top and get self conscious but just remember he thinks you are sexy and wants this so live it up!
Good for him and good for me are two different things unfortunately. He likes when I bounce my ass quickly, but I really can't feel anything when I do that because my focus is on controlling my muscles and keeping rhythm. For it to feel good to me I have to either grind my clit on him (which I can't imagine he feels much of anything since I'm not going up and down) or raise myself slightly and let him thrust up.
Riding a guy can be a hard thing to get the hang of first. Be honest with him and tell him you don't have it quite down yet, and ask if you can practice on him. I guarantee he won't mind! Ask him what feels good to him, and try to figure out what feels good to you, and soon enough, you'll get it
I asked my guy and sliding up and down his penis feels the best to him. I kind of figured though, because he cums faster when I do that :P
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imagine you're riding on a mechanical bull
watch some porno fam
Pretty much. But instead of grinding, he's in you, and you riding.
watch any cowgirl porn and you'll soon get the idea.
I'll tell you when I get there
Just kinda like twerk on his dick to get that up and down movement so like... push ur back in lean forward a little just learn how to twerk then u can ride a dick
yeah, it can be the same, but you can also go up and down on his cock
The first thing you need to understand is the shape of the guy's dick you're riding. If you're in a cowgirl based position (meaning regular cowgirl or a variant) then a straight or a up curve one will be okay. A curve to the left or right or downward might mean you should take it slow until you get the hang of riding him with his curve. If it curves left your hips should move slightly to the right (your right) with each thrust. Opposite if it curves right and if it curves down possibly inward. Meaning you'd probably want your legs down. The more leverage the worst there. Otherwise you'd want more leverage (so legs up in a frog like position with hands on his chest to hold you up).
As far as reverse cowgirl (or a variant) you'd want to basically do the same thing. If he has a upcurve then you may need to keep your legs up. If it's downward curve then keeping your legs down might be better. If it's left or right then either is fine but you'd do the opposite hip turns. To hold yourself up you can grab his legs.
As far as speed it really varies with each guy. You'll have to go slow at first and then let the guy guide you. Hopefully if he wants you to go faster he'll tell you or grab your hips and motion for them to come down faster and/or harder. Pop your butt like you're twerking. Keep your thrust consistent and adjust if he wants you to.
Grinding is good, but again some guys like that and some don't. I think grinding is okay, but it's not something I like a lot of.
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