If You Like Him, How Soon before You Give Your Date a Blow Job?

A few weeks ago I recently started dating again after a 19 year hiatus. I really like the guy, but I don't want to sleep with him (yet), so I thought I might give him a blow job but I'm not sure if we've been going together long enough and I don't want to give a bad impression. Or Guys, in your experience, how long does it take for a girl to go down on you?
After 1-2 dates
Vote A
After 3-5 dates
Vote B
After 6-9 dates
Vote C
More than 10
Vote D
Other
Vote E
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I need to be comfortable enough with her because I would most certainly reciprocate. I feel the same about sex, not ready for that, but oral is ok. I would say about 3 weeks or so of dating, so I picked after 6-9 dates. Sex after about 2 months if you are wondering.

  • You really need to gauge the level of his investment and if it's equal to yours, then it's time for whatever you want to do.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Not until I've been in a relationship with him for a while.

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  • 3 to 5 , anything less will make you look to easy

  • Normally, right after Hello, my name is... :-P

  • After 2 hours?

  • When you're officially in a relationship with him. If you suck his dick now, you'll only make yourself look easy and he'll think that once you're official, there won't be much you can offer him that you haven't already done.

  • If a girl would blow me but wouldn't go all the way I'd think something was wrong with her.

  • It doesn't matter. Whenever you feel like it. This is again, one of those subjective things. Some couples become sexually active very quickly. Others wait and wait and wait. There's only way that's "right" is the way the couple in question wants it, and if the parties involved in the couple have disagreements, they either compromise or break up.

    • This is why I voted "other". Don't worry about "impression". Not all guys will be judgmental. Again, some couples have succeeded where sex happened even before the first date! There's no set time. Don't follow any arbitrary rules. Just do what you and your partner want. If you want to hold off on sexual activity for whatever reason, then that's fine. If you want to go right ahead and start fucking very early on, that's cool as well. It all depends on what the couple wants, subjectively.

  • I'm never one to complain about too early. I don't speak for all men though obviously.

  • I like at the second one

  • More than 50% before 5 days. Go gobble his nob now!

  • I am 20 and have never had my dick sucked and my sperm swallowed