Boyfriend of 5 years left me because of the lack of sex? PLEASE HELP?

[givel123]

Ill make this as short as possible. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years we have a 2 year old son. Im stressed with money because he barley makes anything and im busting my ass while he only pays for day care. Anyway I do believe i have slight depression from everything as well. The last few months everything has been rocky. Every time we would lay in bed I just instantly fall asleep, and even the thought of sex feels like a chore to me unless he initiates it. I hardly ever want it so i recently told him ( and we have talked about this for a whole year ) that i wanted to try girl on girl sex. He was in it he encouraged me to try it and record it and show him then move on to a 3some ( just so i can bring the spark back ) i was with it. So i tried it today, worst experience EVER! It disgusted me i ended up feeling like crap. I called him and told him everything. I came over his place with my son ( I had work the next day ) it was like 12:00am and i fell asleep. He finally woke me up in the middle of the night and just snapped on me saying i was a bitch im the worst girlfriend ever that i was supposed to please him since i didn't like my experience. He took the covers from me told me to sleep like that for the rest of the night. He punched my back mushed me in the face and forced me to drive home without my son or my phone. Im literally scared right now i want my son im scared to call the cops. I don't want to disrupt his family because he lives with his parents, i also have work in 3 hours. He won't let me come and get my work clothes that i left there. He said im the type of bxtch that needs to go home on a taxi since im not shxt and thats why he isn't giving me my phone. He also said if he stays with me he knows he'll cheat. Kept telling me how bad of a girlfriend i am and that we are done for good. Im sorry this sounded crammed up but this just happend 30 min ago im home without a phone! I don't know what to do :( am i wrong?

[Anonymous]

Go around there, getyour son and your work clothes. If he doesn't let you then tell him you will have to call the police.
He sounds violent. I don't think he has the right attitude to have your son at the moment since of what he did to you. It may turn nasty, and if the police are claled socials services might be also. But at the end of the day it is your son too and your work clothes. What are his family like? Are they good people?

[givel123]

they are wonderful people. My son isn't in danger he sleeps in his grandparents room. but i just don't want to call the cops they just moved into this house. Smh

[Opinion Owner]

OK well you still need your work clothes or can you borrow something from a collegue and wait for this man to calm down a bit? How he treated you last night with the covers and physical bullying is not on. I'm hopinh this is out of character for him. It is not right. I have no idea what smh means? Perhaps the best thing to do is let him calm down. But he can't try to control you by telling you can't come over and get your child and your stuff!

[abundantlyrich]

He is not worth it.. He's not putting his share into making money.

He is not even worth being called your boyfriend. Count this as a blessing and may you meet a better man... It's not worth it thinking that you are wrong. You weren't wrong. This guy is just an animal with no care and consideration for you as a human and as a spouse. He is all in it for himself.

[Pinkie9614]

He sounds like a self centered jerk... You're better off without him.

[bryon]

I have never known of having extra cericular sex , either with male or female helping a rocky relationship get better or stronger. While one may enjoy the experience , the second person will resent it and will almost always use it against the one who did it.

[Anonymous]

and that is why you dont get kids at such a young age

[Anonymous]

Call the cops. He's a physically abusive asshole.