A Girl asked me this now I ask you: What is it that makes you hot/exited about Facesitting/Queening?

[Bimbobambo]

Hey, I talked to a really awesome and open minded Girl about sex a little while ago during lunchtime at the university. What she likes and what I like and stuff like that. I answered facesitting/smothering. She asked me "Why? what is it that makes me so exited about it?". Then I just gave her this situation in my head after thinking about it: Just the imagination of her, sitting on my face with all her weight, the feel of her Controlling my breath, basically holding my life in her hands because she decides when and if I breath, that makes me exited. And then after a while, me working on her pussy with my tongue and her using my nose, grinding up and down and her juices coming out, all over my face, its even harder to breath now because its even in my nose, making the Situation less controllable, more Danger but she doesn't care, the juices getting out is a natural thing can't be stopped, I have to expect this to happen and just have to accept it, trying not to die, so she gets her pleasure. That makes me really exited. She was submissive herself and not interested at all in trying it out. So now my question is what makes you guys and Girls exited about it? Since I guess that my submissive view wraps up pretty much the opinion of most of the guys, I would love to know about the thoughts of the girl sitting on top.

[aglaia]

To me, the hardest part was to actually believe this could be enjoyable for him, since I would find it disgusting to be in such a position. No matter howmuch I like to dominate, I still care for my partner's pleasure. And hence I think about him during the things we do. Getting used to have him at a position that I would hate myself took some time. Today it is totally fine and seeing how much he likes everything my body can cover him in, I am comfortable in that position. For me, that comes along with a good portion of self-aggeandizement. If I would not believe I am kind of supernatural to him, I still could not enjoy it.
When being in that position, it is the sense of power that thrills me. That I can make him like something that is so disgusting. That he actually wants to be surtounded and flooded by my juices. That I control whether he is comfortable or passing out.
But I hate how wearing it is to keep myself up so he does not get smothered.
I really prefer him to be tied to the bed when I do this, so I can take rests on his chest without giving him the feeling of freedom. Then I use my fingers to make it hard for him to breath, before I continue "queening".
I find it hard and mostvtimes impossible to orgasm in that position. Another reason to have him tied. When I am tired of that position, I can take what I want another way without having to ask...

[Bimbobambo]

Thats actually the biggest complain women have or the complain that comes up the most. The "I have to get myself up" part also a lot of complains about the "I need to make myself lighter, thats why I hover part". Thats why I always say THIS! IS! NOT! NESSESARY! XD but a lot of you dont know. Make a game out of it. A game about him getting air. There can't be something more turn off than the woman standing up, because I know its not comfortable FOR HER and also it takes away the immersion FOR ME. So let me help you with this: you dont stand up, he just moves his head to the side for a moment, and the fun part is you can actually try to stop moving his head to the side you won't be able to but its fun because that way its even more believable, YOU JUST can't the head can always get free. Even if his whole body would be tied up but his head, this way he ALWAYS gets air. So basically you dont give him air, he gets it himself and you're still comfortable. Welcome.

[Bimbobambo]

... oh and just in case you do, dont try to make yourself lighter by hovering, thats uncomfortable for you anyways. You won't find anyone who is into facesitting who would want that. We are into facesitting because WE WANT to feel the womens weight and the pressure of her weight. Unless you're a 500 pounds monster, what you are definetly not (Your Avatar) you can just sit with all your weight. We won't die from that.

[aglaia]

Hum, gotta try out. Hope I realize when he does move his head and "steals" air. Not only to calm myself, but to count and make it a game. 4 gasps? 20 push ups to become a fitter sex-slave! Lol

[Bimbobambo]

Lol yeah for example like that. Haha. And you definetly will notice it by the way.. I couldnt Imagine how you would not.

[aglaia]

Good :) Have to admit that I did not do it quite often until now. But now it sounds like the whole thing could appeal to me much more...

[Bimbobambo]

Awesome! I wish both of you loads of fun!

[aglaia]

Thanks for mho. Especially when really you helped me, too ;)

[Bimbobambo]

Lol, no problem. Both of the girl answers are worth MHO but I just could choose one.

[Bimbobambo]

by the way, did you try it already? It was better than before right?

[aglaia]

Not really. But for short times I sit on top of him dressed quite often (whenever we mess around or playfight or so ;)). I tried sitting on his head without "hovering" and he did not complain. So I'm sure it will work when we take the time for more "exchange" someday.

[Bimbobambo]

See? I told you. Someone who is into facesitting would NEVER want hovering.

[Anonymous]

My ex wanted me to do this and I felt insecure about it and couldn't do it

But my friends with benefits asked and said he wanted me to do that And for the first time I was excited and it did turn me on.

So maybe depends on the guy and how you feel about him?
I'm not sure though as I loved my ex a lot and we were together for a long time but I couldn't do anything like that before or with him

[Bimbobambo]

I see. So the less important the person Is to you, the more are you willing to try stuff like that. Did I understand this right?

[Bimbobambo]

And also, you wrote that it made you exited and turned you on for the first time. Why? That was basically what I asked. What happened in your head that this made you exited? I made a full

[Bimbobambo]

.. explanation of what happens in my head.

[Opinion Owner]

Haha no my friends with benefits means a lot too me and I have strong feelings for him (he knew I liked him before we started). (Why) I'm really attracted to him and the way he said it came across was more sexy - if that makes sense. Because I wanted him to do that to please me (Sorry wasn't sure how to put it in words before)

[Opinion Owner]

What else went in my head is I wanted to get close pleasure him to and him pleasure me and have sex and do everything That is what went on in my end.

[Bimbobambo]

Alright! Ok I see thank you for your comment!

[Opinion Owner]

😊 not a problem

[69face]

I too love Facesitting and lite smothering I like the feeling of her cheeks on my face and most of all the fragrance of her ass! It's realy sexy and hot and makes for great 4 play. I also like going down from behind aswell.

[Bimbobambo]

Ok. Why? Why do you like it? What happens in your head?

[69face]

Well I have an ass fetish. I'm attracted to the female ass and want to worship it kiss lick smell it. I feel that when she sits on my face and I can lick pussy and breath ass it gives me satisfaction and there's no place I would rather be. I have asked my wife to fart on my face when she is sitting on it or when in licking her from behind. She has done it twice and it was amazing! I think the fact that that she's controlling my breathing and comfort with her ass is kinky and hot! And when I say breathing I don't mean fresh air if you know what I neen?

[69face]

What about you?

[Bimbobambo]

Already wrote it. Read the Text^^