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Is this what I get for being a size queen?

Whenever I'm asked about the size dick I prefer, I say 7 or 8 incher. its because thats what Im used to after having had sex with one person who was those sizes over time. Yet, I just liked looking at his dick. It was pretty but it didn't quite satisfy me. I guess it was too long cause sometimes I felt it in my belly and I hear thats kind of dangerous. Well in my dreams, anyone I have sex with always has a dick the size of a finger haha. Its weird but it always pleases me. Its definitely not something I want to look at, but it feels so good. I find this odd. Maybe its because I always got more pleasure from him fingering me than when we actually had sex?
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  • I think this has nothing to do with size, and everything to do with the guy you were dating, and the fact that you felt guilty while doing.

    Find the right guy who actually treats you well inside and outside the bedroom, in a situation in which you feel ready for sex, and you'll be satisfied. This size issue won't be much of a thought.

  • maybe his dick wasn't stimulating your g spot but his fingers were... dreams are crazy, they sometimes make NO sense. haha! it probably is because the fingers were pleasurable tho :)

    • Lol okay

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  • Everyone has preferences, so if that's the size you prefer then there's nothing wrong with it. Only if you meet a guy who is great in every way, but is below your ideal size and you shun him, then you'll be called a size queen.

    • Ohhh okay I didn't know. I just think is weird that I loved looking at his 8 incher, yet its feeling didn't please me

    • Ha, it's just a fascination that may or may not pass. He could be 10" but if he don't know how to use it, and just rams your cervix, it won't feel that good. It's usually how you use it. And most girls have a orgasm from clitoral stimulation, then vagina, so that's probably why you prefer his fingers lol.

    • Well I've never orgasmed. I've been wet, but I've never orgasmed period

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  • Your dreams are about what you need and not what you get. I'm over sized and have had gfs that worshiped him. The feeling in your belly: is it painful?

    • Yea it was odd and a bit painful, but not quite. I mean he had a pretty dick, but its never made me orgasm. His finger never made me orgasm either, but it felt hell of a lot better. I could take like 2-3 of his fingers. But yea I've never orgasmed ever. I've been wet, but no orgasm

    • What positions have you really tried? Not just a one time thing but given a real chance?

    • Well I wasn't trying to have sex anyways. I just gave in to shut him up. We've had sex in many places, but all consisted of missionary or basically any move with dick to vagina. Also, I never allowed him to hit me from behind. I dont think Id be into that

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  • From my understanding, the vaginal canal is only 4-6 inches deep, but with arousal can extend up to 8 inches. However, the G-spot it's only about 2 inches in.

    • Well I never let him stickit all the way in except for that once that I felt it in my stomach, and that hurt like hell

    • That is the result of what is commonly referred to as bottoming out. Which means he was slamming into your cervix. As an 8+ incher myself, that is something that a man needs to be very VERY careful of. Most women that I know of need to be extremely aroused to be able to handle that kind of intercourse. You are not alone. But I was actually trying to explain why your dreams tend to have something smaller penetrating you.

    • Ohhhhh okay haha

  • wow... that does seem weird.

    • Lol I think I just prefer being fingered haha

    • I don't know maybe the guy you were with that has the big dick just isn't very good in bed? I'm no expert, but I can't imagine fingers feeling better than GOOD intercourse. And most girls I've talked to say as long as it's not super huge or super tiny, its fine. The guy just has to be good at doing it.

    • Yea well I never really let him do his job fully because I didn't even want to have sex. He only made me moan once of all the times we did it. The other times I sadly faked it

  • You have the right to have preferences. As long as you are respectful with the guys you are with, I don't see a problem with you prefering bigger dicks. Laughing at a guy's penis is just cruel though. Have you tried a more normal sized one? You could have just as much fun if not more given he has never made you orgasm.

    • Well He was my first boyfriend and the only guy that I will have had sex with before marriage. Im not trying to have sex. If my future husband is small, I will just learn to love it. Then again, I may look at it before I marry him, but im not trying to sex anyone else before marriage

  • a couple of things:
    1) feeling it in your belly is not dangerous. When it comes to vaginal sex, as long as there is no pain, there isn't really anything to worry about.
    2) actually, there was a study done a while back I heard about on the radio. They found a correlation between penis size and cheating wives. If you are 'well hung' your spouse is something like 50% more likely to cheat on you.

    • Why would I cheat on him if he's gotta long john? I dont like no wide willy though lol

    • really? wouldn't it be the opposite?

    • I didn't say you would cheat on him. I'm only saying that of the women who cheat, half of them are with hung men. Keep in mind that correlation does not mean causation - it could be that women who are with hung men are just huge fans of cock, and don't want to settle for just one. @Bandit74 you'd think it would be the opposite, but they found no correlation between 'small' men and cheating spouses.

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  • I think you're still trying to figure out what you like.

    • Well looks wise, I clearly go for length haha. But apparently its the finger sized item that pleases me? Lol

    • Have you been with a guy with a small one or just experienced his finger?

    • I've only been with one guy. We dated a long time, so over the years he went from 7 to 9 inches. 7 never really hit the spot. 8 was perfecto, and 9 was painful. However, I wasn't really into having sex. Its like I gave in to give him what e wanted, but I wasn't getting that same satisfaction. So when he started fingering me, I noticed that I preferred his hand over his penis

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  • this story is tragic, truly heartbreaking 😢

    • Lol why is that haha

  • Well, I am 7.5 inches and I can tell you that you will have a lot of trouble finding tall, big dick, rich men, like me that most women want.

    • Lmao. I dont care if he's tall or rich. Those factors dont matter. I actually prefer someone short like me. My ex however was 6'2, but he was far from rich. Apparently, I prefer finger to dick anyways lol

    • Stop lying to yourself. You are just trying to deflate my ego. Are you really telling me you don't prefer taller men with bigger dicks? and that have good jobs? COME ON!! If so, how tall do you prefer?

    • Well I dont have a job right now. Im in school. As long as he's doing something with his life, money isn't important at the moment. Also, I want someone short like me because it'll seem easier for both us. I prefer height of 5'7 I guess

  • r u in facebook if yes tell me ur user name i will send frnd request tell in message

    • We have nothing to discuss haha

    • just asked r u there

    • No I dont have facebook

  • well, message me we have some to talk about

  • Ehm wow

  • Your vagina must gaping like the Channel Tunnel.

    • What? I mean he broke my virginity with a 7 incher. So as long as we dated, I just got used to it. We didn't have sex often or anything. I just gave in sometimes to shut him up. I never even let him stick t all the way in because it was so long. It took the 4th time we had sex (not the same day) for him to finally make me bleed

    • Dude chill. You're getting out of hand. I've never even orgasmed. Maybe if I would have let him do all that back to me then, I would have... But thats not me. Sounds like you're into some nasty things lol

  • haha thats funny!

  • I have to ask. You do realize 8" is almost three times the width of your hand? I mean, make fists and stack them then imagine another hand on top of that. You are saying your guy was that big?

    • Ew he's no wear near the circumference of our fist. Thats too wide. Also, I said I never let him stick it all the way in except for that once it hit my stomach and that was painful

    • No I meant that's eight inches long. The average woman's hands are 2.9" across the palm so your hands stacked one on top of another three high would be 8.7". I was suggesting you stack your hands to give yourself a better idea of just how big 8" long is. Basically you could put both your hands on it and still have plenty to put in your mouth during a blowjob.

    • I dont suck dick. Thats nasty to me just like anal. Sorry lol

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  • Of course, in a vagina of this size:

    i.telegraph.co.uk/.../newyork2_2467494b.jpg

    every penis will feel like a pinky.

    • Dude. I've never had sex or done anything sexual until him. We didn't even have sex a full month because it was sort of painful and unsatisfying.

  • Interesting... u care to message me?

    • Are you saying so have a fingersized dick? Lol

    • *you*

    • Haha no.

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