Girls, why are all my girl friends turning bi?

[hadleyloveu]

I don't know why they all r turning bi i mean i dont have a problem with that just wondering what other girls think about this i might as well turn bi to lol

[FriedChickeneisha]

Turning? Or were they always. I don't think it is so much confusion or experimentation like others claim, but more of a misunderstanding. A lot of women are bi. In fact some studies claim that women are naturally bisexual creatures. Part of the reason that so many women who call themselves hetero enjoy lesbian porn. I think what a lot of people misunderstand is that just because you are physically or sexually attracted to girls also, doesn't mean that you want to be involved romantically or be in a relationship with them. I identify as heterosexual, even though I consider myself bisexual, but heteroromantic, because that is easier to understand and people won't assume I want to pursue relationships with women. I think a lot of females fall into the bisexual but heteroromamtic category, but just are a little confused and coming out as bi now. They assume that since they are attracted to females they want to be with them, which is not always the case. And times are changing, so along with that that is why so many people are coming out

[LittleSally]

I think they're just under the influence of media and they want to. experiment
What are the chances all of your friends are bisexual? Really?

They're experimenting or they're posers - dim-wittingly trying to 'fit in' by pretending to be bisexual. They're in that age range.

[hadleyloveu]

not all of them only some my closes friends thanks

[DessieDoo]

Its a phase. In high school guys are assholes. Therefore, more and more girls go after the females instead of the men. They will eventually stop. But I feel like a lot of females go through this phase at one point in there life. I used to date women and I am still very attracted to women although I don't think I would ever date a woman again.

[Onlyinit4fun]

Look, turning bi.. you can't. Just like you don't turn to be straight or gay. It's not a choice.

I always knew from since forever that I felt sexual attraction to all types of people. In my case, no change so no it's not a phase (bisexuality/pansexuality is just as real as heterosexuality and homosexuality or asexuality).

But yeah, some of your friends could be going through a fase where they want to experiment. And this is one thing we women have an advantage on men, men are not allowed to experiment with the same sex without being branded homosexual. This is a double standard that works in our favour. Female-female = ok, male-male= not ok. And this is because of male dominant view. Men enjoy watching 2 women getting it on and fantasize about being the 3rd person. But they are disgusted by male-male sex. That's why religion also focusses more on homosexual behaviour among men.. and not homosexual behaviou among women. (religion is not devine, is man made.. literally MAN)

[GirlsLie]

It could be a number of things honestly.

Some of them may legitimately be bi but didn't feel comfortable saying so until now.

Some may just feel pressured into it or want the attention from it, like some girls do.

Also some may not have noticed they actually liked girls until now, our sexual preferences can change/evolve through out our lives.

I know that right now i'm more attracted/open to things than I was when I was younger and currently the things that I liked when I was younger, I no longer like as much lol so that could be the case for some of them as well.

[Tealtop1]

sameeeee! like i'm the only girl in my group (other than one other girl) who is 100% straight. I don't care what they're into, but it's very odd to me... perplexing

[love2run13]

To be honest I think its cuz social media makes it really cool to be bi so some of them may be "turning bi" cuz it gets more attention or so they think

[SarahsSummer]

They aren't neccessarily turning bi but rather experimenting to see what they like more. Don't be surprised if many of them go back to just liking guys. I kissed a girl and I liked it but now I only want guys.

[drummergirl18]

Well if your 16 it's around the age that people typically start experimenting. They could just be no curious

[hadleyloveu]

yer that's true

[Crayne]

You don't turn bi first of all

and for a majority of people, they fall on a spectrum.

I think it's pretty rare for someone to EXCLUSIVELY be attracted to one gender or the other, and I really think that most people in the world like both (or other genders)

Most people tend to ignore the part that's attracted to the same sex if it's a rare occurrence.

But yeah bisexuality is extremely common, and for some people our age it's just experimental.

[Zendrya]

They didn't turn bi... They are bi or bi curious... Wish my friends were bi/lesbians haha

[ixi10]

I think because it's a trendy thing to call themselves